Secrets of a good blow-job

Most women (and gay men) have experienced jaw soreness from giving fellatio. In fact, it takes most people a few weeks of giving regular fellatio to not feel sore afterwards. In addition to practice, there are some secrets to giving good fellatio. If you are a man, please stop reading here. This tip is for females only.

Use your mouth for the tip of the penis, and let your hand to the rest of the work. This technique is most effective when you lubricate the shaft of his penis with copious amounts of saliva. The combination of a ‘hand-job’ and a ‘blow-job’ enables you to provide your partner with more stimulation than just ‘deep throating’ him. In addition, you are saving your jaw a lot of work. Using your hand and mouth actually enables you to become more creative. You can have your hand and mouth moving in the same direction, opposite directions, sideways. In addition, you could use your mouth on his balls, while your hand is focused on the tip of his penis. Lastly, you can use one of your fingers in his anus, as your other hand is on his ball and your tongue is licking his penis. Trust me, with all this additional stimulation, he will never even notice that you are no longer even attempting to deep throat him. Remember, by taking less of him into your mouth at once, you will a) no longer get sore and b) become more creative in how you use your hands!

A common mistake that women make is to rush into giving fellatio without the proper foreplay. By the time you actually get around to putting your mouth on his penis, he should be so aroused that he will not be able to last very long. The build up is an often forgotten about phase that is critical. Thus, take a few minutes and ask yourself, prior to giving fellatio, how have you excited him? In what ways have you enticed him to want sex?

Lastly, do not forget, you can always tell your partner that it is a ‘turn-on’ to watch him masturbate. Then, when he is close to orgasm, you can join him by placing your mouth over his penis. This way, you do not have to do all the work yourself. In addition, to getting him to help bring himself to orgasm without his knowledge, you can also be taking notes on how he likes to be touched. Sometimes watching is more informative than verbal communication

__________________

Cunnilingus

Many novices begin cunnilingus (oral sex) by spreading the woman's legs apart and putting their mouth on her genitals. They then begin licking, sucking and nibbling the various parts of her vulva. The only technique used is one of pure luck. Whatever gets touched, gets touched. Unfortunately for the woman receiving the stimulation, what often gets overlooked is the actual way the tongue is being used to arouse her. The partner often is so focused on covering all the genital parts and exploring that she/he forgets that it is not only what is being touched, but the way it is being touched that is critical. Thus, to begin any kind of detailed discussion on cunnilingus requires a discussion on tongue usage. There are six primary types of tongue positions. Each tongue position has its own unique role in the art of love making, and of course, its own special exercise program to strengthen not only the tongue muscles, but a person's voluntary control over its usage.

The next time that you are engaging in cunnilingus, pay attention to the way that you use your tongue. Try to determine which category of tongue technique you usually find yourself using. Why is that? Was that a conscious choice? Did your partner tell you that she likes it better that way, or this way? The next time that the two of you are together, try switching your tongue positions and see how that influences her reaction to your forms of touch.

The six primary types of tongue positions used in cunnilingus are the following:

*The sharp, wide tongue: To achieve this position, stick your tongue as far out of your mouth as possible, then try to touch your nose. Once you are in this position, hold the same muscle groups still and begin moving your tongue around. Practice five sets of three, moving the tongue first in circular motions, then up and down.

*The sharp, round tongue: To achieve this position, point your tongue while simultaneously trying to make the top of your tongue touch the roof of your mouth and the bottom of your tongue touch the bottom of your mouth. Once you are in this position, practice moving your tongue in and out of your mouth while keeping the tongue hard and round. For the more advanced student, try keeping your mouth closed and circling your tongue around inside of it, while of course, maintaining position.

*Flat, soft, wide tongue: To achieve this position, flatten your tongue in your mouth. Try to make your tongue rest gently on the bottom teeth. Once you have accomplished this, slowly, while holding the position, move your tongue outside the mouth. Practice curling the wide tip of the tongue upward, downward and side to side. This too, practice for five sets of three, while holding each move for 2 seconds.

*Flat, hard, wide tongue: To achieve this position, flatten your tongue in your mouth. Cover all your bottom teeth with your mouth. Using some force, try to explode your tongue in all the side positions. Using all the muscles in your tongue, try to move your tongue around. Move it both in and out of your mouth, while maintaining the position of evenly wide and hard.

*Upside down tongue: To achieve this position, turn your tongue upside down in your mouth. Then try sticking it outside of your mouth, all the while maintaining the position.

*Side curled tongue: To achieve this position, curl the two sides of your tongue until the two sides of your tongue touch each other. Then stick your tongue outside of your mouth. While maintaining position, practice circling your tongue clockwise and counter-clockwise. For the more advanced tongue student, try combining tongue positions. See if you can create some other ones that have not been included in this e-mail.

Take each tongue position (The sharp wide tongue, The sharp round tongue, Flat soft wide tongue, Flat hard wide tongue, Upside down tongue, Side curled tongue) and begin generically touching each part of your partner's vulva. This is actually harder than it sounds. Most often people find themselves forgetting to stay true to form and loosen up. This will not do. You must hold the position. Many people find that doing the tongue exercises, mentioned in the previous tips while touching a particular part of her vulva extremely helpful. As you go, as her if she likes choice A or choice B better. This will guide you to discover your partners likes and dislikes.

* Some people report that using flavored oils on your partner's vulva while doing these exercises can be especially rewarding for a hard workout well done!

__________________

Halo brothers out there , can anyone tell me that sex will cause blood in urine? i had sex with my lover one week before her check up. The doctor say she is sexually active which i dont think so . By the way we only have sex twice in the month . Please advise
By the way she had menopause . Is it that vagina dryness will affect ? Is there any supplement to take for my lover?

alamak this should go under the health section la. please Om sam to move it....anyway...

Blood in the urine may or may not be accompanied by pain, but it is always abnormal and should be further investigated by a healthcare professional. Painful blood in the urine can be caused by a number of disorders, including infections and stones in the urinary tract. Painless blood in the urine can also be due to many causes, including cancer. Blood in the urine is also referred to as hematuria. Visible blood in the urine is referred to as gross hematuria, while blood in the urine that is not visible to the naked eye is referred to as microscopic hematuria. Having prolonged rough sex might cause hematospermia too. Also no recurrences of blood mean there is no/little cause for serious alarm; otherwise.....

u can see here for more details.

http://www.medicinenet.com/blood_in_urine/article.htm

go see another doctor to be sure..

__________________

What is "Love Swing - written by Alex Robboy L.S.W"?

Ever wonder how to have good sex if you have a bad back? Are out of shape? Pregnant? Or simply adventurous? If any one of these descriptions fit you, you may want to consider experimenting with what we call the love swing.

Love Swings are swings designed specifically for sex. People use these swings to help them make certain positions more comfortable. For example, a pregnant woman may benefit from the support of the swing because it holds her weight while she is having intercourse with her husband. Essentially, the swing will enable you to engage in a wider variety of positions for sexual stimulation. In addition, the swing will increase your physical stamina for movement (think basic exercise). By using the swing to create movement, you will find yourself sweating less from the physical work-out and more from the sexual excitement of what is going on.

Love swings come in many different shapes and sizes. The degree of variability is similar to the variations among vibrators, walkmans and even desks. While the basic principle of the love swing is the same, they will vary depending upon brand.

TLC makes a love swing that has back, butt and leg supports. This type of swing is especially good for cunnilingus. To help the man get a good angle to perform cunnilingus, the woman uses the swing to stabilize her in what looks like a back-bend. Without the swing, most women as they approach orgasm would lose their balance and fall.

Another option is to have the woman sit in the chair, while leaning slightly forward, and the man can then enter her from the rear (vaginal or anal). This position is similar to doggy style, accept that the woman is sitting upright and the man is standing behind her. The positions are endless.

One of the best attributes of a love swing is that it makes even the most out of shape person able to have a lot of movement without taxing themselves. Basically, the swing does the work, while you are along for the ride!

http://www.xxxfreesexchat.com/TO/1451-7.JPG

__________________

i have post this before...

if picture cannot be seen due to heavy traffic... try again later..

Different Types of CUNT..

http://www.geocities.com/thewise3000/CB1.jpg

or click on this link if you cannot see
http://www.geocities.com/thewise3000/CB1.jpg

http://img397.imageshack.us/img397/1794/cb11yn.th.jpg

__________________

types of CUNT - No 2

if picture cannot be seen due to heavy traffic... try again later..

http://www.geocities.com/thewise3000/CB2.jpg

link here
http://www.geocities.com/thewise3000/CB2.jpg

http://img353.imageshack.us/img353/6791/cb29vu.th.jpg

__________________

types of CUNT - No 3
if picture cannot be seen due to heavy traffic... try again later..

http://www.geocities.com/thewise3000/CB3.jpg

http://www.geocities.com/thewise3000/CB3.jpg

http://img353.imageshack.us/img353/1968/cb30ic.th.jpg

__________________

types of CUNT - No 4
if picture cannot be seen due to heavy traffic... try again later..

http://www.geocities.com/thewise3000/CB4.jpg

or link here

http://www.geocities.com/thewise3000/CB4.jpg

http://img353.imageshack.us/img353/1135/cb42yq.th.jpg

__________________

types of CUNT - No 5
if picture cannot be seen due to heavy traffic... try again later..

http://www.geocities.com/thewise3000/CB5.jpg

or link here

http://www.geocities.com/thewise3000/CB5.jpg

http://img353.imageshack.us/img353/4765/cb52ds.th.jpg

__________________

types of CUNT - No 6
if picture cannot be seen due to heavy traffic... try again later..

http://www.geocities.com/thewise3000/CB6.jpg

or link here

http://www.geocities.com/thewise3000/CB6.jpg

http://img353.imageshack.us/img353/8985/cb67qu.th.jpg

__________________

types of CUNT - No 7
if picture cannot be seen due to heavy traffic... try again later..

http://www.geocities.com/thewise3000/CB7.jpg

or link here

http://www.geocities.com/thewise3000/CB7.jpg

http://img353.imageshack.us/img353/796/cb78xi.th.jpg

__________________

types of CUNT - No 8

http://www.geocities.com/thewise3000/CB8.jpg

or link here

http://www.geocities.com/thewise3000/CB8.jpg

__________________

types of CUNT - No 9

if picture cannot be seen it is due to heavy traffic.. .. try again later

http://www.geocities.com/thewise3000/CB9.jpg

or link here

http://www.geocities.com/thewise3000/CB9.jpg

__________________

very helpful! but can we have a translation pls? not everyone understands chinese. Tks.