http://www.sammyboyforum.com/ en Wed, 30 May 2012 07:33:15 GMT vBulletin 60 http://www.sammyboyforum.com/styles/images_pb/misc/rss.jpg http://www.sammyboyforum.com/ http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=288512&goto=newpost Wed, 30 May 2012 04:32:30 GMT Hi all,

I just got back from a trip with some friends, and i have known one of the girls for quite some time.

At first things were okay between us, but we started to hang out together during meals, wonder off on our own during trips out, visited each other's rooms frequently to have lunch, dinner and watching movies.

I managed to get close to her several times, play tumbling with each other on the bed, talking to each other on the bed with physical contact, momentarily touching hands/legs. When we're out and no one's looking, she would stand very close with contact.

I thought we had something going between us, judging from the attention I seem to get from her. I proceed to up the ante and started massaging her legs one night. Before long she said she wanted to go back to her room.

After that things went down and we got a little distant for a while. then she started coming over to my room again, but this time i kind of drew a line judging from the response I got that night.

I came back feeling kinda frustrated/disappointed.

Any ideas how to intepret this?

Confused. :confused: ]]> Matters of the Heart. JohnG12 http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=288512 http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=288312&goto=newpost Tue, 29 May 2012 08:58:41 GMT someone u know online and have met up a few times?:confused: someone u know online and have met up a few times?:confused: ]]> Matters of the Heart. samyboys http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=288312 http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=288301&goto=newpost Tue, 29 May 2012 07:33:53 GMT Broke up with my ex few months already. He has moved on but I have not. It is said that men can separate sex and emotions while it is the opposite for women generally.

I was warned by my friends before that after intimacy, the girl will feel more emotionally attached. I don't know if this is the case for me or is it because I really love him in the first place. He was the first bf to have such level of intimacy with me. ]]> Matters of the Heart. Xenna http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=288301 http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=288142&goto=newpost Mon, 28 May 2012 14:40:25 GMT :confused: i need help! my gf is pregnant. im poor cos i still schooling. anyone knows a cheap place for abortion? by the way my gf is not a singaporean. :confused: i need help! my gf is pregnant. im poor cos i still schooling. anyone knows a cheap place for abortion? by the way my gf is not a singaporean. ]]> Matters of the Heart. badboy123 http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=288142 http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=288027&goto=newpost Mon, 28 May 2012 04:29:44 GMT 【 STAGE 1 (1-3 Months): The Honeymoon Stage 】

Everything seems perfect, both are happy and feeling “in love.” You share moments, dates and just having fun with each other, sharing laughs and giggles. It’s like nothing could stop you. Your feelings are infinite, and for once you’re thinking, “This may work out….” and it seems like nothing could go wrong. You spend hours getting ready before going out with this person.

*If your relationship ended in this stage — Most likely, both rushed into the relationship too quickly. Being together was all too sudden and just for the moment. When one starts noticing the flaws, one gets a choice to move foward, or back away. Being friends has a high percentage of working out, but nothing to stress over. Both may just need the time to get to know one another better. ]]> Matters of the Heart. machoman http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=288027 http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=287953&goto=newpost Sun, 27 May 2012 18:02:45 GMT know this prc girl for 2 yrs
went to see her; she came from her home to meet me in town (7 hr journey)
problem her noisy fatty sis join making it one person too crowded； question she need her sis to tell her parents she joining her sis and not me in town
the 3 of us went visiting places
she slept with her sis (she on the far side of the bed away from me on another bed)
she dint allow me to snap her foto；

she took the trouble to meet me yet so like that; i just couldnt figure if she is for real？ ]]> Matters of the Heart. prccuntlover http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=287953 http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=287178&goto=newpost Thu, 24 May 2012 20:42:14 GMT Can't sleep. Too excited about my appointment with a WL for a whole afternoon touring Singapore before she go back in a week or two time. We have been seeing each other more than every other day for the past 2weeks. Fantastic lady. Beautiful due to her mix-parentage, great GF feeling.

I think I have taken my liking for Korean drama a bit too far. But, I've developed great KC with her, who are partially Korean, and just hope to give her a good memory during her remaining stay. This is and will certainly be a memorable KC experience for me... Not just the sex, but also the connecions.

I would have wished to carry on the relationship after she goes back, but I've been cheong-ing for too long now to know these long distance relationship would not last.

So just enjoy the time while we can and saviour the memory.

------------------------

Have been cheog-ing for almost 5 good long years now. Started going to more sizable HC, served mainly by Malaysian and local FLs; then to smaller, more secretive club that screened for membership, which are mainly served by PRC; then cheog-ing occasionally when in overseas, Thailand... NZ...; and then PRC freelancers; and finally, more recently, Korean FLs.

Countless of KC experiences, as I prefer to spend time with FL that knows what I expect and that I know well. Of course non of these relationship can last after the FLs went back to their home town and I am too rooted to my real life to give it up. Nevertheless, each of this KC experiences with different FLs gives me great memories.

It is time for me to move on. So this FL I'm going out with later today, let's call her A, should be my last KC experience and her return should also be the end of the Cheong-ing life. Hence, I'm making the most out of this last relationship with A; and posting some of my more memorable KCs experiences here to mark the end of my life as a cheongster.

Not sure if anyone would be interested. But for those who eventually read this. Hope it helps in managing your matters of the heart with FLs. ]]> Matters of the Heart. jet89 http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=287178 http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=287062&goto=newpost Thu, 24 May 2012 09:35:57 GMT Hi All, Have met this Guangzhou freelance thru internet and after a overnight session, find her quite nice and friendly, is it ok to ask her out for a meal or some dates? If she agrees? just for a companion. Hi All,
Have met this Guangzhou freelance thru internet and after a overnight session, find her quite nice and friendly, is it ok to ask her out for a meal or some dates? If she agrees? just for a companion. ]]> Matters of the Heart. Manofwords http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=287062 http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=286960&goto=newpost Wed, 23 May 2012 22:06:42 GMT Hello fellow brothers/sis out there,

I'm writing on behalf of a very depressed and worried brother, the story goes like this:

He recently met up with an old FL (met thru chatline) whom he met last year, after the meeting, the FL mentioned to him that she recently gave birth n said that she suspects him as the father!

She told him that she wont disturb his life but that she only wanted him to take a DNA test to prove or disprove his paternity status.

At first he was relieved because it was a shock to him to receive the news.

But after a few weeks the FL suddenly text him and said that she will get her social worker to be in touch with the guy and force him to take DNA test unless he complies with certain amount every month.

He is now very depressed and does not know what to do..

I told him that if he isn't careful the gal might bully him and ask for more or threaten him..

So far the gal knows his workplace and house address and number, but not his personal details like name, age etc...


Anyone out there can advise or know where he can find help?

Thanks for the time, let this be a lesson to all of us to be more careful -cheers ]]> Matters of the Heart. Royalhunt http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=286960 http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=286959&goto=newpost Wed, 23 May 2012 22:02:52 GMT Hello fellow brothers/sis out there,

I'm writing on behalf of a very depressed and worried brother, the story goes like this:

He recently met up with an old FL (met thru chatline) whom he met last year, after the meeting, the FL mentioned to him that she recently gave birth n said that she suspects him as the father!

She told him that she wont disturb his life but that she only wanted him to take a DNA test to prove or disprove his paternity status.

At first he was relieved because it was a shock to him to receive the news.

But after a few weeks the FL suddenly text him and said that she will get her social worker to be in touch with the guy and force him to take DNA test unless he complies with certain amount every month.

He is now very depressed and does not know what to do..

I told him that if he isn't careful the gal might bully him and ask for more or threaten him..

So far the gal knows his workplace and house address and number, but not his personal details like name, age etc...


Anyone out there can advise or know where he can find help?

Thanks for the time, let this be a lesson to all of us to be more careful -cheers ]]> Matters of the Heart. Royalhunt http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=286959 http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=286893&goto=newpost Wed, 23 May 2012 01:30:43 GMT Bros, need advise on how to get wife to stop contacting chatters she got to know online. Before I met and married my wife, she had a close relationship with an Indian doc from India though she had not met him in real life. She felt that he was always there for her when she was going through a... Bros, need advise on how to get wife to stop contacting chatters she got to know online.
Before I met and married my wife, she had a close relationship with an Indian doc from India though she had not met him in real life. She felt that he was always there for her when she was going through a rough patch of her life prior to knowing me.
Our marriage was on the rocks some years back when I was suffering from depression due to work. She met up with the bastard while he was in SG for a few days and allowed him to kiss and touch her breasts. I found out abt it and confronted her to which she strongly denied.
Last year, this doc has been invited to SG thanks to our govt's foreign talent policy and is currently working in Khoo Teck Phat Hospital as an anastasiologist. She still keeps in touch with him despite my many requests to stop doing it.
I know what chatters are like. They are just waiting to bed the girls for free. They are going to meet again. What should I do? My wife keeps using him to threaten me all the time. I am about to snap. I can't take the stress and work as the breadwinner.
Help! ]]> Matters of the Heart. parrotkid http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=286893 http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=286785&goto=newpost Mon, 21 May 2012 20:56:38 GMT Hi bros, i really need advise and ur view on my story... it all started 1 month ago, i got to knew a gal from online. she is mixed blood, from middle east and india. her features and looks v exotic and pretty and i like her at the first sight. I confessed to her after our 3rd meet, she also... Hi bros, i really need advise and ur view on my story...

it all started 1 month ago, i got to knew a gal from online. she is mixed blood, from middle east and india. her features and looks v exotic and pretty and i like her at the first sight. I confessed to her after our 3rd meet, she also confess so we became together. it been almost a month and everyday we sweet tok alot, and met almost everyday... her family is very rich, at least a thousand time richer than me. i really love her alot but theres alot thing tat come between us...

maybe its cultural differences, everytime we "Dirty tok" it always end up wierd... we makeout alot but we stop at there. we din have sex as we couldnt get a place. both our parents are at home often and so we din bring each other home yet as our parents yet to meet us. she always pester me to get a place and she refuse hotel saying it makes her feel cheap. i can totally understand and respect that so we promise nt to end up there. I think its becos singaporean r more open minded, im ok to do it in the car however she refuses but i have no issue. and by getting a place, we seriously have no idea where also so tis topic always get no where.

sex wise, she is very unexperience and she gets angry or even disgusted when she heard me saying abt "fingering" or even blowjob. so i guess no way im getting heads but its fine thou. I just find sometimes when we tok abt sex, im pressured as certain things i say will offend her.

The most scary thing abt tis gal is she is extremely smart ( IQ 148 according to a test she took ). she conducted 2 test on me. first test, when our relationship is prolly 1 week-2weeks ago, she msg me and seduce me on the phone tempting me to her hse. I refuses as i really like her and dowan to disrespect her. I passed her "test" and she say she is glad i didnt come or else she would nv see me again.

2nd test, she asked me to follow her home and we reach the carpark she is trying to seduce me all out and everything. for some unknown reason, i passed the test as I refuse to enter her house. she say she is glad im such a nice guy...

our relationship has progress to the stage where we r both ready for sex, just lack of location. we sweet tok often on whatsapp or sms, but she sometimes dun reply. she also has wierd tempers but she dun vent on me with regards to her personal stuff.

all the bros reading able to gif me ur view, to make tis workout becos i tink i found someone i really like and im really surprise she love me alot too despite im nt super handsome or rich. some of my frens say tis is like movies, the way we met and how we ended up... but really stress and sad sometimes wen we argue abit etc... ]]> Matters of the Heart. proxyreaper http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=286785 http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=286484&goto=newpost Fri, 18 May 2012 15:18:53 GMT hi i just wish to have some advise currently i just join a sub company of Singapore technologies electronic as a technician but after i go in i realist that the job are very boring n the job skill i learn are really use less as it all military equipment not related to private company, now i have a... hi i just wish to have some advise currently i just join a sub company of Singapore technologies electronic as a technician but after i go in i realist that the job are very boring n the job skill i learn are really use less as it all military equipment not related to private company, now i have a offer from Siemens medical in the biomedical industry they offer me a position as a production technician which offer better pay and benefit and better career prospect but in my mind Singapore technologies electronic offer a more stable job compare to Siemens medical so if it you guy which would u choice a better prospect or better stability? Government job or private sector job? ]]> Matters of the Heart. kiatwong http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=286484 http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=286405&goto=newpost Fri, 18 May 2012 05:27:54 GMT First post ever so seeking honest feedback. First ever gf while in secondary school, while young and naive, always had a special spot for her despite us never ever having any debaucherous adult engagements except for the handholding and innocent smooches. We parted our infactuation ways but... First post ever so seeking honest feedback.

First ever gf while in secondary school, while young and naive, always had a special spot for her despite us never ever having any debaucherous adult engagements except for the handholding and innocent smooches. We parted our infactuation ways but still kept in longterm absent contact.

We moved along our own ways as we grew and were mostly catch up friends of a missing getback opportunity scenarios (when i broke up with my gf she was with someone and when she was off with her end, I was with another gf) nevertheless when we caught up, it always seemed to never had missed any of the long term abscence that was there. We would get straight back into conversations and chats like it was just the same without any discomfort of abscence. Never did we ever say when we will have this abscence and when we prearrange a catch up again but it was always very pleasurable to hear from her again and i hope/believe likewise vice versa.

Fast forward, I am married (and am still with kids) while she was too but have since divorced (with a kid) and in our 30s. The last time we caught up was 6 years ago before i left with family for overseas career. While surprising, we always maintained the same numbers and last week we smsed to surprise that it was so. We immediately caught up for dinner and drinks and it seems like this catch up was diffferently positive, we chatted more and have been doing so every day during business hours during lunch of over the phone.

The soft spot should ease considering the infactuations of teen vs how much aged we are presently to jump into any recklessness unfortunately it does not seem so on my part, dunno if she is so to keeping it platonic since we are like excitable bunnies when we meet and catch up.

Am still very much physically attracted to her and excitable to want to see her more as to me she is still the same in personality and character albeit an even more mature lady than what she was everytime we met. Do not know if she feels the same though always obliging to meet yet as a hidden principle not to call after hours knowing i am with family, when we meet, it feels sparkly.

Am not very sure anymore if this is hinging on remininscence or nostalgia cos the tingling feels seems always there growing as we meet despite the abscence. This again is possibly one of the missing getback opportunity scenarios but would it be then a wayward temptation for us to finally succumb in a moment passion if she does feel the same? What would you do in this predicament.... both logical or emotional or physical? ]]> Matters of the Heart. Ramone http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=286405 http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=286367&goto=newpost Thu, 17 May 2012 22:48:18 GMT hello all,

just needed a place to rant. I have been a silent reader for a week here to learn stuff on how to spice things up in the bedroom. my boyfriend is a nsf and his unit is super shiong -start training at 6am and go back to his bunk at 4am the next day. no admin time so we can't chat at all, and he will book out either on sat night or sun morning for the next few months. Its really frustrating and making me super tired :( ugh. ]]> Matters of the Heart. winterwhite http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=286367