Miscellaneous ramblings of a cheongster - Page 2 - Singapore-Asian Commercial Sex Discussions

DO_YOU_BJ · #16 (**permalink**) 29-03-2009, 04:29 PM

Life's a bitch isnt it.......
When you're not married and see others marry, you wish you were
When you're married and you see those singles enjoy fruits of singlehood, you wish you were too.....
Hahaha, this will have no end and no beginning.
The only end to it is when one finds self fulfillment, if not, they can marry divorce and be single again and get married they'll still not find the end!

goodpartner · #17 (**permalink**) 30-03-2009, 12:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Panamera

A relationship by definition requires compromise, and compromise means the "loss" of absolute freedom.

...most guys are not ready to surrender their “Absolute Freedom” until say their late 30's, and nowadays probably the early 40's.

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Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Life's a bitch isnt it.......

Yeah right, the above sums up my thoughts and life controversial.

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Originally Posted by Panamera

I would still prefer commitment and all the happiness and sense of purpose it brings to life.

It's true with age, this sense of purpose will become stronger, regardless of what a player one may be in the younger days. So perhaps the solution is not to get committed until you've "play enuff" - whatever that means.

Sometimes I admire those bros who can maintain a happy family life but lead a double life makan outside without the wife knowing - plus leading such a life without guilt and still have complete trust from the wife. I for one just cannot do this without having nightmares. I threw in the towel as I can't bear to lead such double life without guilt. Laudable it may seems but deep in me I really wanna to play. That's why I always warn bros not to start playing if they can help it

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Originally Posted by Panamera

In my perfect world, my wife and kids would live next door

Ya, LOL.

colins · #18 (**permalink**) 30-03-2009, 12:38 AM

But bro goodpartner, this is a commercial sex forum. The views you get from here can be a little skewed towards that end. Almost everybody is sexually deprived in singapore or for that matter in the world as well. Sex is a constant need, it is not wrong to seek sexual fulfilment. It is the desire that you peg it to, that creates problem, esp when we mix emotional fulfilment with sexual fulfilment. Again, it is not wrong too, it is just who suffers in the end. If you constantly seek extra-marital sex, you suffer from that constant need to keep it there. You suffer when it is exposed. You suffer when you lose your wife's trust. But dun come back and say, hey why the society cannot allow me to have sex with WL. Come on, geylang is there with all those chicks lined up to give you pleasure. Society only punishes you when you can't pay the price for your actions.

goodpartner · #19 (**permalink**) 03-04-2009, 05:54 PM

Yeah, that's what I often tell others here too (abt the skewed views)...lol

My situation is not that simple and definitely not anyone can appreciate given the little I've share so far.

All I'm saying is that some bros can really lead a double life so skillfully without concerning heart matters - which I admire.

I'm in federal jail now, so I'll have more time to ramble here more often

Gaofar · #20 (**permalink**) 07-04-2009, 07:04 AM

Seems like our bro goodpartner has no more rambling left.. (or is he charging his energy level to one shot blast a good one out?..)

tuxedosam · #21 (**permalink**) 08-04-2009, 05:45 AM

hmph, talk about aging samsters and their pent-ups...i guess it's kinda inevitable too... some folks are commitment-shy but grow tired of a cheongster lifestyle eventually or are confronted by a palpable sense of loneliness at some drastic juncture in life. still others have been stuck in loveless relationships and unfulfilling lifestyles for all too long, and crave a little escapism and adventure away from their meaningless routines. so what's your story, morning glory? it's all part and parcel of growing up and growing old. confronting fears, uncertainty and angst while coming to terms with what your life means and where it is and will be going. and since everybody brings a different tale to the table, it's really hard to comment on stuff like this, without falling into the traps of overgeneralization and preachiness. unfortunately, one life is all we have (unless some sorta non-empirical religious mumbo jumbo works for you). we have to be responsible for our own choices, ultimately. because this life is the only singular and certain chance that we have, even if we may not quite like the cards we had been dealt along the way. live it. or lose it. often, the light that burns twice as bright burns twice as fast. what is your choice? what is action without consequence? and...don't forget...what are you here for? we are but limited and fragile things. before you even realise the true meaning of mortality, it's all over. just make sure you dun have any regrets when the end comes calling. bro TS, looking forward to more meandering rambles from you. cheers.

cunt_search · #22 (**permalink**) 10-04-2009, 04:54 PM

married, single dun tin is issue
issue is little bro rule big bro

i single n still crave 4 sex

mo on prc bcos of the cultural proximity
but not p n FO type...
looking for GFE... n in the end get arggh BURNT!!! (KCed!!)

cunt_search · #23 (**permalink**) 10-04-2009, 05:19 PM

unlcle kevin
u english teacher or wat
minus my pts
u got mental
dis is sammy forum not england forum da

some abbrev u no understand i educate u lo

goodpartner · #24 (**permalink**) 11-06-2009, 03:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Gaofar

Seems like our bro goodpartner has no more rambling left.. (or is he charging his energy level to one shot blast a good one out?..)

I'm back!!!

Would you all believe that I was kidnapped by a gorgeous chick (again) and have been busy fighting off rescuers all these while?

ANY cheonsger pls feel free to rumble and rant here, this is not only my thread.

goodpartner · #25 (**permalink**) 11-06-2009, 03:59 AM

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Originally Posted by tuxedosam

some folks are commitment-shy but grow tired of a cheongster lifestyle eventually or are confronted by a palpable sense of loneliness at some drastic juncture in life.

Bro, great post which sums up a lot from the hearts! I'm on the journey and indeed the eventuality is coming for me. I wonder what are my options by then

Like the wise guy say, the most important things in life are not what we've lost nor what we want but can't get - it's what we're having NOW that really should matter most. Well, I guess I should just enjoy the journey as it is now...

goodpartner · #26 (**permalink**) 28-06-2009, 02:03 AM

Earlier this week I found another new gem in one of the GL houses.

Almost prettier than the prettiest terak I'm having now. Look super sweet with nice smile, petite with full B cup, I'm mesmerized by her looks

In my first visit, she told me she's from northern thailand (again!) and asked me to visit her next year during songkrang after she'll ROD. I never really take it seriously...

Today I visited her again and found her more attractive, with extra GFE...
She reminded me to look for her in her home town again, and jokingly ask me to marry her; said she likes my smile...

I asked if I will see a lot of Sg customers at her home during the songkrang, then we can all fight over the water war; she as the trophy...LoL. She say I'll be the only one she invite...

Then after the passionate FJ, told me the date of her only off-day and wanted me to meet her that day

OMG... here I go again, same old shit again... yadayadayadayada

Max77 · #27 (**permalink**) 28-06-2009, 03:07 AM

Life's not all about pretty gals and great sex lah. Set some goals ba. At different time of ur life u'll require different 'NEEDS'. Identify what u need now is important if not life will be meaningless le...

TS - Thks of letting me post in ur thread

Gaofar · #28 (**permalink**) 28-06-2009, 12:29 PM

Hahaha!.. Bro goodpartner, kenna KCed all over again?..

Well, I do hope that you are seasoned enough to know what you are doing.. Sometimes, for myself, I place a limit telling myself that no matter what happens, you'll never finish finding a girl that will take your heart away, no matter how many times or how old you have become.. I've always tell myself that 2 or best 3 times are enough of heart attacks for me in my lifetime..

Cheers and regards!

goodpartner · #29 (**permalink**) 28-06-2009, 03:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Max77

Life's not all about pretty gals and great sex lah. Set some goals ba. At different time of ur life u'll require different 'NEEDS'. Identify what u need now is important if not life will be meaningless le...

Ya lor....and wat's that saying I read somewhere recently?? Something like..."Most people do not know what they want in life, but live their life looking for it."

Mind sharing what are some of your life's goals bro?
It may help me get some ideas outside of looks and sex.

Say for myself, I'm not burdened by financial issues though I'm not rich but can retire anytime. Thinking of being a volunteer and spend a few years of my life so see what's "out there" - they say will help change my life's perspective?

But then if it's poverty and such, I think I've seen some among all my tirak's, qing-ai-de, and sayang's visits and "contributed" in my own little way - ya la, with some personal agenda, what a hypocrite heh?

goodpartner · #30 (**permalink**) 28-06-2009, 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Gaofar

Hahaha!.. Bro goodpartner, kenna KCed all over again?..

Well, I do hope that you are seasoned enough to know what you are doing..

The thing is that my chances of getting KCed (or opening myself to it) is especially high when the relationship with one of the existing tirak is getting more "mature". I seems to want to get myself KCed as some kind of escapade from another.

So maybe that's a "seasoned" act?

Case in point, I'm about to visit and celebrate the birthday of one of them for the 4th time...

p.s. I think the only way NOT to fall into such KC traps is to retire from cheonging althogether... plus this forum.... how is that possible?