Miscellaneous ramblings of a cheongster - Page 5 - Singapore-Asian Commercial Sex Discussions

goodpartner · #61 (**permalink**) 05-07-2009, 12:01 AM

I can't find those old threads like "Woes of a cat40 tirak" and especially "Joy of a cat40 sponsor" which I started. Deleted ah?

Panamera · #62 (**permalink**) 05-07-2009, 12:02 PM

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I can't find those old threads like "Woes of a cat40 tirak" and especially "Joy of a cat40 sponsor" which I started. Deleted ah?

Here you go: Woes of a Cat 40 tirak.

Joy of a cat40 sponsor - think deleted already

goodpartner · #63 (**permalink**) 05-07-2009, 01:08 PM

thanks mate!

Hmm... Joy not appreciated here?

These tirak threads are classics man. Lots of wisdom in them once the tcss posts are filtered out. I "grew up" as a newbie cheongster with them and still surviving.

PRC or what not, lots of lessons in it are cross trainers.

Panamera · #64 (**permalink**) 05-07-2009, 01:17 PM

No problem, mate.

goodpartner · #65 (**permalink**) 12-07-2009, 04:17 AM

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Only the first one I replied "I'm fine, thank you. You're not busy?" which she didn't reply until the next day with the second one. I guess her engrish must be bad and the rest are canned messages.

Just that the two smiley (*_*) and *-* seems consistent, so unless she got those from the same customer and forwarded me.

Anyway, no time for her now... will check out Goldenmile for Soong Tharm when I'm back. For now, I've a date with my tirak... writing this from airport transit...

Holy crap! I just got off the phone after almost 1 hour chatting with her!

Ya right, I did visit her earlier in the evening for 2 sessions time, though it was too late to get the thai salad. She did keep asking why I spent so many days in Thailand and suspected I have a thai gf there to which I ofcoz say no, being a player

However, that strangly dug up some sort of guilt feeling and I couldn't perform on the bed! What a shame, such a pretty and charming gal naked in front of me and yet blood flowed to my brain instead

Actually, part of the reason is because of the marathon sex I had over the past week plus...totally sexhausted liao.

She kept apologizing and later called me after work for that long chat. We talk about many things, the KC force is strong man. I told her I'm a playboy (which is true) and suprisingly she play along with me saying she's a playgirl too. Suit me fine, we agree to go for short tours once she ROD early next year

Watch this thread to find out how a cheongster plough through another KC trap... Either survive to tell more or have my life turned upside down. If bros sense my boat is overturning, throw in a float...

Max77 · #66 (**permalink**) 12-07-2009, 11:41 AM

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...However, that strangly dug up some sort of guilt feeling and I couldn't perform on the bed! ...

...Either survive to tell more or have my life turned upside down. If bros sense my boat is overturning, throw in a float...

Too much guilt can't hav good sex;too much doubt can't hav good relationship. Life is like a box of chocolate...

goodpartner · #67 (**permalink**) 12-07-2009, 06:30 PM

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Too much guilt can't hav good sex;too much doubt can't hav good relationship. Life is like a box of chocolate...

It's more of the guilt that got me into this state, as mentioned my earlier ramblings, that caused me to end what could have been a "normal" relationship with a local girl in the past.

Anyways... more about my past in later ramblings, maybe. Currently I'm living my life a swinging single and sort of enjoying it even though there are occasional emptiness feeling inside.

Now, back to this new KC target. Some of the classic traps that get me wondering as follow:

- She took initiative to ask and gave me her hp# saying she don't usually do that (ya right) and citing that she rejected many other customers who asked. I asked to spot-check her phone which she gladly and quickly obliged

(I didn't do it)

- She'll tell me things like some customers offer her a lump sum of money to stop working, which she also reject saying that she don't like them. She'll show me gifts from customers like expensive handphones, jewelries, etc. again saying she don't like those customers... (hmm...)

- She asked me to visit her in her hometown and to meet me during her off days. (Now, these are the real money sucking occasions that drain roberts off like an ATM, slowly bit by bit, you won't feel it, but will cost much more than paying for the bonks) - I'll see if it's worth it when it cums.

- If I cast doubts on what she says, telling her straight that she's doing/saying all these to many customers for the ultimate goal of money, she'll confidently tell me a few times something like "... you don't believe me? Ok, you know me long-long... you'll believe me... I'm not like that..."

- Now this is the mind blowiing and controversial thing for me: So far, she has NEVER gave me any BJ/BBBJ nor even deep-frenching me (tougue action) for the 3 times I've patronized her! Only kissing on the balls and licking around the area, plus light frenching. Don't like to be painted and even shy about farking in a standing position which I like. (I thought I'm the one using reverse psychology on her, but she seems to me baiting me instead!

)

The last point is probably what makes me crazy about "getting" her eventually, she managed to set up a challenge but yet open up other doors for me. What an interesting KC game.

Damage so far: 4 sessions (1+1+2) and $20 tips

Max77 · #68 (**permalink**) 12-07-2009, 08:23 PM

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It's more of the guilt that got me into this state, as mentioned my earlier ramblings, that caused me to end ...... this new KC target......
- She took initiative to ask and gave me her hp# saying she don't usually do that (ya right) and citing that she rejected many other customers who asked. I asked to spot-check her phone which she gladly and quickly obliged......- She'll tell me things like some customers offer her a lump sum of money to stop working, which she also reject saying that she don't like them. She'll show me gifts from customers like expensive handphones, jewelries, etc. again saying she don't like those customers......
- If I cast doubts on what she says, telling her straight that she's doing/saying all these to many customers for the ultimate goal of money, she'll confidently tell me a few times something like "... you don't believe me? Ok, you know me long-long... you'll believe me... I'm not like that..."

I hav an similar encounter. She manage to befriend some of those powerful man here locally. Think in China it's her instinct to 'befriend' wealthy/powerful man. I remember those guys wif very nice and big car sending her to my place so tat she can hav supper wif me. Got one time one spider stop at my company's guardroom bcoz i told her i'm going to work late...She say by choosing me she feel more happy bcoz i'm more simple to be wif and she's happier wif me. I'm under so much pressure fr myself although she treat me so well. Those were jus memories now...when u don't get wad u want, u'll always think of it...

goodpartner · #69 (**permalink**) 13-07-2009, 01:17 PM

Spider?

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...one spider stop at my company's guardroom ....when u don't get wad u want, u'll always think of it...

Reminds me of that 93.8 Live Slice of Life story about a thousand-year-old spider watching prayers from the corner of a temple, with a moral on the most important thing in life being what you're having now, and not what you want or what you can't get but always think of. LoL

Quite a feat to have other men sending her to your doorstep...I'm sure yours must be a sweet memory

goodpartner · #70 (**permalink**) 13-07-2009, 01:43 PM

Today I wanna ramble about the topic on Mistress, so far I get a couple of reply posts and even PM asking me to look at the Mistress thread since I like to engage in more than "Fuck and Forget"

So it seems like having Mistresses more is accepted than having Tiraks or going further in commercial fucks, or at least the former invite less machine gun bullets from readers

However, I read somewhere that Mistress is a term by definition for a married man, otherwise they are call "girlfriend". So I like to draw an analogy between these two.

Some key commonalities:

Mistress
- Usually a rich men game. Given a house, allowances and visited occasionally.
- The "owner" usually wants exclusivity of her, but she knows he is married but may not know he has more than one mistress.
- She is usually someone known from the "entertainment" scene, KTV, etc. Money can buy.

"Girlfriend"
Ok, I'm not referring to the normal BGR girlfreind, but really very similar to the above except for the man's status of being a single, and the subtle differences below:

- Usually monetary commitment level not as high to include a house.
- Sama sama on exclusivity preference. The man wants to own the CB but girl do not know he got more than one.
- In our context (cheongsters), the girl is usually from the "entertainment" scene too! Ya, from brothels and FL... but also KTV

Money can also buy.

So, a few things dawn on me. Firstly, except for the terminology used due to the man's marital status, what's the dif? It's possible that the married man's mistress was a FL/hooker right? etc... along this line of thought. Why are having "mistresses" more accepted than "girlfriends"? The KC and robert arguments doesn't apply here as any differences, no?

In fact, other than the perceived "lower class" difference on having FL/Hooker as "girlfriends", it's a less costly game and does less damage to others (commitment to the girlfriend and more importantly, vows & obligations to mans' wife/family).

I'm armed with bullet proof suit

dilmon · #71 (**permalink**) 13-07-2009, 11:03 PM

any bros here buy food for WL? and is that the start of a KC trap?

it might be just a few bucks, but one thing leads to another...

any experience from any bros?

longwinter · #72 (**permalink**) 13-07-2009, 11:32 PM

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any bros here buy food for WL? and is that the start of a KC trap?

it might be just a few bucks, but one thing leads to another...

any experience from any bros?

Actually l used to...when l go for my bonk in the house, will buy some food for the girls, be it fruits, drinks or some snacks..

Is alright to buy sum things for them to eat/drink if u feel like doin so...but dun be too engrossed into the whole matter la..dun go into thinking of being with them together or fall for them..

Sometimes we can think n assume that we are friends of the wl, but in their mind, they will always think of us as customers..

Max77 · #73 (**permalink**) 14-07-2009, 03:46 AM

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Spider?

the guard told me is farrari spider (honestly, is there such car?)

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with a moral on the most important thing in life being what you're having now, and not what you want or what you can't get but always think of. LoL

Quite a feat to have other men sending her to your doorstep...I'm sure yours must be a sweet memory

yar perhaps the best relationship is the one which stops at the right time...

tuxedosam · #74 (**permalink**) 15-07-2009, 04:02 AM

'spider' ahh? it's just a fanciful generic name for an open-topped two-seater car (what to the rest of us mortals is simply a roadster) used principally (though not exclusively) by the italians...so yes, there are plenty of ferrari spiders around...

hahaha, is it true that a 'girlfriend'/'mistress' (from the 'scene') would invite less scorn in some quarters than just going for a commercial bonk!? i dun really know...all i know is that i would never get a broad or someone from the commercial sex industry to be either a gf or a mistress. it's something a little outta the world for me, conceptually.

heh, even the most enterprising and far-sighted hunter will occasionally, while carefully laying his traps and busy stalking his prey, end up becoming the one hunted instead. will he know it before it is too late? will he snap outta it and retreat before he walks into the lair of an enemy whom he was never even looking out for? when you're feeling edgy or unsure, you're already fucked. better stop while you still can la. anyway, the mindfuck and game-playing should always be conducted with a very clear goal in mind - free or discounted sex for some, an ego-boost or adrenaline rush for another school, and other extraneous varieties of payout for yet others. if you lose sight of your priorities and goals, that's when it can get tricky or hairy, i guess...

very troublesome leh...or is it not? life is complicated enough; it needs to be made easy (or easier), not twisted into some complex soap-opera plot. F'n'F commercial sorties are still the way to go, especially with the likes of these whores... simpler and cleaner. dun lie to yourself and liken whatever relationship you might have with them to 'friendship'. you're only a customer, it's very true. and it ends there. whoring isn't charity-work. and no matter what you might occasionally liken yourself to be, you ain't around to be their patron saint or saviour. so at the very least, dun expect any citation or medal if you've already put it down to committing your resources. way i see it, unless the potential payback is really SOMETHING, one shouldn't even be in the ridiculous position of considering in the first place. no offence to nobody; different folks, different strokes...

goodpartner · #75 (**permalink**) 15-07-2009, 05:07 AM

Thanks all bros, for sharing your thoughts on my ramblings thread. Don't know why I'm craving for attention in sbf lately.

Do You guys also find your participation in this forum in burst of interest which last a time span before fading off and shut off totally from it? Maybe not for those who are here for contacts or daily pcc fixes from the erotic stories or media. Personally I really appreciate the sharing of experiences and thoughts, especially in situation like now where I seems to be seeking answers for a question I can't define myself. It's funny but it's true. It's nice to get the ah-ha feeling once a while.

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anyway, the mindfuck and game-playing should always be conducted with a very clear goal in mind - free or discounted sex for some, an ego-boost or adrenaline rush for another school, and other extraneous varieties of payout for yet others. if you lose sight of your priorities and goals, that's when it can get tricky or hairy, i guess...

Obvious as it might be, this goal setting point is what resonate with me now. I didn't really think of it though in the back of my mind I've always thought I'm befriending these 'gf' from commercial scene for eventual local guides (with extras) since I like traveling and experiencing local custom and lifestyle. Why pick 'guides' from commercial scene, I guess for me they are easy targets.

Perhaps too, why most Mistresses are taken from the commercial scene. At least that's what I read from the mistress thread here.

You're right I need to be clear of the goals and not loose sight of the priority.