Bro TS,

There is no real such thing as a lousy player or a good player in cheonging. It is only a matter of how deep you get caught or you do not get caught.

There are many many types of trap, from the "I want every cent you have" to "I will wait till you cannot say no, trap". So you keep saying you kenna gong tau... so it should be the type of trap where she will bring you to heaven now and then later bring you to hell. In all fairness, I will not and cannot say that true love does not happen between WL. FL and customer. But the odds of this is as many say, really small.

So now you are feeling trapped. You know that you are heading into territory you feel you may kenna KC. The best thing is to walk away. You said that you lost focus and are thinking of her and cannot let her go.. That is your small head thinking. Think for a moment if you can, you feel happy with her... Ok... but then what sort of happiness is it? GFE? Someone who loves you? Think again... It is very very seldom, but can someone fall in love with you in a matter of days or after a few visits? Does she know you that well or is she setting you up? She does not ask much from you, perhaps it is because she has a few other potential trees and Roberts who she will ask.. If you have 0 and only 3 give you the money, you are already better off.

She caught you when you were not strong. All men like to play the knight in shining armour.. So when she has a problem and is feeling down she called you and you responded... Because of that, now you feel.."Waaah she needs me and is true to me..." Maybe you are lucky to find the "one"... who will change her life for you. But if she is not the one and is trying to KC you, then how?

So my personal suggestion will be to cool it off. In your case, since it is not active KC and not much money is involved right now, just play along with the game and find out what game is being played. Just do not call, or go out so often. See how she reacts. If she calls, just say that you are busy. Tell her you will see her some other day. When you see her once in a while, you will see if her attitude has changed. If it has, then it is sure sign she has tired of trying to get something out of you. If she is still loving and nice, then you can always have a good fren to have. Sex is not everything and it is also not a sign of love. Love is when you spend time together and not have sex and are still happy.

I wish you luck Bro.

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TS,
hang in there!

u must have been stung by many Cupid arrow.
KC is never easy to discarded.

good luck mate

My young friend, look and read this reply very carefully.
You will NEVER win this KC battle cos you already lost! Look at you now???
Do you think you're like a General very calm and scheming in your plans?
Hell no, you're so mentally screwed liao, think of her when you eat shit sleep smoke........
Or do you think you're like a lamb wondering when the knife will come to you?
This is the state you're in now....you're mentally DEAD already so dun use words like continue the game etc etc.....there's no game anymore

Why I say that, you pity her for fuck?
Cry cry cry is the oldest most boliao trick all these WLs use on SOFT HEARTED men here...and 9 out of 10 times, the men fall for it...like you!

You shud just walk away from her and that's it!
Or, soon, you'll get to experience a pain the will be 1000 times more painful than dying.......
You'll see.....
When you got cancer, remove the tumor, dun adopt the wait and see attitude, cos it'll only get worse, and sooner or later, it'll overwhelm you, like how you feel now....it's only a matter of time before you crack...the fine crack lines are showing liao
You do what is more important for survival dude.......
As for a later post of wanting to know more, read this section of the forum & you'll see how common your probs are over here and how many have falled into it.........

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1) 不要背叛自己
2) 不要出卖自己
3）不要欺骗自己
4）不要对不起自己
是你的，就是你的。
不是你的，不要抢！

No winners, mostly losers...

How much one can lose (or rather give) what matters here, to make the heart less painful.

at the end we are all ATMs......

sadly, I am also bleeding, slowly......... just have to enjoy it while I can afford (to give.........)

so old, still so stupid!

if she can sleep for $ with 1 guy, she can sleep for $ with other guys. same thing, if she can call and sms u she can also call and sms her other customers. it could be she is using u as her emotional room of comfort as being girls, they also need someone to be around them when they r lonely and need companionship. try stop contacting her for 1 week and see wat comes out of it. if she MIA liao means she has found another room of comfort then u can 4get abt the whole thing and start screwing other girls liao.

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Agreed that you are mentally and emotionally screwed up. But hey, you have made a very wise decision... of not gg to your house for sex.

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Bro, be careful of what your perception is.......
This is the worst case scenario that one can con him/herself into!
No doubt, we all know the ATM logic, but that's not the painful part....its the psychological & emotional attachment that will kill and damage you.....the $$$$$ factor is just like a red ant sting only....

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The 4 Golden Rules in life:
1) 不要背叛自己
2) 不要出卖自己
3）不要欺骗自己
4）不要对不起自己
是你的，就是你的。
不是你的，不要抢！

yes.... that is the next part to tackle..... someday, I will pm you and ask for personal advice........

after the ATMs is the attack on the emotion, can mentally set someone not strong enough to do crazy things.

btw, I have quite a few 'war' medals............ otherwise, I would have been a millionaire........... now botak, liao...

We learn from history.
Thus we dont make the same mistakes as wat we learnt from history
We only make new history
But, if we continue to make the same old history repeat itself, then, we really have to start looking inwards to see the cause of what's repeating the same history over and over again.
Take heed bro...good luck....
Like i always say, all it takes is 1, THE 1 that will break you so badly, that all the king's horses and all the king's men, can never put you back together again......

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The 4 Golden Rules in life:
1) 不要背叛自己
2) 不要出卖自己
3）不要欺骗自己
4）不要对不起自己
是你的，就是你的。
不是你的，不要抢！

Thank for all the bros reply. i just back from lunch time..
yes my problem is mentally and emotionally been screwed up.
i will listen to some of our bros advise. see what this clever gal is up to. i will try to hold back my heart . see what she up for.
We are always correct, she can sleep with anyone as long the money is in.
of course i wont bring her home. only outside for sex. think and think back what happen this one month, she is a damn clever gal, but i also not stupid. like what she say and her sister discuss about me. this guy is not a a easy stupid guy. anyway we are human being. together long already feeling is there
damn stress.... so many bros here kanna PRC kong tao here. let see what she is up to. no sound no picture from her today. really sian. i damn miss her.
there a saying: the soldier dun move. we dun move. the soldier move. we attack..

say is easy then done. i will slowly clear up this mess.

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明明知道没有结局却还死心塌地
我感动天感动地怎么感动不了你
总相信爱情会有奇迹都是我骗自己

i love your reply. thank bros

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我感动天感动地怎么感动不了你
明明知道没有结局却还死心塌地
我感动天感动地怎么感动不了你
总相信爱情会有奇迹都是我骗自己

How much is your small amount for meal?? $3 or $5 ?


Free sex??? U pay her with your small amount of money and mental stress.

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You are asking for trouble.

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Dont act smart can or not?

Care to share with us how you attack?

Fuck again or happily go withdraw you $$$ to throw at her?

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Bro, I do wish you will stop saying that you kenna gong tau... It is just an excuse.. You see the road, you decide what road to take. When I asked you to play along, it is not in the hope that it will lead to somewhere. When you say "we together long time" so have feelings, then I feel you are just opening yourself up to another road to KC'dom.. Some more you said she told her sis you are not easy and stupid, then it means that she tried to set u up.. Do be careful.

And bro, when you feel that there is a mess, do not take time to clear. Just get out!

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