Most definitely a pervert. Sounds like one of those guys who would stare at women on the streets and drool. He needs medical attention.

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hmmm i used to be an introvert and shy and thot i ugly or something. Then at some point of time, I dunno how or when I finally told myself i have enough of being scared of what people think of me and I am tired of been scared to approach girls. Then I joined tons of activities, charity works, organisation (including political ones) whatever shit. I let loose and stop thinking of what people might feel of what I personally think and say. And that actually works out very well. I got tons of frens (some I can even remember their names but they remember mine paiseh..), girls actually took interest in me and some I went to bed with on one night stands, some stayed as very good friends. These girls actually advice and changed my style of clothing to better nicer and more fashionable ones. They weren't at first attracted to my appearance but to my friendliness and frankness. This actually helps in my entire outlook and my career etc and now I m doing well ... except perhaps got hooked to FLs ... which may not be a good thing but whatever. The point is, there is always hope for the shy guy ;D

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Bro Megatronzombies point is good. Up you for that.

The story is the same for so many other guys. I know of guys who were too shy early in life and so never learnt the social ways of life. Some were just too caught up in their own circles and did not have a chance to meet the right girl and so on. The reasons are varied.

However, sitting at home watching porn and dreaming about bonking his dream girl is not going to get him a bonk and it could also in a way but more hurtful as he will get a strange outlook of what sex is and also the type of girls he wants. Not all girls are as sexy as those in a porn movie. Not all girls scream yamete. What he wants is a girl who will love him, accept him and help to bring him out of his shell no matter how deep in he is. (PS going to GL and getting laid may assist him in getting rid of some pressures, but it is also a sure way of getting him conned and flattened)

So he should find means of getting to know girls either by introduction, the various government bodies and so on. Even as the previous contributor mentioned, even voluntary activities can create a social contact situations. He should not look at all girls as potential mates or even sex objects, but if he can make some frens who are girls and they really learn to trust him, they may help to teach him what to do to be more appealing to girls.

One thing is that change must come from himself. It is no one's fault, not even his that he has become the way he is and the way he is now need not be the him ofthe future.

I wish him and all others out there the best of luck.

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Your friend has a chronic inferior complex disorder
Has low self esteem
Only when he learns the truth behind the purpose of life, he'll continue being the lonely, empty HumSupLoh he is even if he sleeps wif 10 sluts on the same bed every nite
Ask him to embrace a religion, to learn more about his purpose, not to meet the female worshipers hor!!!!!!!!!

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Bro HumSupLou, If he want his prayer to be answered, he must remove his mental blocks that stand between him and his goals. You need to help "your friend" to walk out of his old hard shell to become more positive, less shy and reserved. Help him to eliminate his self-pity before it chew through his inner fabric and self-destruct.

How we want OUR LIFE to be: Filled with joy and happiness or Filled with overwhelming problems or loneliness - is simply a Matter of Perspective. Some of us have a gift for making the good, bad, and the easy, hard. Most of the time, the difference between a problem and a lesson is ATTITUDE, and depending on how willing we are to take a chance, our best life can be a million miles away, an inch away or our best life is just right under our nose, but we need to CHOOSE IT, TAKE IT and MAKE IT. Success and Happiness doesn't happen to us, WE CREATE IT - just like misery. Happiness is not a matter of luck, fate or destiny. Nothing happen by chance, it's about what we choose to do with what we've been given. It's about the attitude we take into every situation and experience - EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!

P.S. Coming to this forum does help too..because most KC cases are empty, lonely persons

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Maybe he should read the book "The purpose Driven life" by Rick Warren..

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TS..

you should tell ur friend or whoever to spend some $$ to go to SDU. If he too shy to go alone, then you should accompany him there. Talk in group, at least give him some training 1st.

If not, join some activities, courses or event to know more people. By knowing more people, there will be chances to know gals.

True indeed .....it is not surprising that people tends to put labels on him as either being a "Pervert" or having "Mental Disorder".

Asking him to go "Church" and join the service may be an alternative but it's
pretty hard to convince him in digesting some of the thoughts and teachings
of God.

Whatever it is, the story continues ...............

Even though he doesn't have much courage to approach any girl that he likes
to establish a relationship fearing that he will get rejected straight on the face, deep in his heart he still hope that miracles can happen.
How he wish that perhaps Jupiter can be kind enough to pity him and cast
a love spell on his dream girl to approach him instead.

He realized that as time goes by the culture here has been much more westernized than he had thought. He noticed that girls these days love to wear shorts exposing their fair, nice, long and slim sexy legs. Whenever he caught sight of such a girl his attention will focus on her pair of legs. Occasionally when he encountered girls that wear low waist tight jeans trying to exhibit and expose their hips or even ass cleavage on purpose. His attention will be caught on the contour of that beautiful hips or ass.

Whenever he walk past any girl who is wearing top that is exposing her
breast cleavage, he will never fail to take a peep at her "silicon valley".
At times when he is seated far away from a girl who is wearing short
skirt, he will take a glance and pay attention to the movements of her
crossing legs. He has been wondering why he likes glancing at a girl's
legs, hips, ass cleavage and breast cleavage. Each time when he thinks
about it, the wish of having a girlfriend to suppress his loneliness came
to his mind again. Since he was afraid of approaching a girl upfront, the
idea of going for a blind date flashes his mind .......

TS, this is dangerous for him and the gal.
As time goes by, inorder to release his urge, he might lost control of himself and do the wrong things..

As his friend, you shd bring him to gl to release the urge.
If not, go ktv or pub, get him a gal..

Bro TS, why not suggest to ur friend to go and buy a Thai bride, should solve his quiet & lonely life instantly.. keke..
He can unleash all the skills he had been training hard for..

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Dam good idea!

Then no more craps 3rd party notes!

Feel this getting no where....

Yea mate, "buying" a bride is the best option for this friend of yours. I think these brides, mainly from the country side, will appreciate a shy guy like him. As far as I know, the process is pretty simple, not like he has to visit thailand or vietnam to pick from a parade of gals, but just go down to goldenmile tower, I saw a few "marriage agency" there which have "ready" stock, much like you go pick a maid from a selection in maid agencies nowadays!

I saw some really chio SYT with long legs and such, which your friend will love. No joke... try this option. Go alone, nothing to be ashame of.

Nothing venture, nothing gain.
Tell us about it here later

p.s. I also got a shy friend, fat with oily hair and nose hairs sticking out; he found his soul mate in such agency and is happy married with kids now. His wife is quite a babe too, I must say. I'm sure you're better than this shy friend of mine...cum'on.

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foreign bride is best option for him. shy and quiet also nvm cos she also cant talk much - communication barrier. he can enjoy all the silence he wants.

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Your 'friend' just need to get laid asap before his carnal imagination makes him a maniac who can't differentiate from his dreams and reality.

Reminds me of the comic strip 'Adventures of a Widower'.

It is true that .... "Buying a Bride" these days is getting common and may be
worth considering for guys who are still single. However, he does have some
concerns and is a bit hesitated to plunge straight into it. He has a strong
beliefs that not everything in this world can be brought using money and in
a way this is especially true when it comes to finding true love. For now
it will be unlikely for him to take this path unless it is the last resort for him.

One thing for sure is that he is not a psychopath. He is definitely a nice guy
and he still got the self control and discipline when dealing with girls. He is
still conscious about his "thoughts versus actions"

Let me continue with the story a little more ............

As he doesn't mix around with much people, he realized that his social
circle has shrunk tremendously. Being a single guy in his late 30s, he came
to noticed that most of his friends either already attached or has already
settled down with kids. He finds it rather difficult to ask his friends out for
beer, coffee or even catch a movie. Most of the time his friends does not
have any spare time slots to accompany him. As a result he feels that he
is getting much more lonely than before as day goes by. He ended up eating
alone, drinking alone, shopping alone and sometimes even watch a movie
alone. He has not much good friends to talk with to pour his grievances
when required. He has to suffer and swallow most of the injustice in silence
with nobody willing to lend him a listening ear. Perhaps occasionally he may
be able to meet up with a good friend to chat about his life, work etc ......