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Re: Life of a quiet and lonely guy

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Re: Life of a quiet and lonely guy

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It is true that .... "Buying a Bride" these days is getting common

Let me continue with the story a little more ............

As he doesn't mix around with much people, he realized that his social
circle has shrunk tremendously. Being a single guy in his late 30s, he came
to noticed that most of his friends either already attached or has already
settled down with kids. He finds it rather difficult to ask his friends out for
beer, coffee or even catch a movie. Most of the time his friends does not
have any spare time slots to accompany him. As a result he feels that he
is getting much more lonely than before as day goes by. He ended up eating
alone, drinking alone, shopping alone and sometimes even watch a movie
alone.
>You are not his friend? You don't have time to drink coffee with him, if so, How come you know all his story?

He has not much good friends to talk with to pour his grievances
when required. He has to suffer and swallow most of the injustice in silence
with nobody willing to lend him a listening ear.
>Aren't you listening to his grievances now?

Perhaps occasionally he may
be able to meet up with a good friend to chat about his life, work etc ......
As said before, maybe you like him to attend church and starts slowly to move into the group
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Re: Life of a quiet and lonely guy

TS..

Your 'friend' or whatever behaviour is contradicting himself. He wanted true love, but too shy to find..

His attitude is the main problem here.

One cannot hope to have the best of everything.. hope by praying, true love will just appear..

One should try to make the best of what he has around him.. he should change his behaviour, approach gals, don't scare of rejection. Every rejection can be an experience to learn from. Even shy is his default DNA mode, he must modify it himself or get someone to help him to change. JUst remember don't set back to default, when he manage to change it. If his behaviour really cannot change, buy a bride.

The simply suggestion i can give him is take a paper n pen. write down what he want to change or achieve inorder to get his true love. Set long and short term goals and set the time he want to achieve( within days, weeks, months or years)

To remind himself, read the note every few hours everyday..

He cannot just pray and expect food to appear on his table.. He should try to put food on his table himself..
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It is true that .... "Buying a Bride" these days is getting common and may be
worth considering for guys who are still single. However, he does have some
concerns and is a bit hesitated to plunge straight into it. He has a strong
beliefs that not everything in this world can be brought using money and in
a way this is especially true when it comes to finding true love. For now
it will be unlikely for him to take this path unless it is the last resort for him.

frm wat u have shared it seems like yr friend is more interested in the ass and boobs cleavage than watever true love there is in a relationship. put it this way, would he be interested if the girl that likes him isnt attractive, doesnt dress sexy outfits and doesnt have long legs? would he still be keen to date such a girl? getting a foreign bride is workable for him as he can still get a girl who is young, attractive and sexy to satisfy his desire,only diff is she isnt local. if he is such a loser like u have described there's no way he can ATTRACT a local babe to be his girl. all he can do is to only watch, drool and fantasy. things u cant get for free, u buy. simple.

One thing for sure is that he is not a psychopath. He is definitely a nice guy
and he still got the self control and discipline when dealing with girls. He is
still conscious about his "thoughts versus actions"

gt alot of psychopath looks damn decent and nice on the outside but will wreak havoc once their control take an off. he is not going to risk that, isnt he?

Let me continue with the story a little more ............

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finish yr story one shot lah bro, this story isnt erotic at all to keep us coming back for more ok.
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Hi TS,
"your friend" should start going to church and make some friends, because that is the friendly place when you r new , a lot of them will make friend w u, and please dont starts looking at beautiful gal when you just join in, or else,in no time ,you are back to where you started.who know , maybe some gal there r waiting for you too? cheers. but sex is not the only thing in life . bro
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Re: Life of a quiet and lonely guy

Bro TS, can see that you're not here to advise or get advised.

What is the intention for this thread? To tell us the morale of a very short story with a million words?

Here, let me shrink it for you!

Ah Beng went to pray to Chai Shin Ya (God of Fortune) everyday, always asking for the same thing, "Tolong, tolong ah, Chai Shin Ya! Let me strike Toto of 4D big big one time!"

Everyday, without fail, Ah Beng always prayed. Until one fine day, Ah Beng very tulan his prayers not answered, "Chai Shin Ya! Why I pray so long always neber strike anything?!"

Then, Chai Shin Ya appeared and said, "NNKC, you neber BUY Toto or 4D first, how I let you win?!"


See? Long story short. Want chabor but don't go out to meet them, how to get one?
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Bro TS, can see that you're not here to advise or get advised.

What is the intention for this thread? To tell us the morale of a very short story with a million words?
TS too quiet and lonely need to start new thread to share his/his friend's life bibliography.

i think its also gd for him to share if nt keeping everything to himself may end up becoming someone of his nick.
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Re: Life of a quiet and lonely guy

You guys really like to take things for granted. Since when you heard of
李大傻讲故事 finish his story one shot? This thread is related to "Matters of the heart". You want erotic story go watch Hong Kong's "Erotic ghost story" lar. Sure keep you guys coming back for more.

Anyway ..... whether I'm a regular "coffee mate" or "beer buddy" of this quiet and lonely guy to hear him pour his grievances is not of much
significance. What matters most to me is that he is someone who is really
sincere and truthful which is hard to come across these days.

By nature, who the hell in this world is not choosy, right or not?
We have to ask the "Man in the mirror" if given a choice, will he go for
a girl who is good looking rather than just a plain Jane? The answer is
obvious, but then again when we start to choose someone, other's will
also choose us in return as well.

Let me share with you another section of the story ........

No doubt by nature, his character is a bit shy, quiet and doesn't like to
socialize much. But he did make some efforts to go for a few blind dates.
He recalled that in his early days, he has been corresponding with a
girl for almost two to three years. This girl is a half Japanese and half
Chinese and they have never exchange any of their picture with each other
at all. Most of their correspondence has been based solely on trust.
As to how she looks like physically, he got no idea at all. The reason why
he got so addicted to corresponding with her is that he realized there seems
to be some chemistry going on between them after some time.
As he has been fantasizing how she really looks like and what kind of lady
she really is, he finally make up his mind to ask for her contact number.
They spoken, chat and sms each other for quite some time. He is getting
fond of her and one fine day, he decided to date her out to catch a movie
"Cast Away" starring Tom Hanks and the girl did agreed to meet up. They
made arrangement of what to wear and also how to identify each other.
On that actual day itself, he went to the cinema early to get a pair of tickets
so that he can choose good seats. He also specially brought her a box of
chocolates as a gift for their first meet up session. As the show commences
on 1:45pm, he still got some time to got for a quick bite. He head to the
nearest McDonalds for his lunch. At McDonald, he got a sms from the girl
telling him that she might be late. He then looked at his watch and is
delighted that there is still amber time for her to arrive slightly late.
He finishes his lunch and proceed back to the cinema. He waited and waited
for half an hour but she is not there yet. He start wondering to himself that
it could be due to traffic jam. He then tried calling her mobile but keep
getting an engage tone. He sms her but didn't got any reply from her at all.
He keeps waiting and waiting for almost two hours and he finally gave up.
The show already began, the crowd of people at the cinema got lesser but
there is still no sign of her presence. She had chicken out and broke her
promise of meeting up with him to catch a movie together. Many reasons
flashes across his mind. Perhaps she did arrived but has been observing him
from far and realized that he is not a good looking guy after all. He is much
below her expectations and she refused to meet up now. He is extremely
disappointed and he tear away the pair of tickets and threw away the box
of chocolates into the dust bin. He head straight back home with his head
kept starring on the floor. Upon reaching home. he tried calling her mobile
many time but it was still on engage tone. Three years of correspondence
and chatting with her over the phone has gone down to the drain ...........
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OMG...there is stil some 1 out there...lolz i tot i'm the only survivor...
Don dispare la...luck will turn out fine with us...maybe can take up courses to know more gals rather thn go home look for fake fantasy...jiayou jiayou...mayb can safe up to "buy" urself a suitable wife or join up some matchmaking agency?I'm done wif studyin so nxt stop for me is the matchmaking agency le... all the best to you bro...don let disappointment stop you...keep movin forward...JIAYOU JIAYOU
GOOD LUCK for the both of us...
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Re: Life of a quiet and lonely guy

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You guys really like to take things for granted. Since when you heard of
李大傻讲故事 finish his story one shot? This thread is related to "Matters of the heart". You want erotic story go watch Hong Kong's "Erotic ghost story" lar. Sure keep you guys coming back for more.
err bro think u misunderstood liao. this section is for bros to share opinions on KC related matters, in particularly bros who r in the process of kana trapped in KC seeking advice to get out of it. in such cases we will come back for more to follow up on the bro's progress to break the spell. but in 'yr friend' case it's just like sharing his life bibliography which nobody is interested in so u might as well finish it one shot so at least we knw wat this thread is exactly all abt..
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You guys really like to take things for granted. Since when you heard of 李大傻讲故事 finish his story one shot? This thread is related to "Matters of the heart". You want erotic story go watch Hong Kong's "Erotic ghost story" lar. Sure keep you guys coming back for more.

We do not discriminate people with mental illness. You are not李大傻, just a 傻 Lou

Matters of the Heart. Has a Commercial Fuck turned into a torrid Love Affair which has turned your life upside down? Fear not. We have experts here who can help you through your roller coaster ride. Tell us your story and we'll do our best to help.


Anyway ..... whether I'm a regular "coffee mate" or "beer buddy" of this quiet and lonely guy to hear him pour his grievances is not of much significance. What matters most to me is that he is someone who is really sincere and truthful which is hard to come across these days.

Not much significance then write for what?
He turning into a gay now? Trying to get to know more "SISTERS" here or wat?


By nature, who the hell in this world is not choosy, right or not?
We have to ask the "Man in the mirror" if given a choice, will he go for
a girl who is good looking rather than just a plain Jane? The answer is
obvious, but then again when we start to choose someone, other's will
also choose us in return as well.

Let me share with you another section of the story ........
For pete's sake, your stories are showing signs of mental illness which may indicate some sort of psychological disorder towards girls and points. Go back to your room and tell your "Man in Mirror" friend. You and Him are Same Person. Go seek medical treatment before it's too late.
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OMG, after reading the 1st paragraph of bro TS' latest post, I fell asleep!

Paiseh... bro TS can inform us when your story end?

Sibei boliao. If no need help, don't post. You eat too full and too free issit?
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Bro, let's clarify what's the problem statement...

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He will wish that God of Mercy will help him find his Soul Mate...

Having no girlfriend at all, the only way to "fill up the gap" is to watch
porn movies. To him, that is the only way he can fantasize the type of
girl that he has wished so much to love
and of course it is inevitable that
he will release himself from the urge by "Shooting Hand Gun".

He done his research on how to have better and enjoyable sex with girls. He trains hard both physically and mentally for his trip to the "Land of smile".To achieve this, he has been planning to save up some money which eventually allows him to make his trip to Bangkok for his lusted night life. That place to him is where his dreams or fantasy can ran wild.

It is where he can fulfill his desire to search for a girl to at least forget
his loneliness
back home. He knew that money can't buy true love. No money mean no honey. But he still got this hope that perhaps one fine day his dreams of searching a Thai girl that truly appreciate his character will come true.
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...he likes girls who is tall, presentable and with long slim legs. Girls that love to wear short exposing their fair and nice looking legs seems to turn him on. Of course girls with good figure is a plus point and he has been eyeing and hoping one for a very long time.

...often fantasize about sex but he ain't daring enough to hit straight to Geylang for pay sex whenever his urge arise fearing that someone could be his friends or colleague saw and recognize him in those red light district. Perhaps for him the only way out is to go somewhere out of this tiny red dot to satisfy his libido.
Bro, you need to first figure out what you want. Finding true love or sextify your libido?

Okie, you wanna get BOTH; You want someone who has a perfect figure, tall, presentable and with long slim legs to also LOVE you truly for who you are ("No look, no stable career, not much money and no girlfriend") and at the same time realize your sexual fantasy?

So that's the problem statement and you wanna help from brothers here to help and suggest a solution?


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"Buying a Bride" ... However, ...He has a strong beliefs that not everything in this world can be brought using money and in a way this is especially true when it comes to finding true love.
One of the suggestion is to "buy" a bride, but you think money can't buy "true love", yet you don't have money...


Interesting problem, but I doubt you'll be able to find a solution here.

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Are there people out there who is also resorting to such kind of life?
Plenty, I'm sure.
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Finding true love or sextify your libido?

Okie, you wanna get BOTH; You want someone who has a perfect figure, tall, presentable and with long slim legs to also LOVE you truly for who you are ("No look, no stable career, not much money and no girlfriend") and at the same time realize your sexual fantasy?
Well said bro..

This look more like a story where human fall in love with the Love Goddess and waiting for Love Goddess to cum to him..keke..
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TS, for your galfriend experience, don't blur the line between fantasy and reality..you be fine.
Just don't freak your date out by appearing sametime with "your friend"

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