Let me share with you guys a true life story.

At the end of day, whether you guys feels sorry for him
or not is up to your discreet. However there could be someone
out here whose life could be quite similar to his.

This is a story about a guy whose character is shy and quiet.
He is already in his late 30s, not good looking, doesn't really
like to talk much and seldom socialize with people. He is humble
and doesn't like to argue much with people. His number of friends
are limited.

Needless to say, with his character he doesn't even have any
girlfriend at all. His career path wasn't that smooth either. He had
been retrenched twice and lately he was asked to leave his present
company again.

His daily life routine is quite predictable. On weekdays, he will head
straight home after work. The only entertainment for him at night will
be surfing net. Due to his loneliness and aloofness, he often like to visit
websites that allows him to know girls from either local or overseas.
He is fond of Thai girls and tried writing to many of them but none of
them really bothers or willing to correspond with him. His weekend routine
is quite boring as well. He will visit the temple at "four horse road" either
on Saturday or Sunday to offer his praying to "God of Mercy". His prayings
are always the same. He will wish that God of Mercy will help him find his
Soul Mate and also to search for better prospect job since he has been out
of job for 3 times.

Having no girlfriend at all, the only way to "fill up the gap" is to watch
porn movies. To him, that is the only way he can fantasize the type of
girl that he has wished so much to love and of course it is inevitable that
he will release himself from the urge by "Shooting Hand Gun".

He keep himself fit and healthy by regular exercising. He done his research
on how to have better and enjoyable sex with girls. He trains hard both
physically and mentally for his trip to the "Land of smile".To achieve this,
he has been planning to save up some money which eventually allows him
to make his trip to Bangkok for his lusted night life. That place to him is where his dreams or fantasy can ran wild.

It is where he can fulfill his desire to search for a girl to at least forget
his loneliness back home. He knew that money can't buy true love. No
money mean no honey. But he still got this hope that perhaps one fine
day his dreams of searching a Thai girl that truly appreciate his character
will come true.

But at the end of the day, when all glasses of beer has been bottoms up
and the music stops, he has to wake up from his dream land to face reality
again. He has to return back home and once again he feels lonely with not
much friends around him and no girlfriend by his side. Once again he is back
to watch porn movies and surfing websites to search for friends.........

I beg to defer.
Having relationship to "fill up the gap" are not only extended to attachment to an opposite gender. A religion can brings about much more dependable and meaningful relationship. Even community work works too..

A person can only feel lonely if he/she allows himself/herself to.
If boy/gal relationship are the only source to avoid loneliness, that false belief will lead to viewing such relationship as of the uptmost importance, which will lead to fear of loosing it, very much displayed out as being a "doormat" and slavery.

In such case, will you be happy then?

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Retired Samster

I do agree with your views about "filling up the gap" with relationship.

Religion does give us hope, faith and perhaps it could also bring about
a "sense of belonging".

The story continues....here.

To this guy who has never tasted true love with the opposite gender, he has
always been envy on others who seems to easily get attached to any girl.
Generally, he likes girls who is tall, presentable and with long slim legs.
Girls that love to wear short exposing their fair and nice looking legs seems
to turn him on. Of course girls with good figure is a plus point and he has been eyeing and hoping one for a very long time. Whenever he encounter such species, he can watch from far but he don't dare to approach the girl
and get to know her better. Probably it's because of his true nature character which is incline to being more reactive rather than pro-active.

He being just like any normal guy often fantasize about sex but he ain't daring enough to hit straight to Geylang for pay sex whenever his urge
arise fearing that someone could be his friends or colleague saw and
recognize him in those red light district. Perhaps for him the only way
out is to go somewhere out of this tiny red dot to satisfy his libido.
There are time he has been asking himself why is he doing this? Is he
really such a looser? No look, no stable career, not much money and
no girlfriend. Are there people out there who is also resorting to such
kind of life?

That sounds just like me, just that i m younger...

1) Not good looking (Check, totally look different from edison)
2) Shy
3) Quiet
4) Anti-Social (Not really...)
5) Humble (Yes.. VERY )
6) Peace Lover (Lazy to argue...)
7) Limited Friend (Camp friends, gamer, staff, client, gambling, thats all)
8) He will wish that God of Mercy will help him find his
Soul Mate (LOL I actually did this when i sees my friend getting married 1 by 1)
9) search for better prospect job since he has been out of job for 3 times.
10) Having no girlfriend at all, the only way to "fill up the gap" is to watch
porn movies
11) Once again he is back to watch porn movies and surfing websites to search for friends)

I fits all the 11 points you said in ur story... Are u stalking me =.="

Anyway, to whoever that friend of yours is, good luck for him...

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~~Temporary Retired~~

Everyone finds their true love one day.

There is a big difference here................. your outlook is positive.

Nevermind what you lack, think of those who are worse off.......

There are much more worse off people around us...

Maybe TS should bring 'his friend' to do some charitable deeds on weekends, and find joy in there.

Is ur fren named "emokid"?? think my nick suits him well sia... Agree wif other bro on the pts abt u will b lonely if u allow urself to be... get involve in community svc, help out @ charitable org will help... "ur friend" get to help n see those who r less fortunate than "he" tot "he" is... I may get emo @ times too, but u need to get out of it... do something meaningful tis weekend.

is your friend = you ?

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if yr friend is the introvert type of guy and is looking for his real love he should find someone who fit his profile. girls who r extrovert, havoc and sexy may be fun to fantasize but will not be good match for him. worse still, since he is passive, shy and doesnt like to argue if he does go steady with his polar opposite type of girl he might end up the one wearing the skirt. if he finds it really difficult to sian a girl he may consider joining SDU or getting a foreign bride when the time arrives.

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Also tell your "friend" not to behave like a "HUM SUP LOH" when going out with a gal, haam sup will scare her off

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high potential of being featured as a pervert in the media........

why you think like that, ahhh....????

Sounds like a typical pervert to me.

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Dear bro TS,

What your "Friend" can do, is not only go to "Four Horse Road"
if he can go "Church" and join the service, u can make alot of Friend
there..

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kekeke thats the problem with introvert guys. watching too much porn and fantasize too much sex will make one looks more hum sup and despo causing girls to siam even further. girls love to be close to guys who look like innocent saints( check out those jap/korean/taiwan dramas for reference) so i think TS u should advise yr friend to adopt a more healthy lifestyle and find a decent gf that fits his own profile for a healthy relationship rather than just going after sex.

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