ok, i mentioned earlier that i had "credits" from booking her ON without paying and honestly i felt bad. I mean although she never spoke a single word about money, it doesnt mean i can keep quiet and get away with it.

So i bought her a $600 + handphone and a camcorder.

The handphone is practical as hers is over 1 year old and the screen is scratched (though still useable) and the camcorder (a relatively cheap one), i told her its to record memories of us together. I told her no matter what becomes of us, i will never forget her this lifetime (to me its becos its my first time in "love" with a WL).

And of course, being sex-siao, i used the camcorder to record our sex acts. This time, i unleashed the beast in me and have all the acts captured digitally which would add to my personal collection. Being a hardcore JAP AV fan when i was younger, i recorded a series of video clips of us. And im proud to say these include:

The Mild:
1. She doing a strip tease dancing to erotic music and striped till her either cute lingerie or sexy lacy bras and g-strings. [Gravure] *PS she can dance really well

2. Soft porn. We making gentle passionate love but no dicks and pussies are captured on screen. [RA/AV]

3. Hardcore. She sucking my dickie, me licking her pussy close up and all the fucking scenes you can imagine. [Hardcore]

4. Cos Play: I bought my fav CHI* (cant understand? i should use this CH*J)uniforms and a few other cos play uniform from the adult novelty shops in geylang

5. Sex Toys: Spend almost 1k at the novelty shop for some mechanic help to stimulate our erotic parts.

6. Animalistic. Arh this i a bit paiseh to share.

But the main point here is, i had her face close up shot and believe me, every single video we took, she allowed me to keep them in my laptop. To me, this is trust as i could have use it to blackmail her (i wont do that though) etc.

And another one, she showed me her passport (so i know her real identity) and she gave me her house number and her parents (dad and mum)'s cellphone numbers!

How i know its true? During the first month, i have seen her calling her parents pretty frequently and after our relationship stablish, i was the one who requested for her parents number so i can talk to them.

Reason? 1. Show her im serious and 2. Just wanted to make sure she wasnt acting.

Not only that, when one of her tong xiang (from the same city Jilin) was going back, i spent a few hundreds on some gifts for her dad and mum and followed up with a call to applease them (i sure know how to make myself look like a prospective son-in-law!)

All this stuff, her allowing me to talk her porno video, her personal information at home (her parents numbers) convinced me that she likes me (unless she got 2 ah lao to pose as her parents.

And honestly speaking, after 3 months of being wary and seeing how sweet she was - logically speaking i was pretty convinced that she does like me -UNTIL she asks for money which she havent yet. But i did bear in mind i did spend quite a bit on her.

At this point in time, very honestly, instead of feeling cocksure about having the upper hand, here i was - pretty touched.

But fuck - i keep telling myself after reading all those sad and suckers' stories in SBF that that 1 thought of believing in her is the first step to destruction for me.

I held back my feelings, psycho-ed myself that shes a phua chee bye (which honestly isnt fair to her) and keep telling myself that im nobody special - NOT handsome - NOT rich and i just dun believe in such luck.

So emotionally, when i reflected back right now - i was stable. And in the right state of mind.

And proud being able to do just that.

thanks a lot. for your question above im referring to the bfs of my gf's friends. For the PM i wasnt referring to you but a SBF member collins whom i PM for advice earlier.

Hi Bro,
Very nice story.
Dun mean to pour cold water. To me, you are a BIG ROBERT HEAD!

If you really want to know whether she really likes you, try fucking her for 1 whole week and dun pay her a single cent.

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fuck by many already yet you dare to fuck with no condom. Seriously i doubt you check her half inch love hole rule every time you doing it that so you gotta worry what she left for you

Good one TS! Camping here!

Nice thread TS, upz 7 for ya.

Hope got happy ending...

Honestly speaking........If you are those who cant forget or forgive your partner's past... i suggest you don't go into this kind of relationship. And if you got no intention of having a future with her,....pls don't play around with her feeling,whether WL or not.They are still woman afterall, and they do have feeling too.
Through out all your posting, you only give me a impression that you are a very calculative person.......Counting you profit or lost with her. Counting how many time you bonk her ,then spend back some amount ensuring you still gain on it.

What else do you want her to do to make you believe that she really like you?
You keep saying because shes a WL to give yourself excuses only for not wanting a relationship with her
Its just an excuses.......
And excuses is like an asshole, everyone sure has one..........

hi, actually if you read my post i did bang her many times without paying, i bought her stuff so that she wouldnt be on the losing end. never did she ask a single cent from me actually.

yeah i know its crazy, my friends who know about this told me this too. For me, i do believe that PRC WLs are very conscious about her well-being but still its a risk i took. If im down with any sickness, i would say yes i regret it. :P

hi, honestly speaking i personally dun think im calculative. The reason why i made an effort to put those figures down is becos after reading other threads on r/s with PRC girls, many other SBF members were asking about what the girls wanted so in sharing my story i told by being specific, those who are interested would get a clear picture.

In fact i have left out some facts about the little other things i have done for her (which i feel is too detailed) and while with her, she has told me and her friends that i have been really nice to her and used the word "non calculative" on me.

But i respect everyone's opinions here.

Also it was also due to my good friends warning to me (who know about my relationship with her right from the start) that i keep reminding myself not to be a carrot head. Of course the season players / WL killers would think so, but its still within my financial limits and i have not (yet) gone gaga over her.

thanks a lot!

hey bro

your story interesting leh... so r u all still together?

cheer

bro, i believe your story..as I too find myself in a somewhat similar situation recently. I would love to read your full story....do continue.
Maybe it will give me some insight on how to handle my own situation.

5 pts as encouragement for your effort to pen everything down.

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I too believed your story. I have known WLs (in China) who have put their hearts in relationships and gone on to quit their jobs and got married. Hoping for a happy ending for you too.

to TS, i feel for you bro. As we regulars who go around bonking quite frequently, there's bound to be some WLs out there who will catch our heart and it will be very hard and emotional on us ... Me too was in a similar position as you when i got serious with a Korean WL here in melbourne, but we were never bf/gf, but we sort of spent a lot of our time together and as things grew complicated, we stopped seeing each other ....

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