Well, maybe the gifts and stuffs you bought for her should be more than enough. I hope you know what you are doing.

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Well story , love isnt right or wrong ,you go for your feeling .but think back ,how long it will last. a lot of story in love with prostitute end up money matters after a year or least ,they went back to same old line to get more income ,can you accepts it? If you can ,go for it .if not ,dont move on .

alot of others wife is a Prostitute for reason ,well saying is money world ,but think back again ,if i richer than now, what marry to a prostitute back ground woman ....good or bad , Prostitute always have a poor fate herself ,i dont know why , its only can see end of the day .....Dicovery it yourself ,good luck!

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Hi TS,

very interesting story. I hope both of you will have a happy ending.
Pls reply to keep your post current so i can up u as a form of encouragement.

Meanwhile, I read that you have slept with her many times and as some form of compensation you spent on other things/gifts to make up for it, in some sense.
While I understand that you choose to be a gentleman to her and not short change her, I urge you to keep your whatever spending in moderation.
Whether you can afford it or not is one matter, but the concern is not to raise her expectation on your financial capability in spending to developing/maintaining the relationship.
I am sure you would like to be with her as long as possible, but unless you are cash-filthy-rich, you will always risk putting a tow on your wallet.

So to give an example, depending on individual needs, giving her a few hundred every other week is realistic and considerate, but almost a grand on sex related toys is not something encouraging. many of us here have to work a considerable days to earn that amount.

Also, i hope you dun focus too much on "she dun ask a single cent" & "she gives me raw" reason to justify upkeeping the relationship.
She dun ask for a cent cos she knows you will compensate her somehow at later stage, and that act along is enough to get you hook by the leash.
And if you RTF/KC/bonk many times enough, many PRC WL can also offers you raw. FYI, they do take contraceptive pills even when using condom at work is thier norm. And some PRC gals are either not well-imformed or loyal to safe-sex practice.
I do get to understand abit on this cos I have in the past 2 PRC WL turn fuck buddy. One of them even wanted to have a baby for me before she goes back cos her bf is doing time behind bars for another 10 yrs and she cannot wait for him anymore, given that she is reaching 30+. Of cos i MIA on her last day in SG but i still get her sms from China.

So what I am trying to blah at is to focus on expectations, compatibility and that inner heart feeling minus the lust and sex.

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thanks for the note, actually i was really too busy to continue the story, i mean where possible im trying to be specific so it can be of help to other bros.

financially, it may sound crazy but at this point in time, im better off than where i started before knowing her. and im not a gigolo or a con man. This is the most incredible thing that happened to me and im totally touched. this is the difficult part in me letting go as im pretty convinced shes serious - to the point of "giving" me money. If she were just placing her bets - and expect something more - i think she would be dumb to do that.

anyway why are people calling me TS? kinda weird

In SBF lingo, TS means ThreadStarter, that's you since you started this thread..

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Bro lovemachine,

You really champion. can spent $1k on erotic things.. I also have Wl as gf before from different nationalities, eg, PRC, Pinays, Indo, Thai, and Viet.. But i would say definately PRC is not a choice to make, but the others also might not be able to make it also.. I would say every country also got good and bad WL, it depends on luck. i have spent more than $10k on them in total in regards to a total expenses. But after so many gals and after so many years. I have been a carrot head also, but after so many experience, of course gets better now.. The max i've spent on is Pinays, who she really look like Chinese. My friend tried to ON her before she was my gf, but to no avail, pay her how much also no use.. Which after quite some times, gradually she becomes my gf and we live together at my house, but she still go to pubs and work. But didn't go out with other customer.. Not too talk in some much details.. Only till 1 fine day, i found out she got another bf in her country, i was really annoy and distrust her. But after quite some times when she goes back to Phil, then we broke up by not contacting each other..

So i would say a conclusion.. Your Vitamin M is the most important till you get married.. At that time, i wasn't earning high income, Also only $1k plus average monthly, luckily I'm now same as you doing my own business otherwise i can't even feed my family, buy my new car, and have holiday occasionally.. But you are earning not more than $5k on the high side, i think you have already spent quite a lot on her.. If you and her is into BGR, i think you should not even think of spending money on her instead should save up for later.

if you tell her that, you cannot spend so much because you have to save up for your future family to have with her, i think it might be even better..

But never the least, best of luck to you to your future encounter then..


Bro ekemono,

you are damn right.. I can say that you are a lao jiao (old bird) liao.. Can say you are a WL killer.. But money earn is meant to be spent by ourselves, not to be being slaughter by others, right.. We work hard, we enjoy hard also.. We reap what we sow...

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enjoying this story and others like bc like many bros here, I've either had relnships w some WL (not gf bc I almost always pay to keep it more professional) both in SG and TH. I know many bros give strong advice that WL here only for our money, very calculating, be wary. But many I met only give me life story / problems that drove them here much later, so i think these are probably not calculating. I feel that with so many driven here for financial needs, esp many young MILFs, their choices seem logical and as human beings can still have heart, can still fall in love.

But as I stay worried I try to keep on semi-professional basis. Semi b/c if I do things w them non-sex, then i no pay, we just watch movies, have fun. one reason is i have laopo so no way i can aim for gf love as you can

continue story, and best of luck. I never take relnship to gf so can't offer good advice to you, other than I do think there are good hearted PRC out there, even if v small %

Thanks a lot Lester for comforting me via PM.

The story, at this point in time i believe has come to an end.

It's over as of last night after a talk we agreed to have.

She has made a very hurting remark which has set us on the path of no-return.

Being both very strong headed and full of pride. It has ended.

I have escaped unscathed (Vitamin M wise) and its game over.

Feel damn shit but im still able to carry on my daily activities.

Knew it would never work out but i tasted what its like to have a RS with a WL.

No regrets and its a nice life experience.

As per my earlier posts, will continue to pen down what happened in the middle and give SBF members here their sides of the story so that:

1. Those who wanna "con" WL have more info
2. Some misconceptions bros here could have towards them
3. Interesting stuff i experienced with them

Totally agreed with you ..bro X_plorer.

We should not spend too much money on WL afterall there are just short term flings

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Share the same sentiment as u...Great to have you sharing your experience with us... Cheers!

I am sorry things didn't work out for you. But reading from your story I sense your good nature and thus, I am sure many many gals will come grab you later in life.

Meanwhile, its better to have love than not love at all.

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Bro lovemachine, thanks for sharing your story... i always believe that by sharing (telling someone) you can actually heal the wound (if any) faster. All is not lost as the sweet memeories remain.

I have upped your points for sharing, do continue.

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Camping for more on this ...tks for sharing.