Be brutally honest do you think the TS started this to get advice? Is he even griefing? This isn't some argument whether this is a sanctified "Oh I love a WL & now I'm hurt" rehab section. Yea I can choose not to read or question his intent but I have read and questioned his intent and that's the point of being in a forum. You can choose not to reply to my post but you chose to reply didn't you?

Correct. You choose to reply to question his intent, I choose to reply to you to question your intent. Like you just wrote, that's the point of being in a forum.

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Hi Bros,

I think a lot of the forums main intention is to share info.

Just like if you have some problem with Vista, so go to Vista forum and search, if none found, you may post a new thread and discuss your proble, some bros may provide tips that may work and some may not.

In these threads, its about relationship with WLs, so bros may provide their previous experience on how to tackle the relationship, every bros situations may be different, some may be hurt already, some just started to involve etc.

So basically we are here to share, and a lot of bros are really helpful.

Bro slider, sorry typo mistake, should be starbucks baristar, as I mean any nice looking lady that you come in contact frequently.

I cannot say much about TS' intent but I could testify to the effect of this thread. Without the advice of some seasoned bros here, I think that I would probably still be blinded inside a KC trap. The existence of this thread has at least in my case, given me the courage to pen down all the confusing emotional thoughts that were swirling in my mind whilst inside a KC trap.

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Yes bro etherc, this is the perspective underlying the spirit of a forum. But as is the rest of all threads, discussions are only broadly scoped with the topic title. Bro lovemachine's intention is only known to himself, and intention doesn't guarantees outcome. If we seek the original intent, we will find one end of a rope, but if you judge the outcome, you can see the elephant that is tied to the rope. Depending to what you intend to find out too, cos to me, it is a judgement call to read into lovemachine's story. It might be one to share story, and it might be one to relief emotions. So if you read it as a story, hey its just an advert. If you are able to touch the emotional level, you can actually feel how is it like to fall in love with a WL. Now that may not be the original intention, but it surely is the big elephant that is tied to it. That is how different bros get different message from the postings, and we chip in to express our opinions that in itself, lends a lot of social objectivity to the idea of such relationships. And that is a good outcome.

I believe if you start a question on the intention, you should place a point as well to take us to where you think the intent is. In that sense, you provide a sight for us to consider your view. Like you mentioned that marrying a WL is like buying a rented vehicle, a point fully agreed and illustrated that there is a place for certain things to take place.

Whether TS started this to get advice or to relief his emotion, this is a non-issue as there is no difference between either, he is getting both anyway. Yes he grieved and may continue to do so, and it started before this thread was formed, I know becos we had regular PM contacts. That is why I'm writing this post to answer you. Now what I am really interested in knowing, is what's your take in the purpose/original intention/outcome of this thread since you obviously did read thru to arrive at your earlier doubts. I am interested not becos I posted quite a bit here, but from the earlier posts I've learnt to respect your perception of things rather well.

The thread may be not for grievance per se, but lots of bros share their own experience and the variation of KC traps, it is for everyone to see, and all the tricks of those PRC little black book can be reveiled.

The spirit of sharing is amazing in the forum, not only on FLs contacts but also brotherly advise and a pat on the back to move on.

Finally finished catching up on the entire thread.

Thanks to all the bro's for such wonderful insights.

I have a few comments/personal opinion.

1. TS ask his GF to go and try to hitch another guy but after that blames her for trying? He knows that his GF has a target she is trying to achieve. I don't understand his intentions.

2. To people who are negative towards r/s with WLs. Are they not humans as well? Experience makes people what they are. I am not saying that all WLs have sob stories but lets try to be a bit positive at times. I've seen some positive encouragement in some threads here before.

3. Does it really matter who you pick as a lifelong companion? The only thing I see with WL r/s (besides whether you are a carrot head) is societies perception of WLs which ultimately makes it more challenging to make the r/s work. If some convicts can turn over a new leaf, WL should be able to as well. I've been in normal relationships, burned holes in my wallet with those too.

4. Human beings only learn the hard way. The only way to help is to ensure that the information resides in their brain and hopefully it surfaces in times of need.

As my signature says, I am a newbie. Just started cheonging for less than 3 months. And I expect that I too will need to pay tuition fees.

Thumbs up bro,

couldn't have said it better.

you da man!

This one depends,

I only offer KC in return can?

Hopefully, bros into it will see the light...

Somehow after 6 years you still don't know how to multi-quote..

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Can ..when I also ever tried to offer KC instead of cash. Guess what the WL told mi ....

They said " HBK, please dun look for bad women like us " You should look for better women in your life. Initially as a newbie then I thought they are good nature by saying all these to mi & later to realise that I have no money for them to con that why they prefer to spend their time KC-ing men who can afford to give them thick thick cash.

At the end of day ..relationship with WL regardless short run or long term is all about using cash to buy or to maintain paid true love

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Bro,

Damned bright on this side, here is like returning to MAKER lor...

Bro glooper, if you can also help newbie, show how to do multi-quote. Very impressive..