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Old 03-05-2009, 12:11 AM
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think you yet to meet the right guy girl!!! There plenty of exp bros here to let you experiment to find out what is lacking. If all else fail, we all Q up take turn lor
Lol like dat d Q will be endless
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Old 03-05-2009, 01:05 AM
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Re: Unable to orgasm, why?

Your man got beer belly , wrinkles, ugly face or anything unpleasant to the eyes?
Becos visual delight plays a significant role in sex.
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Old 03-05-2009, 01:50 AM
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Lol like dat d Q will be endless
And you're saying that as if it's a bad thing for you... LOL...
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Old 03-05-2009, 01:55 AM
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And you're saying that as if it's a bad thing for you... LOL...
Well..dun tink i nid so many bros here to try n make me orgasm
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Old 03-05-2009, 02:10 AM
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Well..dun tink i nid so many bros here to try n make me orgasm
LOL... Then I think the one(s) that you choose will be happy, and the rest will just have to read in envy... Or look on in envy if you choose to live out that fantasy of yours...
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Old 03-05-2009, 02:13 AM
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Well..dun tink i nid so many bros here to try n make me orgasm
There is nothing wrong with you, this is usually a lack of stimulation of your clitoris. Many women can't climax with only vaginal stimulation thus they need manual stimulation after intercourse to finally reach climax.

Relax and set the mood with foreplay, perform as much foreplay as possible, and if you wishes it, cunnilingus (licked, kissed or gently sucked) is very effective. In fact, if cunnilingus is properly performed, you will reach an initial orgasm. Do not stop however, as the larger and more important orgasm is yet to come. In addition, you can also tell him to finger you and guide him to your “elusive” G-spot. Once he pinpoint the location of your G-spot, that is the time that he can target it using his rod during penetration.

Do on positions (top or doggy) that stimulate your clitoris and G-Spot stimulation activities. Another position you can try is he can kneel while your legs is placed on his shoulders. This would allow both of you to look at each other’s eyes and touch other parts of each other’s body while stimulating the G-spot at the same time. If he doesn't know: Ask him to Watch for your Reaction and he’ll know when he has hit the Right Spot from the way that you will respond. If he still doesn't get it, then please REPLACE HIM !.....Good luck, Explode and Flood the Gate !!!

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Old 03-05-2009, 02:15 AM
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Re: Unable to orgasm, why?

There are biological differences even between women (though exactly what that is is not known), but some women have a lower threshold for orgasm and some higher, which reflects differences in sensitivity.

There is also a big psychological difference between women in that some women are more uninhibited than others and can let themselves go without guilt or shame and this makes it easier for them to have an orgasm. Anxiety interferes both psychologically and biologically (in the brain by blocking certain neural pathways) with reaching a climax.

Lastly, women who simply know a lot more about how to have an orgasm than others, will get sextisfied a lot more often than those who don't.

Women take on average 20 minutes of stimulation and arousal to have an orgasm. Men take quite a bit less. Women also have more variation in what they find to be stimulating as well as having more difficulty defining exactly where and how stimulation works best. Only 20 percent of women are able to orgasm with intercourse alone, most women need some sort of direct clitoral stimulation.

Often men believe women are the same, and once they figure what works for one woman they apply that same method to all the other women they are intimate with, and that’s one of the major problems.
50-60% of women will never have an orgasm via intercourse and will require clitoral stimulation to climax.
30% of women will have a reliable orgasm with intercourse.
10% of women will orgasm with intercourse and could possibly have sequential orgasms.
5% of women have true multiple orgasms only through intercourse and these women typically find oral sex uncomfortable.

On an even more interesting note, scientists have found that the pleasure women get from making love is directly linked to the size of their partner’s bank balance.

They found that the wealthier a man is, the more frequently his partner has orgasms.

“Women’s orgasm frequency increases with the income of their partner,” said Dr Thomas Pollet, the Newcastle University psychologist behind the research.

He believes the phenomenon is an “evolutionary adaptation” that is hard-wired into women, driving them to select men on the basis of their perceived quality.
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Old 03-05-2009, 02:22 AM
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Wow.. Gd knowledge for both bro xfire n panamera.
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Old 03-05-2009, 02:24 AM
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Re: Unable to orgasm, why?

If you are trying to climax and haven’t been able to, or if it's very difficult for you and you wish it were easier, here are some suggestions:
  • Self-stimulation. Its hard to say enough good things about how important it is to know yourself. Even if you have a partner, you only stand to make things better by practicing alone, when the pressure is off, to find out what works best for you and discover how to show him, too.
  • Try a vibrator. A battery-operated vibrator can help “break through” an obstacle to climaxing. Once you have had the experience several times, it will give you confidence that you “work just fine” and allow you to replicate that stimulation on your own or with your partner.
  • More direct stimulation. You can’t count on intercourse alone to provide enough stimulation. Manually, orally or with a vibrator, you may need to have you or your partner stimulate the clitoris more directly.
  • Use fantasy! You need a good fantasy to boost arousal enough to climax ... thinking about what you should make for dinner tomorrow during sex is not going to do it.
  • Try new things. Like with anything else in life, the same old, same old can get boring and boring does not go well together with orgasm. so mix it up and try new things to increase your arousal.
  • Focus on emotional intimacy with your partner.
  • Experiment and try new ways to please yourself.
  • Don’t be afraid to communicate with your partner because men aim to please and they want to please you!
  • Understand that your partner cannot read your mind, so talk to your partner about how you’re feeling and what you need.
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Wow.. Gd knowledge for both bro xfire n panamera.
Knowledge is useless if you do not use it, you have absorbed everything the way a dry sponge would, it is now time to “squeeze the water out slowly from the sponge” by finding practical ways to apply what you learn from all the good bros here, and that is really the key to making you climate like a perfect storm!
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Old 03-05-2009, 02:37 AM
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Re: Unable to orgasm, why?

Essay too long n my english not so powerful. Maybe i pick up some pts here n there to c how it works. Oh ya..i feel pain after sex but as mention earlier , i am oredi very wet..
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Essay too long n my english not so powerful. Maybe i pick up some pts here n there to c how it works. Oh ya..i feel pain after sex but as mention earlier , i am oredi very wet..
And you have left out the fact that you like it rough...
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Old 03-05-2009, 02:54 AM
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Oh ya..i feel pain after sex but as mention earlier , i am oredi very wet..
Your mind likes it rough, like pseudo-rape but your cunt is still made of flesh which is weak against friction, even with lubrication, it is prone to abrasion. I say, lay off the speed & increase the steam by slowing down.
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Old 03-05-2009, 03:02 AM
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And you have left out the fact that you like it rough...
Oh thx for d reminder. But rough here refering on my tits n not my pussy
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Re: Unable to orgasm, why?

sometime a 'quicky' in a 'dangerous place', u can reach your orgasm pretty fast. I remember 1 time when i was young, I pull my gf into the common toilet while my mum is in the living room. I finger her immediately n she cum just a few min. i normally take a lot of foreplay n lovemaking for 30min b4 she cum in normal circumstances.

another advise is while your bf is doing the foreplay, u mast yourself or have him mast you while he licking or kissing you. once u reach your climate then allow him to penetrade u. bcoz u have already stimulate by your mast. it may be easier for to to climate again. but of coz u will be very tired coming another time. if he still cant climate u while penetrating u. well at least u did climate b4. lol.

Always let your guy know which way or position satisfy u the most. I sure every guy will put in 100% effort to please his gal n will be encourage during the process when u praise him for hitting the right spot.

Lastly try not to pressure yourself or mentally not prepare. totally relax yourself and enjoy the process.
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