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Re: Unable to orgasm, why?
LOL... Then I think the one(s) that you choose will be happy, and the rest will just have to read in envy... Or look on in envy if you choose to live out that fantasy of yours...
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Re: Unable to orgasm, why?
There are biological differences even between women (though exactly what that is is not known), but some women have a lower threshold for orgasm and some higher, which reflects differences in sensitivity.
There is also a big psychological difference between women in that some women are more uninhibited than others and can let themselves go without guilt or shame and this makes it easier for them to have an orgasm. Anxiety interferes both psychologically and biologically (in the brain by blocking certain neural pathways) with reaching a climax. Lastly, women who simply know a lot more about how to have an orgasm than others, will get sextisfied a lot more often than those who don't. Women take on average 20 minutes of stimulation and arousal to have an orgasm. Men take quite a bit less. Women also have more variation in what they find to be stimulating as well as having more difficulty defining exactly where and how stimulation works best. Only 20 percent of women are able to orgasm with intercourse alone, most women need some sort of direct clitoral stimulation. Often men believe women are the same, and once they figure what works for one woman they apply that same method to all the other women they are intimate with, and that’s one of the major problems. 50-60% of women will never have an orgasm via intercourse and will require clitoral stimulation to climax. 30% of women will have a reliable orgasm with intercourse. 10% of women will orgasm with intercourse and could possibly have sequential orgasms. 5% of women have true multiple orgasms only through intercourse and these women typically find oral sex uncomfortable. On an even more interesting note, scientists have found that the pleasure women get from making love is directly linked to the size of their partner’s bank balance. They found that the wealthier a man is, the more frequently his partner has orgasms. “Women’s orgasm frequency increases with the income of their partner,” said Dr Thomas Pollet, the Newcastle University psychologist behind the research. He believes the phenomenon is an “evolutionary adaptation” that is hard-wired into women, driving them to select men on the basis of their perceived quality. |
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Re: Unable to orgasm, why?
If you are trying to climax and haven’t been able to, or if it's very difficult for you and you wish it were easier, here are some suggestions:
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Re: Unable to orgasm, why?
Knowledge is useless if you do not use it, you have absorbed everything the way a dry sponge would, it is now time to “squeeze the water out slowly from the sponge” by finding practical ways to apply what you learn from all the good bros here, and that is really the key to making you climate like a perfect storm!
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Re: Unable to orgasm, why?
Essay too long n my english not so powerful. Maybe i pick up some pts here n there to c how it works. Oh ya..i feel pain after sex but as mention earlier , i am oredi very wet..
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Re: Unable to orgasm, why?
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Re: Unable to orgasm, why?
Oh thx for d reminder. But rough here refering on my tits n not my pussy
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I love lollipops. Which lollipop r u tinking of? *winks* Note : Pls do not PM me asking for msn Last edited by eternally; 03-05-2009 at 03:09 AM. Reason: Wrong |
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Re: Unable to orgasm, why?
sometime a 'quicky' in a 'dangerous place', u can reach your orgasm pretty fast. I remember 1 time when i was young, I pull my gf into the common toilet while my mum is in the living room. I finger her immediately n she cum just a few min. i normally take a lot of foreplay n lovemaking for 30min b4 she cum in normal circumstances.
another advise is while your bf is doing the foreplay, u mast yourself or have him mast you while he licking or kissing you. once u reach your climate then allow him to penetrade u. bcoz u have already stimulate by your mast. it may be easier for to to climate again. but of coz u will be very tired coming another time. if he still cant climate u while penetrating u. well at least u did climate b4. lol. Always let your guy know which way or position satisfy u the most. I sure every guy will put in 100% effort to please his gal n will be encourage during the process when u praise him for hitting the right spot. Lastly try not to pressure yourself or mentally not prepare. totally relax yourself and enjoy the process. |
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