Hi all,

feeling paranoid over the past 2 days and finally went for the hiv test on Sat.
These two days have been the longest of my life. Wasn't able to concentrate in the office and thinking of a lot of things. Once I am back home, I would spend hours seaching for information on hiv and looking back if I had any obvious symptons back then.Btw, my last dangerous exposure was somewhere in Feb last year


It's really killing me as each second was like days, each minute was like months and each hour was like years to me. I was going insane. I realise that should the worst happened, it will be a situation that I cannot handle and definitely I will just break down.

Went up to the second floor, paid $20, fill up a form and waited. Meet up with angela and told her my dangerous encounters, 1 count of unprotected sex and 1 count of a condom breakage. Told her of my mental state is very unstable and it's killing me because this one test, the result will be conclusive, either it's a sure positive or a sure negativeve since I have fulfilled the window period. There is no more a second chance.


Got a small prick on the middle finger and drip a drop of blood on the test strip. Went back outside the waiting area, as I await my sentence to be passed on me. To me, it's already a fxxx feeling to be judged by others and I feel even worse when I know I may be put on death row within 10-15 minutes.

My number was called up! Time's up I guess, the moment of truth will soon befall on me. Will I be truly reborn or truly be gone. What am i going to tell my loved ones? Will I just break donw and go insane? These are some of the thoughts that went through my mind.

It's angela again and she told me, I am safe and I can step out of here and have a peace of my mind.

Life is already short so don't make it shorter,
Life is precious to lose to a damn virus.


My message to brothers, wear a condom before your didi go cheong in the public toilet since he wouldn't (and neither will you) know the type of enemy he encounter in the public toilet.

After this ordeal, a though came to me and say: why not let those newbies who wanted to start cheonging go through the hiv testing experience so that end of the day, they will be aware of the stress level they have to go through and the courage they have to muster to go for the test.

Only then will they be more clear of what they are getting themslves into the commercial sex scence. Just hope that it's not just joy, pleasure and your didi feels shiok that one is getting into when he goes into commercial sex, but also the stress and phobia that one has to cope as well. If you can't you would have gone insane while waiting to go for the first test (3 month window) and then a second round (for the the 6 month period.)Only then the results will be very much concclusive.

bro...first of all i would like to congratulate you on the negative test result.

you used the term 'public toilet'.

in our real world, we have a choice to use and pay for the public toilets when one has real nature calls. our hands are not twisted neither do we have knives pointed at us forcing us to use them. it is one's call to decide whether he wants to use the public or home toilets.

are you referring the girls in the trade and maybe ONS ladies as 'public toilets'? if you are, dont you think its derogating/degrading to use this term on them? especially now that you have tested negative and the world's weight is off your shoulders.

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Bro qpdp,

I apologize for my choice of words. Next time I will use a better choice of words..my ang moh not too good. I hope that my intention of good will is not mistaken by brothers here. I only hope that my experience would be a reminder for the people reading this forum.


Peace.

bro be gone

i fully understand your good intention to encourage bros in the forum to go for the test. this is commendable. and the same goes to bros who always encourage the same.

no worries. no feelings harm.

cheers!

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hi all,

i have a qn, is the antibodies still detectable after the window period of 6 mths(frm the last encounter)?

i did a test on the 3rd and 4th mths and cleared it, cant help but to worry.
highest risk taken was raw oral, bonking capped.

sigh,
KLGL

Yes, its detectable... untill perhapd the aids stage when immune system is crippled

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Oral even raw is still consider low risk. U tested till 4th mth is a very gd indication. Most countries test till 3 mth. Dun worry so much and enjoy the holidays.

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after reading what you guys posted, I just have to say that once you decided to go for sex and can't stop this urge. You should be prepare for HIV even if you have protection with condoms. if you got bad luck and you got Aids, just have to face it and say to yourself. It's your own life, you created this shit and you deserve to face this shit.

Hi had some quirey in my mind.. hope you all can help..

1. if i bring the bar gal for a checkup and the test show that she was free from HIV or STD.. what the risk of getting any of the virus if we had raw sex??

unless u can make sure that she have no sex for 3 month before u send her for the HIV check up.... it defeat the purpose of the whole checkup..

and i really doubt the bar gal will agree to let you check her for a check up..

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Thanks for the help.. had raise this question is because my fren had sex with a bar gal with condem but half way thru the gal remove his condem and given no choice he do it raw... after that the gal tell her she just went for check up... she was free from any virus... my fren a bit scare scare so i help him to posted here to check...btw that means if we had raw and after that i bring the gal for check up... the check up didnt show any sign of virus.. i will still be infected because it take 3 month before they are able to detect the virus it is??

Great appericate your advise

yeap.. u still might get HIV..... but as far as i know.. Bar girls are not required to go for checkup, unlike those legalise WL in geylang.

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Hi all bros, need to ask. If we pay the $20 at DSC, besides saying if we have aids, does it gives resulls on whether we have contracted STD too?

Pls advice?

If u go for the anonymous testing it checks for HIV only at 20 dollars. Whereas if u go to DSC and register daytime for a syphillis/HIV check u will pay think is 22 or 28 in total and have to wait 1 week for your result whereby u have to revisit DSC for your syphillis/HIV result.

20 dollars does not check for other contracted stds.

one question big bros...hope you guys dont mind...

let say there is a case...

you got ulcer in your mouth and you do normal kissing...and the girl got no ulcer...but her saliva contact with your ulcer...will you get HIV in this way if she is infected??

sorry for the ignorant question...hope you guys wont mind...