HELP! I've been having this problem of not able to maintain an erection for penetration !

I've been single for like 2 years and call me a loser, I DIY at least once a day! I heard this could be the cause of my condition? Any experienced dudes or GPs can advise on this?

Read that there's 2 types of ED

1) Physical
2) Psychological

One indicator is that if I can get a morning erection (upon waking), it shouldnt be a physical condition. But it's not like I have any psychological barrier either!~

It's like, I can only cum if I do it myself.. .so my partner is really sadded.

Any ways or advice to rectify this? Meanwhile I better work on my fingering!

I'm an excessive wanker! (LOSER)

Bro,try wild oats from GNC.

I also wanked everyday, sometimes twice a day when i was younger and sex urge was on overdrive. Hehe.

I dun think that makes one a LOSER bro. If so - many ppl willbe losers even Bill Clinton!

Haha, so instead of working on yr fingering, try to raise yr self esteem. 'Free your mind and the rest will follow'.

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Hi bro,

Like the bro above I consider myself to have a huge sexual appetite too but there were times when couldn't get it up too. I understand it can be stressful for both you and GF. Worst for me cos I'm married. The long period of being attached could be the reason. I heard guys who are sexually active (DIY not counting) goes on to lead a long an active sexual life. May I ask if you are working in a high stress environment? I ask as I know ehen I'm pressured by deadlines and stuff my sexdrive goes dow. Its definitely psychological as you yourself noted morning erections and ability to manual clearing of weapon.

Try taking things easy, dun dwell too much on it as the more pressure you ut on yourself the harder it will be on to do the act. Might want to lay off choking the turkey for a few days to see if that improves things. Sex should be enjoyable, not stressful...

Hi Bro,

From what you mentioned it seem to be psychological. Sometime you may not even know what is the psychological problem you may have yourself. If it is physicla, you will not be able to DIY at all.

Try this method:

Dont think about sex for the next 1 or 2 month and only have sex when the mood is correct. Occupy with your mind with other stuffs. The more you push yourself, the more likely it will fail.

If all fails you may want to consult a GP.

Hope this is useful to you

hi bro, perhaps you should have a medical check up. when i was in reservist training overseas, a buddy had the same problem when he called a pros. later back to sg, he was found to have diabetes and high blood pressure which was rare at the age of 25/26.

maybe u can try to watch those x-rated clip(s),see if ur small bruther can raise and harden.
if can,then i think probably it is either stress or fatigue or in ur mind.
if diy,can harden and raise,then you should try to relax when doing it with ur g/f or fl.
the best is still,go and have a check-up to confirm it lor.

How come you proclaimed single, then suddenly you got a partner?
If she's a FL, most probably it is in your mind.

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if you are still able to wank, that means you are not in the ED category yet.

basically you wank too much la. our hands movements and grip are so much more harder and faster than the pussy so you may have loose sensitivity temporary. Some other factor that contribute to worsen the condition could be stress, lack of rest, lousy diet, excessive drinking, smoking?

But just stop wanking for weeks, eat balanced diet, learn to destress, excercise and you should be okay again.

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Bro i agree with you, on the DIY stuff cuz the other day i tried to do it with a FL my didi keep having problems staying errect and when i penetrate my didi soft liao prolly due to being used to the tight grip of my hand and fast movement.

Think i have to stop for a while it seems. Reload ammo too.

Bro, you are right: "...guys who are sexually active goes on to lead an active sexual life", indeed. I just read an article on this, as follows:

QUOTE: WASHINGTON (AFP) - - Older men who have more sex will experience fewer erection problems, Finnish researchers reported in the July issue of The American Journal of Medicine.

The five-year study of 989 men aged 55-75 in Pirkanmaa, Finland, showed that having sexual intercourse less than once per week doubled the risk of erectile dysfunction (ED), compared to having sex once per week.

The researchers of the Department of Urology of Tampere University Hospital, in Finland, checked for other factors that may affect the incidence of ED, such as age and chronic medical conditions including diabetes, heart disease, hypertension and depression.

They found that ED affected 79 out of 1,000 men who reported making love less than once per week. The rate dropped to 32 per 1,000 among men making love once per week, and to 16 per 1,000 for those doing it three times or more per week.

"Regular intercourse has an important role in preserving erectile function among elderly men," said Juha Koskimaki, one of the study's authors.

"The investigators advise clinicians to support the sexual activity of their patients," the study concluded. UNQUOTE

So, all bros, go out & enjoy yrself as much as you can !!! As they say, if you don't use it, you lose it!!!!

An important factor that contributes to ED at a younger age is: obesity. Are you quite overweight? Also, do you have high blood pressure? If you are and on high blood pressure medication, they are known to lower libido.

I don't think wanking is a factor that causes ED.

Bro, are u very sure obesity can cause ED at young age? Where you read it from?

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I attended some seminar by a panel of reputable gynaes and psychiatrist. One of the gynae is Dr Peter Chew who is a well-known gynae. Information from there, and also from some research from the Internet. You can try googling "Obesity Erectile Dysfunction"

Bro,

I have a friend age 23 who is obesity and his weight abt 85kg ht 1.67m . His manhood still can perform no problem.

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