Happiness / family

Naughtyb9y · #1 12-04-2015, 05:16 AM

Hi all bros.

Been married for 3 years with a 2 year old daughter.

I must admit my wife is really a good wife. Be it in bed or a daughter-in-law or a mother. The only bad point is she can really really get very sensitive at the slightest things. Which makes me hate it a lot.

I still have feeling for my ex-girlf. We still keep in contact , Somehow we know there's still love between us. My marriage is in between of us.. Have been thinking really hard..

Should I give up my family and pursue my happiness? Or should I give my happiness for my family? My daughter is my main concern.. I've been thinking so hard for months.. I really need some advice from bros here..

maxsee · #2 12-04-2015, 09:00 AM

Nothing is perfect...stick to your current marriage....grass just looks greener on the other side for now....might not be so green when you are actually there...

sammyboyfor · #3 12-04-2015, 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Naughtyb9y

Should I give up my family and pursue my happiness? Or should I give my happiness for my family? My daughter is my main concern.. I've been thinking so hard for months.. I really need some advice from bros here..

If you leave your current wife and marry your current girlfriend, you'll be in exactly the same situation a few years down the road.

ALL girls are a pain to live with. They're sensitive, illogical and manipulative and I have yet to meet one that means what she says.

Questions women ask are usually tests and answers women give are the opposite of what they really feel.

If you currently have a wife who doesn't fuck around behind your back, spend all your money and neglect the children, consider yourself bloody lucky. If she's good in bed, it's a huge bonus. Most married men don't get much sex which is why they're here in this forum.

Naughtyb9y · #4 12-04-2015, 09:53 AM

Yes bro I agree.. Nothing is perfect. That's what I'm afraid too.. I'm really stuck in between. I don't wish to break up my family but I'm driving crazy thinking of my ex..

Naughtyb9y · #5 12-04-2015, 09:58 AM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

If you leave your current wife and marry your current girlfriend, you'll be in exactly the same situation a few years down the road.

ALL girls are a pain to live with. They're sensitive, illogical and manipulative and I have yet to meet one that means what she says.

Questions women ask are usually tests and answers women give are the opposite of what they really feel.

If you currently have a wife who doesn't fuck around behind your back, spend all your money and neglect the children, consider yourself bloody lucky. If she's good in bed, it's a huge bonus. Most married men don't get much sex which is why they're here in this forum.

Yes boss, my current wife is non of the above you mentioned. She is 100% faithful. She don't spend much of my money and she love the children more than I do.

But the thoughts of my ex-girlfriend just make me crazy. It's been years thinking of her. I really cannot give up my ex. I try all means, I drink all night to sleep. I really miss her a lot. Always thinking how great it will be if it was my ex by my side.

I always tell myself learn how to appreciate but I just can't do it..
The esixting of my ex is a big headache to me.. My life feels so fk up

Intltuk · #6 12-04-2015, 11:47 AM

TS, seems like u're an asshole who dont' deserve ur current wife. She ticks most of the right boxes but u're lusting over ur ex........and why is she an ex when she could have been ur wife? Geez......

From ur rantings....seems like u're never gonna get over ur ex until u get her. Boss and others have tried to open ur eyes but looks like nobody can help u if u don't help urself.

So, go ahead and do what u want and we will be waiting to hear the next rantings once u're with ur ex.

Sighzzzzzzzz

porscheclub · #7 12-04-2015, 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Naughtyb9y

I must admit my wife is really a good wife. Be it in bed or a daughter-in-law or a mother.

She's a dream. Wanna exchange?

Seriously. Most wives are bad daughter-in-laws & are terrible in bed after you have kids.

Appreciate her. Bring her out for a good dinner once a month, reward her with a good Spa+hair salon. Buy her some quality lingerie & hope for the best!

loneyheart · #8 12-04-2015, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Naughtyb9y

Yes boss, my current wife is non of the above you mentioned. She is 100% faithful. She don't spend much of my money and she love the children more than I do.

But the thoughts of my ex-girlfriend just make me crazy. It's been years thinking of her. I really cannot give up my ex. I try all means, I drink all night to sleep. I really miss her a lot. Always thinking how great it will be if it was my ex by my side.

I always tell myself learn how to appreciate but I just can't do it..
The esixting of my ex is a big headache to me.. My life feels so fk up

U r a lucky guy tat dum know wat is lucky ... the main problem is u ... n what u search for is short term excitement once u n yr ex is over u will regret n cry like a baby
Dum need to ask further yr heart is not w the family u had already decided ... U ask for it !!!

porscheclub · #9 12-04-2015, 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Naughtyb9y

But the thoughts of my ex-girlfriend just make me crazy. It's been years thinking of her. I really cannot give up my ex. I try all means, I drink all night to sleep. I really miss her a lot. Always thinking how great it will be if it was my ex by my side.

Why are you so obsessed with an ex? Is sex that great or her personality? She's EX for a reason otherwise you would've married her.

Remember. We grow old & so will the women. Once they hit menopause, our sex life will go negative so worry about that more!

Hurricane88 · #10 12-04-2015, 12:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Naughtyb9y

Yes bro I agree.. Nothing is perfect. That's what I'm afraid too.. I'm really stuck in between. I don't wish to break up my family but I'm driving crazy thinking of my ex..

not even 7 years...you started to itch...haha...so you wanted to contribute 1 more to the recent huge divorce rate in Sinkieland...

ask yourself...are you prepare to give up 50-80% more of your assets to your wife in case of divorce due to women charter...also all future maintenance to your daughter who may grew up hating you and calling another guy father in case your ex-wife remarry...

korean · #11 12-04-2015, 12:46 PM

Millions dollar question, do you still love your wife, or did u love your wife ever? Are you loving your ex more than your wife now?what Is your ex status now? How close r u with ur ex?

Naughtyb9y · #12 12-04-2015, 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Intltuk

TS, seems like u're an asshole who dont' deserve ur current wife. She ticks most of the right boxes but u're lusting over ur ex........and why is she an ex when she could have been ur wife? Geez......

From ur rantings....seems like u're never gonna get over ur ex until u get her. Boss and others have tried to open ur eyes but looks like nobody can help u if u don't help urself.

So, go ahead and do what u want and we will be waiting to hear the next rantings once u're with ur ex.

Sighzzzzzzzz

Tbh, can you control your feeling? Control to love who?
If so easy to get over my ex like abc, you think I don't want? Why will I wanna make myself so headache if I were given a choice?

She was my ex cause of silly mistake I made.

& it's not seems like I cannot get over. Is I really cannot get over. That why I asking for fellow bros for advice to go towards my happiness or substain the family. If I'm not helping myself, why do I even want to seek advice from bros here. And you doesn't seems like giving any advice. Don't know what's upur comment for hahah

Intltuk · #13 12-04-2015, 01:00 PM

TS, u for real or not? ur early posts in 2013 u intro urself as 18yr old looking to host couples, now u married with kid????
http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthr...=#post10079556

As other bros have stated, u seemed to be the problem and not ur wife. U are adamant about going with ur ex. Well, if u don't heed their advice.......then u've to live with the consequence.

Naughtyb9y · #14 12-04-2015, 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by porscheclub

She's a dream. Wanna exchange?

Seriously. Most wives are bad daughter-in-laws & are terrible in bed after you have kids.

Appreciate her. Bring her out for a good dinner once a month, reward her with a good Spa+hair salon. Buy her some quality lingerie & hope for the best!

Yes bro.. I understand.. I know that she's a gold to keep. But love is spinning me around. I also wish to substain the family. Only advantage to all of my family and her. No disadvantage to us. Thank you bro, at least something to enlighten me

Naughtyb9y · #15 12-04-2015, 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by loneyheart

U r a lucky guy tat dum know wat is lucky ... the main problem is u ... n what u search for is short term excitement once u n yr ex is over u will regret n cry like a baby
Dum need to ask further yr heart is not w the family u had already decided ... U ask for it !!!

Yes, the only problem throughout is me. Yes partially my heart is not with my family. But I don't wish to give up my family too. Child is innocent. I ask for it, in what way.