A Lost Relationship- Learn to Let Go

[nacal]

Originally Posted by tantan1234

随缘

有一个书生，和未婚妻约好某日结婚，
到了那一天，未婚妻却嫁给另一个人。

书生受到打击，一病不起。
眼看书生奄奄一息，这时，路过一个僧人，
得知后，决定点化一下他。


僧人从怀里摸出一面镜子叫书生看，
书生看到茫茫大海，一名遇害女子躺在海滩上。

这时，走来一个人，看了一眼，遥遥头，走了。

又走过来一个人，将自己的衣服脱下，
给女子盖上，走了。

又走过来一个人， 过去挖了一个洞，
小心翼翼的把尸体埋葬。

疑惑间，画面换了，书生看到自己的未婚妻，
洞房花烛，被丈夫掀开盖头，但那男人不是他。

书生不明白。僧人解释：

海滩上尸体， 就是你未婚妻的前世。
你是第二个路过的人，曾给她一件衣服。

她今生和你相恋，只为还你一个情。

但是她最终要报答一生一世的人，
是最后那个把她埋葬的人。

那人就是她现在的丈夫。

Remember:
缘分来时好好珍惜，缘分走时不要感伤

nice story i like. tks for sharing.

And a poem below i got fr a website that the writer said he saw it above the Imperial shrine in Hangzhou runs as follows:

Husbands and wives were connected in the past
Whether their connections were good or bad,
those connections never fail to meet.
Sons and daughters are basically past debts,
Whether seeking repayment or making repayment,
They only come on account of debt.

[queeniegal]

TS good one.. I am learning to let go too :x

[cowcowcow]

In some circles, they believe that if you go out and fuck 10 girls, you would not feel you previous love was so special anymore. The question is, how do you get to that stage. And if you are a guy capable of that, and you could have any girl you wanted, your standards for girls and lost love become very different.

[CaptainPlanet]

Juz chanced upon this thread n it sure makes sense!

Thanx for sharing

[Tai_zi21]

Originally Posted by CaptainPlanet

Juz chanced upon this thread n it sure makes sense!

Thanx for sharing

Since when u r back? haha

[CaptainPlanet]

Originally Posted by Tai_zi21

Since when u r back? haha

Ya sometimes see see look look

[Saerk]

Thanks to ts for the thread. Tons of insightful tips and pointers to pick up on after a breakup of r/s of 3yrs.

Just want to share a song that i find is helping me through with my recovery with the bros here.

Yellowcard - Awakening

Bottoms up tonight I drink to you and I
'cause with the morning comes the rest of my life
And with this empty glass I will break the past
'cause with the morning I can open my eyes
I want this to be my awakening

I give this one to you an anthem full of truth
I tell you now an epic tail of what you put me through
And even though you don't deserve one of your own
A melody a song about the life that you let go
I can't believe that I still care enough to write

Bottoms up tonight I drink to you and I
'cause with the morning comes the rest of my life
And with this empty glass I will break the past
'cause with the morning I can open my eyes
I want this to be my awakening

Yes I miss you still And probably always will
I'm living with a busted heart that I will have until
I find the streangth I know its somewhere in my bones
So pull the curtain up again and get on with this show
At least you know that I care enough to write

Bottoms up tonight I drink to you and I
'cause with the morning comes the rest of my life
And with this empty glass I will break the past
'cause with the morning I can open my eyes
And maybe I will see a different destiny
Like maybe knowing you at all was only a bad dream
I want this to be my awakening

No rest for the wicked they say
Forgive me if I try to change
No rest for the wicked they say
Forgive me if I try to change

Bottoms up tonight I drink to you and I
'cause with the morning comes the rest of my life
And with this empty glass I will break the past
'cause with the morning I can open my eyes
And maybe I will see a different destiny
Like maybe knowing you at all was only a bad dream
I want this to be my awakening

[Marcel]

The worst thing about thinking about a lost relationship is while you are thinking about the other party the other party isn't even thinking about you but his/her new muse.

[queeniegal]

Marcel.. Super agreed with u..
Sigh but everything happen for a reason! Will find someone who really meant to be

[hurts]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

Marcel.. Super agreed with u..
Sigh but everything happen for a reason! Will find someone who really meant to be

HaiZ.. same sentiment.. no matter how strong or independent a woman is, but still there are times they also want to be loved and care hoping they meant really dearly in someone eyes. but i think that apply to every human not only woman.

[Canaries]

Originally Posted by cowcowcow

In some circles, they believe that if you go out and fuck 10 girls, you would not feel you previous love was so special anymore. The question is, how do you get to that stage. And if you are a guy capable of that, and you could have any girl you wanted, your standards for girls and lost love become very different.

Yes it is true that the more girls you fuck the more immune you tend to become to matters of the heart. You will not desire to be in a relationship again, instead you would wonder why didn't you practice the 3 Fs.

[Canaries]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

Marcel.. Super agreed with u..
Sigh but everything happen for a reason! Will find someone who really meant to be

Life has a strange way of making fun of you. Sometimes you may have found your significant other but both of you cannot be together legitimately for one reason or another. I believe the Chinese saying is "you yuan wu fen"

[tantan1234]

I damn sad.
Relationship of 2 yrs broken.

What the 1st article is true. Everyone has free will and can choose to stay or leave a relationship. But to not kw the ans is the worst.

I lost my appetite and havent consume much since yesterday. Feel like dying

[Marcel]

I think some ppl put too much expectations into a relationship like they will be thinking i love you so much why don't you even love me and like the article says but they don't have to love you what since they have free will.

Therefore is this to say that somehow having a relationship that will last is purely based on luck/fate and if you don't have it no matter what you do you will never attain it?

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Marcel

I think some ppl put too much expectations into a relationship like they will be thinking i love you so much why don't you even love me and like the article says but they don't have to love you what since they have free will.

Therefore is this to say that somehow having a relationship that will last is purely based on luck/fate and if you don't have it no matter what you do you will never attain it?

Maybe u can try to learn the true meaning of luv then u wun post this.
To luv is to give free willingly.
To build a life wif some1 u luv is also a norm
Thus building a life together
Ur expressions r all very singular
Tats also a clue y n wat n how long every relationship is to everyone
Based on their psychological thus affecting their sociological hehehe