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I have difficulty cumming when having sex with my gf. She is very wet, so when pumping I don't feel much friction. Pump 20-30mins I still cannot cum While she enjoys her orgasms, she also feel sad and inadequate that she cannot make me cum Any bro (or sis whose partner) encountered the same problem? How to solve?
Wahh lao cannot cum??
I have an idea that worked for me... Why not ask your gf to play in your anal area? Have you heard about P spot? Research about it...
She is very wet, so when pumping I don't feel much friction. How to solve?
Just take a tissue and wipe away the access on your dick. Re-insert, try again.
Else, after wiping away her love juices, ask her to suck you. OR ask her to lick her love juices off your cock and dry it...repeat as many times till you cum.
Thanks bros for the suggestions Some I try before but don't work, some I don't really want try (no offence but I find anal totally gross), will try the rest and see how.
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Originally Posted by Redoxan
Fantasize you bonking some TVB superstars!
Doesn't work for me. I try fantasize stars, colleagues, friends but makes me feel a bit guilty and then less interested.
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Originally Posted by samdiy
Just givng my 2 cents worth. Try putting talcum powder on the small head.It has a drying effect which helps make things less slippery and create more friction.
Thx, but won't try this one.
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Originally Posted by choeongkong
I think there are several reason why this happens. you would have to review
1) Is there a favorite position that you fantasize?
2) Are you masturbating too much?
3) How is your work schedule like? are you getting enough rest?
4) is your GF boring you? do you feel no flavor with her anymore?
my two cents. I learnt this over the years.. worked for me and many bros i have suggested.
Very detailed reply. Thx. Maybe it's 4
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Originally Posted by ranger22
U need to be more aroused to cum. Sometimes keep doing with same person quite hard to feel aroused after a long time. Probably need more foreplay or do something different to have the feel.
Will try.
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Originally Posted by SexySolid
bro could it be stress related for you?
Don't think so.
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Originally Posted by BiggiB
Will you take a long time when you masturbate as well? You might want to find out what position or technique will make you feel more excited and aroused.
I used to take a long time to cum when I first started having proper sex. It was tiring to keep on pumping and the girl was also unsure why I was taking so long.
Then, I tried to psychologically hasten my orgasm. I make myself think of something that arouses me and it indeed made the process faster... but... too fast! From then on, I've not been having sex that lasts long enough to satisfy... I was the one feeling inadequate now.
So... be glad with your "problem". If it takes a long time, then take your time. You should be glad that your partner is satisfied. How I wished I could last longer...
Masturbate sometimes quite fast, sometimes longer. Hope you can overcome your new psychology and find a good balance for the duration.
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Originally Posted by LeeHsienLoong
TS, allow me to ask you a question.
When you have sex with your partner, what is your feeling?
Paisei, don't quite get the question
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Originally Posted by loveless1
Just take a tissue and wipe away the access on your dick. Re-insert, try again.
Else, after wiping away her love juices, ask her to suck you. OR ask her to lick her love juices off your cock and dry it...repeat as many times till you cum.
Won't try this. Thx aniways.
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I am having the same problem as you because I had sex with too many proatitutes. The pressure to cum within less than 1 hour is the reason why I have to resort to spending many overnights with prostitutes. Are you having erectile dysfunction? I am having erectile dysfunction. When I put on condom my penis will go limp.
This is how I solve my problem:
(1) Sleep only with very very pretty prostitutes that can give you a boner.
(2) If cannot cum, use your hand to masturbate till you feel like cumming. Then insert your penis intp vagina to continue till you ejaculate.
(3) If your problem is psychological, then don't think too much about cumming. The more you think about cumming the more difficult it will be for you to cum. Think about the pleasure of having sex and feel it. Think about how to pleasure your sex partner by giving the best sex she ever had. This always works for me especially with pretty girls. And after I ejaculated, the girls usually will be amazed and will praise me for making them cummed.
(3) Try different sexual positions. A lot of foreplays will make you cum faster.
If cannot cum, take a rest. Drink water. Then do it again. Eat food that will make you horny. Sometimes you cannot cum because your balls are not producing enough sperms. So make sure you eat food that is good for producing sperms.
I have difficulty cumming when having sex with my gf. She is very wet, so when pumping I don't feel much friction. Pump 20-30mins I still cannot cum While she enjoys her orgasms, she also feel sad and inadequate that she cannot make me cum Any bro (or sis whose partner) encountered the same problem? How to solve?
This might be due to too much intercourse together. The female's vagina is just like any other muscle, increased number of intercourse sessions will stretch it temporarily, for a couple weeks at least.
This can be easily solved by kegel exercises, with kegel balls, which will improve her ability to control the contaction of her vagina muscles. To put it in a men's perspective, it is just like men flexing the muscles.
In fact, with good kegel muscles control, it will feel tighter than ever.
I am having the same problem as you because I had sex with too many proatitutes. The pressure to cum within less than 1 hour is the reason why I have to resort to spending many overnights with prostitutes. Are you having erectile dysfunction? I am having erectile dysfunction. When I put on condom my penis will go limp.
This is how I solve my problem:
(1) Sleep only with very very pretty prostitutes that can give you a boner.
(2) If cannot cum, use your hand to masturbate till you feel like cumming. Then insert your penis intp vagina to continue till you ejaculate.
(3) If your problem is psychological, then don't think too much about cumming. The more you think about cumming the more difficult it will be for you to cum. Think about the pleasure of having sex and feel it. Think about how to pleasure your sex partner by giving the best sex she ever had. This always works for me especially with pretty girls. And after I ejaculated, the girls usually will be amazed and will praise me for making them cummed.
(3) Try different sexual positions. A lot of foreplays will make you cum faster.
If cannot cum, take a rest. Drink water. Then do it again. Eat food that will make you horny. Sometimes you cannot cum because your balls are not producing enough sperms. So make sure you eat food that is good for producing sperms.
Thank's bro. I share share more of my experience also.
I got problem stand when tired. If rest properly is no problem. Also need drink enough water, but not too much. Too much water end up keep want pee then difficult to fuck also I cannot take alcohol before sex. Will dehydrate and want go pee. Wonder how those TV show always ppl get drunk then end up in bed.......
Last time also got fuck prostitute. In beginning, sometimes because too excited or the prostitute got attitude problem will difficult stand also. I realized GFE is the factor instead of looks after I had a good session with an avg look bakbak PRC (kena bluff by photo) but very good sex cause she super teh. Can still remember fuck her doggy and we both looking at the hotel mirror and she moan and say 啊。。。 好爽喔。。。 in her teh PRC accent. Feel like some porn star Now stop chiong prostitute cause don't want spread disease to gf.
At first I tot my problem is due to masturbate too much. But after control and did not masturbate for a long time also no use. So is not that problem. I think my problem maybe psychological. Bored and also keep think too much about cumming. Will try the various recommendations to overcome this without having to change gf. Wonder how those married men keep the passion sia.
You got recommendation for food? Cannot afford everyday eat oysters leh. What other food are good for horny and sperm?
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You got recommendation for food? Cannot afford everyday eat oysters leh. What other food are good for horny and sperm?
I everyday go buffet because I am single. Choose restaurants that have oysters in the menu, e.g. Todai at MBS. If you don't like buffet, you can eat fried oysters at hawker centers. Many fried carrot cake stalls have fried oyster. 2 or 3 plates before sex is not expensive.
If oysters are too expensive, then try cockles. Ask the fried kway teow stall to add extra cockles. Tell them you will pay for the extra cockles.
I also love garlic especially fresh garlic. But many women do not like the smell of my breath and body odor after eating fresh garlic. If you cannot eat raw garlic, try to cut it into small pieces and add them into your rice or ramen. If you ate a lot, after a while you will feel very horny.
When in Korea, my escort girl recommended me ginseng. But I don't like the taste of ginseng.
I also love to eat eggs - either fried or hard boiled egg. Eat a lot of eggs every day.
I love Muthu's curry rice and briyani rice. They can also make me sleepy and horny. Don't know what they put inside. Probably they put ghee, i.e. butter made from cow milk, that made Indian food to have a certain kind of smell that is often called "Indian smell". Probably that's why rape statistic in India is very high. The food they ate can make some people very horny. Rape is the 4th most common crime against women in India.
I also drink a lot of orange juice, milk, banana juice, and pineapple juice to make my sperms taste sweet and nice to swallow. I personally have tested it before and after. Last time my sperms have fishy smell and bitter taste. Now, my sperms have no fishy smell and very tasty to swallow. Sometimes I intentionally ejaculate on my pillow to lick it. Surprisingly, my pillow have no smell unlike when I was a teen when my sperms were thick and got fishy smell. Girls that I brought home love the smell of my pillow. LOL I think the smell of my own sperms stained pillow can make me horny. You can try this method to see whether it works for you.
Milo and Hershey's chocolate can also make me feel very horny, especially the one with walnut.
If you go and eat zi char, you should order fried asparagus and buttered prawn. Very nice and can make me horny.
Prawns and crabs can also make me horny. The best place to eat is at Todai.
Last edited by HarryFucker; 29-11-2014 at 10:59 PM.
I everyday go buffet because I am single. Choose restaurants that have oysters in the menu, e.g. Todai at MBS. If you don't like buffet, you can eat fried oysters at hawker centers. Many fried carrot cake stalls have fried oyster. 2 or 3 plates before sex is not expensive.
If oysters are too expensive, then try cockles. Ask the fried kway teow stall to add extra cockles. Tell them you will pay for the extra cockles.
I also love garlic especially fresh garlic. But many women do not like the smell of my breath and body odor after eating fresh garlic. If you cannot eat raw garlic, try to cut it into small pieces and add them into your rice or ramen. If you ate a lot, after a while you will feel very horny.
When in Korea, my escort girl recommended me ginseng. But I don't like the taste of ginseng.
I also love to eat eggs - either fried or hard boiled egg. Eat a lot of eggs every day.
I love Muthu's curry rice and briyani rice. They can also make me sleepy and horny. Don't know what they put inside. Probably they put ghee, i.e. butter made from cow milk, that made Indian food to have a certain kind of smell that is often called "Indian smell". Probably that's why rape statistic in India is very high. The food they ate can make some people very horny. Rape is the 4th most common crime against women in India.
I also drink a lot of orange juice, milk, banana juice, and pineapple juice to make my sperms taste sweet and nice to swallow. I personally have tested it before and after. Last time my sperms have fishy smell and bitter taste. Now, my sperms have no fishy smell and very tasty to swallow. Sometimes I intentionally ejaculate on my pillow to lick it. Surprisingly, my pillow have no smell unlike when I was a teen when my sperms were thick and got fishy smell. Girls that I brought home love the smell of my pillow. LOL I think the smell of my own sperms stained pillow can make me horny. You can try this method to see whether it works for you.
Milo and Hershey's chocolate can also make me feel very horny, especially the one with walnut.
If you go and eat zi char, you should order fried asparagus and buttered prawn. Very nice and can make me horny.
Prawns and crabs can also make me horny. The best place to eat is at Todai.
25-11-2014, 05:12 PM
Re: Cannot Cum :(
Re: Cannot Cum :(
Some I try before but don't work, some I don't really want try (no offence but I find anal totally gross), will try the rest and see how.
I cannot take alcohol before sex. Will dehydrate and want go pee. Wonder how those TV show always ppl get drunk then end up in bed.......
