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Old 19-11-2014, 03:32 PM
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Question Cannot Cum :(

I have difficulty cumming when having sex with my gf. She is very wet, so when pumping I don't feel much friction. Pump 20-30mins I still cannot cum While she enjoys her orgasms, she also feel sad and inadequate that she cannot make me cum Any bro (or sis whose partner) encountered the same problem? How to solve?
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Old 19-11-2014, 04:55 PM
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

i assume you are all hard still as you pump? i sometimes have this problem because i cannot feel the friction too. are you cut? i am cut and i tend to need to have very rough sex to get the feeling.
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Old 19-11-2014, 05:01 PM
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

Ts, everyday u have sex Tell yr GF don't felt sad,at least she got orgasms
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Old 19-11-2014, 05:14 PM
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

On the contrary, you are better off than many people who have premature ejaculation. Having PE is more frustrating.
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Old 19-11-2014, 11:51 PM
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

sometimes its too wet, thats why it takes longer to cum due to the slippery momentum you are going. yet it is tiring for guys to keep banging and banging..try oral sex for 10mins, after which bang her slowly and hard
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

When I'm in the form, I can also pump & pump for very long....it's a good thing anyway. Maybe you want to try ANAL.
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

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Re: Cannot Cum :(

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I have difficulty cumming when having sex with my gf. She is very wet, so when pumping I don't feel much friction. Pump 20-30mins I still cannot cum While she enjoys her orgasms, she also feel sad and inadequate that she cannot make me cum Any bro (or sis whose partner) encountered the same problem? How to solve?
I have the same problem as u, no HJ from ML and BJ / sex from GF made me cum on a regular day. I only cummed twice raw with my GF while fucking her on 2 seperate occasions.
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Old 23-11-2014, 02:48 AM
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

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I have difficulty cumming when having sex with my gf. She is very wet, so when pumping I don't feel much friction. Pump 20-30mins I still cannot cum While she enjoys her orgasms, she also feel sad and inadequate that she cannot make me cum Any bro (or sis whose partner) encountered the same problem? How to solve?
Just givng my 2 cents worth. Try putting talcum powder on the small head.It has a drying effect which helps make things less slippery and create more friction.
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Old 23-11-2014, 06:28 PM
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

I think there are several reason why this happens. you would have to review

1) Is there a favorite position that you fantasize?
- Try straying away from this because your brain would be programmed to release signals that you are high and can cum soon. this would help you get less bored of it.

2) Are you masturbating too much?
- if you masturbate too much over the same genre of porn, or to a particular position of scene, your brain would heva developed a fixed set of path way that would only send orgasmic signals to your general to start shooting at the enemy. try to stray away from it

3) How is your work schedule like? are you getting enough rest?
- being too tired from work on a day to day routine job may be a very tiring thing. check if you are getting you eight hours rest.
- Try to exercise at least 3 times a week jogging, swimming or hit the gym

4) is your GF boring you? do you feel no flavor with her anymore?
- a lot of times we guys have a "3 minute hot" problem. once its not fresh we tend to want to throw away. but GF / HM mah.. how to throw? try these few options
A. start rebuilding chemistry, bring her our on a romantic night, dont touch her until the third date. but of course, build chemistry on the first day. on the second date after the evening bring her back to your house, try to go second base with her. only on the third date, if got feeling can go all out, if not, stay at second base.
B. spend some time away from each other. balik kampung, have some "me" time. spend time talking on the phone like first time lovers, anticipate your next opportunity to meet, feel that you actually miss each other. when you are nearing to the date you meet, tell her what you are going to do to her when you meet. (on bed i mean) this will sort of build chemistry. *throughout this time. dont let general have any activity*
C. Stop banging her. rest. Take 3 complete meals a day, and take at least 4 eggs a day. 2 in the morning, 1 for lunch, and an egg sandwich. go shopping for fun stuff, a vibrator, a sexy lingerie, cosplay or try building chemistry and adjourn to an exciting spot that you both fantasize having sex at but never did do it.
D. Do the Kegel exercise for Men

my two cents. I learnt this over the years.. worked for me and many bros i have suggested.
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

U need to be more aroused to cum. Sometimes keep doing with same person quite hard to feel aroused after a long time. Probably need more foreplay or do something different to have the feel.
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Old 24-11-2014, 03:51 PM
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

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I have difficulty cumming when having sex with my gf. She is very wet, so when pumping I don't feel much friction. Pump 20-30mins I still cannot cum While she enjoys her orgasms, she also feel sad and inadequate that she cannot make me cum Any bro (or sis whose partner) encountered the same problem? How to solve?
Trust me. Nothing wrong with you, just that you lost the feeling with your gf. If changing gf is an option... then..
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Old 24-11-2014, 05:22 PM
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

bro could it be stress related for you?
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Re: Cannot Cum :(

Will you take a long time when you masturbate as well? You might want to find out what position or technique will make you feel more excited and aroused.

I used to take a long time to cum when I first started having proper sex. It was tiring to keep on pumping and the girl was also unsure why I was taking so long.

Then, I tried to psychologically hasten my orgasm. I make myself think of something that arouses me and it indeed made the process faster... but... too fast! From then on, I've not been having sex that lasts long enough to satisfy... I was the one feeling inadequate now.

So... be glad with your "problem". If it takes a long time, then take your time. You should be glad that your partner is satisfied. How I wished I could last longer...
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