Perspective on relationship s - Page 2

chenpaul · #16 01-11-2014, 02:23 PM

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Originally Posted by korean

there r plenty, giggolos lor

Gigolo may look for fl but will they get free fuck for first time

sunhuan-con · #17 01-11-2014, 03:33 PM

Best is the stay together without any marriage tying down. Got sex, romance and love etc....

korean · #18 01-11-2014, 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by chenpaul

Gigolo may look for fl but will they get free fuck for first time

yes coz is fl looks for gigolo even pays gigolo for pops

porscheclub · #19 02-11-2014, 02:19 AM

Well nothing is quite free. Wives are "exclusive" but you pay dearly for her as a husband & her value goes up when she bears you children. Tell me which hubby don't reward his wife when she bears you a kid especially when it's a boy?

When we date our girlfriends, we also spend a lot of time, effort & money into the relationship just so we could bed her.

At the end of the day don't let money rule our head but let it work for you after slogging for it.

Oh wait doesn't apply to those guys who cheat or live off women/GFS. There are some men who really loans money from women to live lavishly or invests in business etc.

demonhunter · #20 02-11-2014, 02:28 AM

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Originally Posted by sunhuan-con

Best is the stay together without any marriage tying down. Got sex, romance and love etc....

But freedom would be compromised ... weekend stay over are the best .

Weekdays can steal eat

BunkKnifer · #21 02-11-2014, 03:58 AM

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Originally Posted by porscheclub

At the end of the day don't let money rule our head but let it work for you after slogging for it.

Agreed totally bro

Gentle Beast · #22 02-11-2014, 08:05 AM

I concur with TS's perspective on relationships with regards to women (WL and wives). Never try or even attempt to understand women. Most are emotional creatures and on extreme sides of the pendulum, either:

1) They abuse the men who love them OR
2) They are abused by the men they love.

So, what should we do? For me, it will be to cultivate a long loving relationship with the wife and fuck the daylights out of the whore for R&R. That should strike a balance between our emotional and physical needs, placing the odds of relationships with women in our favor.

What say you leh?

korean · #23 02-11-2014, 08:22 AM

My advise is if prepare to get married, be loyal to your wife if you love her. Otherwise, better don't get married.

BunkKnifer · #24 03-11-2014, 04:00 AM

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Originally Posted by korean

better don't get married.

When i think about the WC i get scared literally

arsenal_84 · #25 03-11-2014, 11:22 AM

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Originally Posted by korean

if she treats meals (be it ordinary or expensive) and buys gifts (be it small or luxury) for you without a pop considered loving you?

well this is subjective, maybe it might be considered as sending out a long fishing line first ?
i'm close with this FL, she bought me a t-shirt though she's the first to do so for me, but no way in hell will i entertain thoughts of being together with her.
and this is based on both our perspectives, i can't trust her, neither can she trust me.

korean · #26 03-11-2014, 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by arsenal_84

well this is subjective, maybe it might be considered as sending out a long fishing line first ?
i'm close with this FL, she bought me a t-shirt though she's the first to do so for me, but no way in hell will i entertain thoughts of being together with her.
and this is based on both our perspectives, i can't trust her, neither can she trust me.

Yes it is subjective. Whether it is a long fishing line, time will tell. Tbh most ppl play this game, even most of us, and our wife

Trust built over time as well. Initially I don't have too much trust on her as well. thought she belongs to what most people and I thought. time proven she is not

Our last meal in sg was paid by her as she would like to thanks me for taking good care of her over the year. She didn't tell me her budget but only suggest restaurant and dishes to me. In the end I choose another restaurant and the total cost is over 200. We then have a small quarrel as she complained that I purposely save money for her as her budget is 500. I don't think she needed to act at last moment. Actually I don't need till last moment to prove anything as long ago I already know it

arsenal_84 · #27 03-11-2014, 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by korean

Yes it is subjective. Whether it is a long fishing line, time will tell. Tbh most ppl play this game, even most of us, and our wife

Trust built over time as well. Initially I don't have too much trust on her as well. thought she belongs to what most people and I thought. time proven she is not

would 5 to 6 years be a good period for benchmark ?
cause with longer amount of time,you can better sort out your emotions.

rather than using activities to gauge trustworthiness, perhaps character wise is a better indicator ?