Would you fall for someone from sbf?

[hooknspin5more]

Originally Posted by Redviolet

I asked this out of curiousity because i see some of my friends do.

Lovely couple.

[harahara88]

If you can really find someone good in this forum go for it .

[S.B.Y.1]

Would someone fall for a man in Songkok with chubbie cheeks and wears a Sarong

If there's any SiS please PM Pak

[eternally]

No..If there is, will the love be lasting? Only time will witness the truth..

[blohsg]

Whether it'll last depends on one another takes 2 hands to clap. Honesty is the best policy ... Well 2 a certain extent ... Everyone meets someone everyday. Doesn't mean they'll fall for them. Being from this forum is just like another opportunity? besides what works for others might not work for you. By accidently taking a fall is hilarious haha

[shootme72]

hope u can pm me n chat ...

[MonteCristo]

When in doubt, always remember, "Nothing is impossible."

There is nothing here which we can say for certain to be definite. So in short, yes, I might fall for someone from sbf, even if the chances are low.

But would I want to fall for someone here? Now, that is another question. Only time can tell.

[eternally]

Originally Posted by blohsg

Whether it'll last depends on one another takes 2 hands to clap. Honesty is the best policy ... Well 2 a certain extent ... Everyone meets someone everyday. Doesn't mean they'll fall for them. Being from this forum is just like another opportunity? besides what works for others might not work for you. By accidently taking a fall is hilarious haha

I wont see this forum as an opportunity..just a opportunity to pass time

[aqcmme]

i think its perfectly possible. People here are real. Most of those out there are just like us - except they are either closet, suppressed or in denial. those who are truly unlike us; you wanna keep away.

I have seen couples made from online dating, speed dating, pubs, disco while on the high. I dun see why not forum.

[sytloverr]

of course.

the only thing is actually knowing the *real* person
behind the online sbf persona.

once you have peeled away the veneer.
and know if that person is for you.
then it's not relevant whether sbf is a starting point or not.

it can be as good a starting point as any.

[see see only]

WHY NOT????

We are not alien from another planet .... some of the samsters here are happliy married to FL or WL or etc ...

So if you by any chance broke up again or so-called cheated by a sillyporean man .... are you gonna post another thread to ask "Would you fall for someone from sillypore"

Hope you get what i mean ........ r/s is up to the both of you ... my dear sis

[blohsg]

Passing time yes ... up to you how you spend this time.

Well 2 sides to a coin ... depends on how you look at it and how you read the person. They're can get real when you get to peel away the layers or they could just pile up the lies.

So depending on which point you're at, you probably have some judgement/conclusion in your head/heart. It's the same as meeting some stranger and getting to know them better right? Of course you'll have to put your guard up, it's once bitten twice shy as usual.

Yeah ... doesn't have to b this forum, there's so many venues/opportunities to meet people of opposite/same sex. It's what you do after that counts.

SSO : hahaha maybe "Would you fall for a Sillypore Man ?"

[LoveAngel]

Originally Posted by blohsg

find a friend first ...
if he/she works out ... then you can start to consider sticking it thru for the rest of your life ...

Originally Posted by Xgenre

True love rarely happens in SBF. If you find it, get both parties out of this forum. Too many temptations. On a realistic side, I urge caution.

Originally Posted by blohsg

Whether it'll last depends on one another takes 2 hands to clap. Honesty is the best policy ... Well 2 a certain extent ... Everyone meets someone everyday. Doesn't mean they'll fall for them. Being from this forum is just like another opportunity? besides what works for others might not work for you.

Originally Posted by MonteCristo

There is nothing here which we can say for certain to be definite. So in short, yes, I might fall for someone from sbf, even if the chances are low.

But would I want to fall for someone here? Now, that is another question. Only time can tell.

My dear sis,
If u come in here looking for love, you may get disappointed.
If u come in here not expecting anything, and someone comes along, it'll be a pleasant surprise.

It's definitely possible. I say that because it happened to me when I least expected it nor seeked it. It was really good & beautiful while it lasted. But it's filled with lots of turmoil & heartache too whenever insecurity eats into him.

We meet people everywhere. And there's a dark side to everyone, even for the best of souls. Only that in SBF, everyone is 'unclothed' or 'stripped' on the onset in that aspect. I personally prefer it this way but both parties must be adult enough to handle it with wisdom & maturity.

Like what xgenre said, 'If you find it, get both parties out of this forum'.
Unless both parties are mature & confident, trust would be a huge issue in the relationship especially if one of them is insecure. Sometimes 'history' of how one meet may cast a shadow on the r/s.

So find a friend first, the rest will come naturally. If it happens great, it doesn't, so be it.

Like what blower said, 'whether it'll last depend on each other. Honesty is the best policy.'

So if u asked me again would I fall for someone here in SBF again, I might. But I hope not & wished not.

If I did, then it's important expectations are set and boundaries be defined clearly so that the r/s can start on the correct footing & be strengthened as days goes by.

Hope you are feeling alright.
If u need to talk, just buzz me k? Huggz

[blohsg]

Hang in there you 2 ... Everyone's story might not be the same ... But there's a time to end the walk in the dark woods of despair ... many other new lush green fields to prance about in.

[waiwaiz]

maybe we shd start a poll on this.......lols. My take is i wont hope to get partner here in SBF.some other forum, Mmm....maybe depending on which kind of forum ba. SBF , no wayyyyy...........