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Anyway, to the TS bro: you know wanna know where most of the nice, unmaterialistic girls are? I'll say they are ATTACHED. As far as I can tell, you can find "true love" anywhere you go, but don't forget that thousands upon thousands of others are looking for the same. With that sort of competition around, please man, you have to redefine what is "good".
If you're looking for "Looks: 10/10, loves sex, cooks, lovey-dovey, does not use PMS as an excuse to be a bitch, cares for your parents, pays for her own LV bags etc." - you must first ask yourself - are you:
- Super hunky; > 1.8m, Abercrombie & Fitch abs standard etc.
- Drives a Ferrari, minimum 5 figure amounts every month
- Talented/Romantic; plays the piano, guitar, sings, does the waltz, writes poems
- Genuinely humorous
- Genuinely FUN to be with
If not, logic will tell you why the ideal superwoman wouldn't be attracted to you immediately. I absolutely HATE it when people bitch about not being able to find their other half, and blames it on external circumstances when they should be looking into the mirror to see what's being going on wrong, what can they do to change the situation.
Good people exist. You just gotta keep your eyes peeled. And continue to work on improving yourself in the meantime.
Anyway, to the TS bro: you know wanna know where most of the nice, unmaterialistic girls are? I'll say they are ATTACHED. As far as I can tell, you can find "true love" anywhere you go, but don't forget that thousands upon thousands of others are looking for the same. With that sort of competition around, please man, you have to redefine what is "good".
If you're looking for "Looks: 10/10, loves sex, cooks, lovey-dovey, does not use PMS as an excuse to be a bitch, cares for your parents, pays for her own LV bags etc." - you must first ask yourself - are you:
- Super hunky; > 1.8m, Abercrombie & Fitch abs standard etc.
- Drives a Ferrari, minimum 5 figure amounts every month
- Talented/Romantic; plays the piano, guitar, sings, does the waltz, writes poems
- Genuinely humorous
- Genuinely FUN to be with
If not, logic will tell you why the ideal superwoman wouldn't be attracted to you immediately. I absolutely HATE it when people bitch about not being able to find their other half, and blames it on external circumstances when they should be looking into the mirror to see what's being going on wrong, what can they do to change the situation.
Good people exist. You just gotta keep your eyes peeled. And continue to work on improving yourself in the meantime.
Good Luck!
Improving ourselves is really a positive thing to do to attract more gals, but it doesn't mean u need to be hunky, drives a ferrari, etc. to attract good girls. Actually, oppositely, good girls don't usually look for those (initially maybe yes) but at the later stage, the chemistry, communication, attitudes, personalities count much more in the process.
TS, u r still young, i suggest u to improve urself more first rather than thinking about who is good and bad gals. When u r mature and improve enough, it will come naturally one
Improving ourselves is really a positive thing to do to attract more gals, but it doesn't mean u need to be hunky, drives a ferrari, etc. to attract good girls. Actually, oppositely, good girls don't usually look for those (initially maybe yes) but at the later stage, the chemistry, communication, attitudes, personalities count much more in the process.
TS, u r still young, i suggest u to improve urself more first rather than thinking about who is good and bad gals. When u r mature and improve enough, it will come naturally one
You're kinda missing the point. I'm not saying that folks need to be hunky or drive a ferrari to end up happily attached. But rather, we gotta look at ourselves first before we ask questions like TS's "I wonder is "good" girl still exist?".
Anyway, he has vanished since making a solitary post since a week ago, so I reckon this is a troll thread.
Well it does seem that way doesn't it? Single, solitary emotion-stirring post made a week ago and a notable absence thereafter.
It is a good topic to discuss on though. Bottomline: I belong to the "good-girls-have-always-existed-you-just-gotta-get-off-your-lazy-ass-to-woo-them" camp.
well, you can't say there isn't any good girl unless you have met every single girl in this world. It takes some time and luck to meet one, not easy but there's always possibilities..........
No. You all are not kena troll. just that i am givin myself a long holiday. Thanks for all your suggestion. i have move on. i m pretty mad at this relation coz it is my 1st serious relation. I don find any malaysian gal coz i m working at sg. i think it is even harder to maintain long distance relationship for a newbie like me. honestly, i hav 2 gf before and 1st gf was just puppy love.
btw, good men dun come to a sex forum "wondering" if good girls exist...
before u start looking for a good girl, ask if you yourself are deserving of a good girl.. if you say yes, what the hell are u doing in a sex forum !!??
I don always come to sex forum and i don look for prostitution. you can see me reply this thread a month after. btw, i just use this forum to express my frustration but you all are so supportive. Thx! i am not fat, average height, over-young look, not rich not poor, don smoke, nvr gamble, drink a little but nvr make myself drunk. do u think i deserve a good one? LOL
Improving ourselves is really a positive thing to do to attract more gals, but it doesn't mean u need to be hunky, drives a ferrari, etc. to attract good girls. Actually, oppositely, good girls don't usually look for those (initially maybe yes) but at the later stage, the chemistry, communication, attitudes, personalities count much more in the process.
I don always come to sex forum and i don look for prostitution. you can see me reply this thread a month after. btw, i just use this forum to express my frustration but you all are so supportive. Thx! i am not fat, average height, over-young look, not rich not poor, don smoke, nvr gamble, drink a little but nvr make myself drunk. do u think i deserve a good one? LOL
Ok I'll give you the benefit of doubt that this 4 post account is not a dummy clone, and you're not trolling about Singaporean ladies. I hope you have considered my words from a month back.
Anyway, you only deserve what you work for. Your attributes are hardly unique, so you gotta work harder. Good luck bro.
in fact, malaysian girls have a higher chance of being good.. sg is too developed for its own good.
yep, i kenna-ed by my local "good-nice" singaporean chinese ex-gf of 5 years... took me 3 years to recover from bleeding heart before i joined the SBF!