I wonder is "good" girl still exist?

[sun814]

男人不坏，女人不爱？do bros think this is true? doesn't it also applies to a "good" girl?

[jeff1010]

Of course good girl exist, but they are hard to get. The harder usually the best. So if you are not willing to put the effort you will not find one.
I think it works both way. Are yu really a good guy? Lots of people complain abt the quality of the opposite sex, but forget to look in the mirror.

[HardyNorman]

this is the worst place to look for good girl.

[youngcuteguy]

Originally Posted by jeff1010

Of course good girl exist, but they are hard to get. The harder usually the best. So if you are not willing to put the effort you will not find one.
I think it works both way. Are yu really a good guy? Lots of people complain abt the quality of the opposite sex, but forget to look in the mirror.

i wont say i am perfect or very caring guy. but i can very sure that i m very "zhuan yi" man. i sacrifice all my social activity like gaming with fren, vacation(only can if gf is following) & many more during my year back with my ex-gf. i think i have lost all my
confidence to start a conversation with gal. i think i nid to c psychologist.

[frivolous_ami]

When my classmates and I were young, teacher always say that boys must strive and work hard for a good future and that there will be good girls in time to come.

When I first step into the work world, my colleagues and I thought that good men will find good wife. But, good men must be hard working.

After some years of working, my peers are older and married. The irony is.... however hard we aspire the perfect good girl only exist at one point in time. At any other time, the girl will (unfortunately) tend to appear more wrong than right or good.

What is real is that a workable and enduring relationship is a partnership where its not just the guy tugging the girl's hand, but also the girl reciprocating. My peers and I came to one other conclusion.... that is people are hopeful and tend to pin their hopes on the unknown rather than appreciating the goodness which they already have. Having known all these doesn't help. Its everything about the right time with the right person and at the right place. If not, it will be like a Martin Yan trying to fry an egg without a pan or wok for that matter.

[thewildone]

Originally Posted by youngcuteguy

this is my 1st serious post in SBF. i am from malaysia. i dono whether putting too much effort in a relation is good or noob. a local sg gal can jz forget everything when she found another guy. haix.. is there really dont have pure love in sg ar? KNNCCB!!

Nothing wrong with putting effort in a rel. At least you know you did your best. Now walk away knowing that. If you had sex with her, there's your takeaway.

Some people are able to recover from rel quickly. Or perhaps they were already looking at someone else. Remember, SG is a highly developed urban environment where people are closely connected and cohesive. So turnover is very quick. Also, to be fair, guys can also be just as "bad". This is not exclusive to women.

As for pure love, you can label SG gals in one way but have you even dated a KL girl?? You'll be surprised they're not very different. There are good ones and vice versa.

[iossshee]

TS i think you have oversee something in your life ....

You are asking for a good girl ??? But do you think you are a good guy in the first place ...

Good in what sense ... ... Do you want your girl always listen to your order that consider GOOD ???

To find a good partner you must always down grade yourself and be a good listener ...

Maybe you too young to understand this ... ...

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by youngcuteguy

this is my 1st serious post in SBF. i am from malaysia. i dono whether putting too much effort in a relation is good or noob.

A relationship is like building a house.
If you put effort , n i mean real effort into building ur home, u will end up wif something in ur eyes tat is beautiful.
But tat doesnt mean it will not hv cracks in the walls or water leaks etc
Its all mend n repair along the way aka maintenance.
Tats wat relationships r all abt young man.
The only time to walk away is when the whole thing is condemned n beyond repair!

Originally Posted by youngcuteguy

a local sg gal can jz forget everything when she found another guy. haix.. is there really dont have pure love in sg ar? KNNCCB!!

This is n has nottin to do wif SG, Msia or Timbuktu gal or guy.
These are just empty shells or ferns looking for a tree to cling do.
They r everywhere n my fav type, just use n throw.

[TomYamKing]

no transport no love

[celestoh]

i'm pretty sure there are good girls that still exists, you just need to know where to find them.
i'm figuring its going to be tough if you go clubbing and so wild parties and look for a good girl...

just need the right place

[westendgirl]

it is difficult 2 b good in bed, kitchen, club & office at de same time cos some of them is mutually exclusive. take yr pick.

for de record i am only good at 2 of de above.

[xchange]

Reminds me of the saying
"Good girls go to heaven, Bad girls go anywhere"

Give me a bad girl anytime.

[asdfghjkl]

post more FR of good girls ler.. interested to know how men think..

[Ladyrain]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

post more FR of good girls ler.. interested to know how men think..

You man or woman?!

[M1N1Ster]

seriously i dont know what u mean by good ?

morally good in character or good in bed.... u got to define it more precisely bro...