Does anyone have heathy sex with wife but still yearns for fl?

[JiTaoBoPower]

hmm... i am one of those that do not have any sex anymore with my wife and yet never yearn for a FL.... am i weird

ps but i do yearn for a BBBJ with swallow

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by sane1

Their hb know each other since poly days, n accordingly to B, her hb told her A's husband jio him behind their back.

The main issue is contained above. How in the world did "B" find out that "A"s husband invited "B"s husband to visit FLs? According to "B", it was her own husband who told her about it. No sane man would do something like this unless they have an open license from their wives to visit prostitutes.

Originally Posted by sane1

All of us are confused on who's telling the truth but if standing in her shoes, I will feel devastated too if ever I found out my hb whom I trusted so much visit FL.

How do you know your husband, whom you trust so much, do not visit FLs?

[sane1]

Originally Posted by DYBJ

I think it was beyond a benefit of a doubt that they were just teasing her cos they knew she was listening.

Originally Posted by slider_72

The main issue is contained above. How in the world did "B" find out that "A"s husband invited "B"s husband to visit FLs? According to "B", it was her own husband who told her about it. No sane man would do something like this unless they have an open license from their wives to visit prostitutes.

How do you know your husband, whom you trust so much, do not visit FLs?

Thanks guys for your reply

We r analyzing too as the HBs know each other but not that close to visit FL together but if hb A denied saying so, why did hb B say so? unless he want to sabo him but they have no feud

Perhaps that's really a joke that has been taken seriously?

Eh..i mean if putting myself in A's shoes, not referring to myself. But then if a woman really loves her man, she will be devastated if ever she found out her man cheat on her. Once caught, the marriage will never be the same again as trust is no longer there.

However I have also known couples who just hang onto their marriage for the sake of their kids. Both hb and wife just have affairs outside leading individual life.

[DYBJ]

Originally Posted by sane1

However I have also known couples who just hang onto their marriage for the sake of their kids. Both hb and wife just have affairs outside leading individual life.

Tats y u hv to decide wich cos of action u decide to take.
Many suggested n many conclusions also illustrated.
The Choice We Make, Dictates The Life We Lead!

[sane1]

Originally Posted by DYBJ

Tats y u hv to decide wich cos of action u decide to take.
Many suggested n many conclusions also illustrated.
The Choice We Make, Dictates The Life We Lead!

If me, I will confirm say good bye coz I really see no point

[DYBJ]

Choice made live as a "DIVORCEE" then.
See, there's always a conclusion to any issue in life, it's which conclusion u prefer to hv only

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by sane1

If me, I will confirm say good bye coz I really see no point

Really? What if your husband loves you a lot, takes good care of you and provide for all your needs, wants and indulgences? What if the times spent with your husband were all lovely and sweet? What if your husband is the best father in the world to your kids? What if your husband is the best guy in the world to you?

Are you going to divorce him simply because he had sex outside of the marriage, and if this is the only flaw you find in him?

Sex to men can be purely physical. Is a man not fit to be a husband simply because he visited prostitutes? If that is the case, I think a huge majority of men in Singapore would be bad husbands.

Sex with prostitutes is simply a man jerking off inside another woman. Men do not pay for sex. Men pay the prostitutes to go away after sex.

[DYBJ]

Agree bro Slider.
Tats Y they say, u will be penalised for just 1 wrong but never rewarded for all the good u dun

[4Dguru]

妻不如妾,妾不如偷,偷不如抢!

[sane1]

Originally Posted by DYBJ

Choice made live as a "DIVORCEE" then.
See, there's always a conclusion to any issue in life, it's which conclusion u prefer to hv only

Originally Posted by slider_72

Really? What if your husband loves you a lot, takes good care of you and provide for all your needs, wants and indulgences? What if the times spent with your husband were all lovely and sweet? What if your husband is the best father in the world to your kids? What if your husband is the best guy in the world to you?

Are you going to divorce him simply because he had sex outside of the marriage, and if this is the only flaw you find in him?

Sex to men can be purely physical. Is a man not fit to be a husband simply because he visited prostitutes? If that is the case, I think a huge majority of men in Singapore would be bad husbands.

My ex was just as what u described, the best guy I'ever met, good looks, financially good, pamper me and there's even a maid at home whom I never even need to lift a finger for housework.
However prior to getting married, he was caught with another woman and I just packed my things and leave. Never turn back then.
Maybe some women can but that woman's definitely not me. Different woman got different expectations. I don't expect much, just someone truthful and don't tell lies to me. That's it.
I can earn my own keep. If I can't find one, rather stay single n happy then

Thanks bro for your up, u noe who u are

[ilikeoldchangke]

Originally Posted by lightweaver

Hi, anyone with this issue? We doing it daily but it's getting really routine.

Me

Facing the same problem, but am trying hard to stay off fl.
Been pursuading my wife to try out something new every now and then, school uniforms, bondage etc.

Running out of ideas though.

Wife is not very adventurous, so i just got to make do with what i have.

I think it's pretty common among married couples or couples who have known each other for a long time

[asdfghjkl]

i also worry for my future as i am still not married.. would my future hubby stray like cats looking for freshly cooked prawns..

[sane1]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

i also worry for my future as i am still not married.. would my future hubby stray like cats looking for freshly cooked prawns..

good mah..stay single can chiong to ur heart content

[DYBJ]

Nvr blame ur other half if he / she goes out for more.
Blame urself for not making them always crawling back for more!

[sane1]

Originally Posted by DYBJ

Nvr blame ur other half if he / she goes out for more.
Blame urself for not making them always crawling back for more!

Nope, should blame urself for not opening the eyes wide enough. Y wan to tie others down when the heart not with u