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#16
07-10-2012, 11:34 PM
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Re: Chasing a graduate research student from china
What do u see in her
 Juz another Ah Tiong gal, imho no difference from Sg gal. Why would u waste time and effort when u know she already got bf liao. Dont becoz of one tree give up a whole forest! 
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To up list: Nil {thanx bros for upping me, will return favour  }今朝有酒今朝醉！ 醉生梦死也无憾！ 
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#18
08-10-2012, 05:02 AM
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 when did we stop being gods??? I didn't get that memo... Quote:
Wait for her to break up with her present bf first...just be her friend and be nice to her...that way, you are first in line when she becomes available...should you use $$$...even if you win her over, the next guy with more $$$ will send you packing... Hope this helps... .
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Thanks to everyone who upped me... ************ ---For most women, it's what you do before sex that shows her your love... -------For most men, it's what she does during sex that displays her love.... But for me...it's what she does after sex that tells me if and how much she loves me...
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#19
08-10-2012, 09:08 AM
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big thanks to bros whom up my points, pls leave ur nick, i appreciate it greatly and will surely reciprocate without fail.
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#21
08-10-2012, 09:39 PM
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Any experienced bros can advise the chances of successfully wooing her? Should court her with $$$ and presents or with plenty of good care and love? Once again she is really those decent ones...will she quit her prc bf for a foreigner bf?[/QUOTE]
Don't bother going after her by trying to steal her from the first guy, there is a saying that people use often and its, "what goes around, comes around." Be a friend, if she decides that you are the better guy, then she would choose you in the end. PS: Money is jack shit if she is as intelligent as you say she is.
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#22
09-10-2012, 12:04 AM
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why u want to break up other ppl's happiness since you know she already got a bf??? What will you feel if your gf break up with u becos of other ppl??
Go hook up other girls who is single and available k and stop being 3rd party!!
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#23
10-10-2012, 12:48 AM
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funny stuff ... godly advise would b ... go get her ! hahahahaha You start the chase and see if she runs ?
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Avicii + Nicky Romero - I could be the One / Fedde le Grande + Nicky Romero - Sparks / Hardwell ft Mitch Crown - Spaceman Dont spend time beating on a wall, hoping to transform it into a door. - Coco Chanel -
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#24
10-10-2012, 04:42 AM
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Bro Joncheong, every man for himself is the hard real truth in this world. To go for something that you desired has no wrong to it. However the error you preformed today is too much for anyone to oversee. Did you know where did you gone wrong? I give you a chance to answer that. You have 5 seconds. So can I know what is your answer? 2..................... 1........................... Time's UP! Haiz......Look like what our boss say is true. You degraded yourself by the usage of $$$$. Can you be more atas? You wished to court a woman by $$$$$$ and presents. It does shows how shallow you are. People with your this type of thinking can only fish in pond with raised fishes. KTVs, HCs, Geylang are some places that I think, you can be the top angler if you really do not mind paying with $$$$. There will be a chance of events if TS never mentioned about using $$$$, I might encouraged you to do so. The reason is very simple. The girl deserved someone better. If you think the girl will be in a better hand if she is with you. By all means, go all out to make her yours. Another reason is if I do love her why can't I wooed her just because she has a boyfriend? I will showed her with what I have to change the love toward me. The guy with the longer arms wins is how I viewed relationship for BGR. If the girl see that the other guy is better, I will respect and honor her decisions. That might not be true for the girl might be mistaken or blinded by some things. Her life, her choice and her consequences. The only truth that I saw was her love toward me is too weak given the fact that she left me for someone thinking she got a better deal. I will preferred to think that the other guy did helped me to have a better view for whom she was. Having someone who loved me wholeheartedly for whom I was and stood rooted to me despite whatever attempts made is what I called true love. ps: I do not really fancy woman who had bf and changed their love toward me. Most likely they will be seen as tool for sex. 
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短短的六个月，我看到你的成长。我知道你比当时我看到的你，更加坚强了。girl绝续加油，身为护花使者的 我，会一直守护着你。
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10-10-2012, 05:03 AM
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要看一个女生爱不爱你，就是看你为她做的事，她到底有没有在乎。 一个不爱你的女人，就算你飞上天空为她采下一颗星星，当做礼物送给她，她只会无动于衷反而觉得 你很无聊。 要是那个女生是爱你的，就是简简单单的一个简讯写着：“早安！” 就足够让那个女生一阵天，心情都是那样愉快。 说到着就好，我又emo了。 
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短短的六个月，我看到你的成长。我知道你比当时我看到的你，更加坚强了。girl绝续加油，身为护花使者的 我，会一直守护着你。 Last edited by <<totally>>; 10-10-2012 at 05:04 AM. Reason: 再度emo
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#26
10-10-2012, 08:44 AM
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Ideally, love is mutual, you love her and she loves you.
Of course from the selfish point of view, it is better to have someone whom you have nice feelings for to love you more than you love her. But, if you see a nice decent girl around and then you just decide you want to go and cheong to grap a her, then you are just trying to satisfy your craving. Craving for love, craving for attention, craving for conquests. At the end of the day whether you succeed in this attempt or not, such craving will only result in bringing for yourself 'fan nau'. I suggest, you first go look into yourself and examine why you want to go chase after a girl from a different national and possibly cultural background, who has already a bf. Are such efforts worth it? for yourself, for her and for other people around who may be affected by your actions. Self knowledge and control of oneself goes a long way to ease our burdens of life in busy Singapore. Cheers.
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#27
10-10-2012, 11:38 AM
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酒能醉人，我的歌声更醉人！
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#28
10-10-2012, 01:22 PM
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看不开，放不下，明知错，还是做，自做贱，自食果。 这样也被你看穿。  emo中。。。。。。。
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短短的六个月，我看到你的成长。我知道你比当时我看到的你，更加坚强了。girl绝续加油，身为护花使者的 我，会一直守护着你。 Last edited by <<totally>>; 10-10-2012 at 01:23 PM. Reason: emoing
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#29
11-10-2012, 05:00 AM
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If you want to screw another man's wife, take a look at the consequences before you do it
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#30
11-10-2012, 05:02 AM
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