really need advice from men

[sadbaby]

I am a new user and this is my first post, so I hope I am posting in the right place.

I am a young girl who always believe that to be a good gf and wife, one needs to please her husband and bf in bed. And I am quite wild and willing to experiment in bed, initiates sex and is very enthusiastic and fun in bed and gives bj that is out of this world (according to my bf)

However, I realised my bf has photos of my busty frens and colleagues saved in his computer and he's also a member of this forum who used to be involved in swinging with his ex gf.

I know its normal, but can I just ask, is it a sign of him cheating on me one day with someone else? any advice will be much appreciated

[HowBohBuckSai]

TS, I aint your bf so i wont dare to comment on whether will he change or not for u... but well there is a saying... a leopard will not change it's spots....

just hope he will not convince u into swinging.... and may I just take this opportunity to warn u that... giving in to his request to join in swinging is not a proof of your love but your stupidity nia...

[ben1215]

Hello Sadbaby

Only one ans. ----- YES

Take care

[Atomants]

Sadbaby,

First and foremost you might want to ask yourself what you really are looking for in a relationship. If you say what you said and think is normal then I think it might not be so normal. Everyone come here with a reason and every reason is a good reason ( to them self of course ) .

Sometimes we just have to ask ourselves some short term questions and some long term questions... and step out of yourself and look at yourself and see if you like what you are seeing or being in.

This way the answer lies there for you..

[Abbreviation]

First you have to differentiate LOVE and LUST. You are asking if he is cheating on you from LOVE or LUST standpoint? Or both?

We (I'm quite sure most of us here) guys can fuck around but go home thinking of our GF/wife sleeping at home. No strings attached LUST. Of cos there are also many morally decent man that does not fuck around at all. Those are good men. But you won't find many in this forum.

For LUST, I'm talking about pure LUST here. As a man, I can tell you. We will never get "enough". You can claim you are pretty, hot and wild in bed. But the forbidden fruit always taste sweeter.

You can have the most slutty CFM face, but he will sooner or later get bored and yearn for maybe a SYT and innocent look babe.

Example for myself. My GF who is staying with me, as good as my wife, just that we haven't sign the paper yet. She is petite and short and have natural huge D assets. But. . . I'm still lusting over slim and tall ladies with killer legs in heels.. . I will gladly bonk them with no strings attached.

Not sure if you get what I'm trying to say here. It like your BF can LOVE you. But he can also on the other hand LUST over busty ladies (I'm assuming you do not have huge boobs).

[Greendevil]

Dear TS, whether he will cheat on you, only time will tell. If any of us here can tell you for certainty, then he may as well predict upcoming TOTO number and make a fortune himself.

However, please consider which phase of life you are going thru and what you seek in this relationship. If you are feeling young and want to enjoy and explore a few more years, then your priority will be different to seeking a long term rs. If you are seeking a long term rs and life partner, then ask yourself this, if he remain in this manner for the next decade, can you accept him as who he is?

From this, you may probably derive your next course of actions.

[Reoxy]

Originally Posted by sadbaby

I am a young girl who always believe that to be a good gf and wife, one needs to please her husband and bf in bed.

You have the wrong beliefs.

Men's Bible clearly states that the perfect gf/ wife must possess the ability to Close One Eye, Open One Eye.

If you change your beliefs to the above, I guarantee you your bf/ husband will love you forever. You take a stick beat him he will also not leave you.

[GourangaPizza]

A couple of questions you''ll need to ask yourself...

1. What are you in this relationship for? e.g. material comfort / stability, emotional support, future marraige partner.
2. What kind of actions your BF does constitute as cheating to you? What do you plan to do if this happens?

The bottomline is quite simple really... if you think he is worth every of your effort then it shouldn't be that hard to put in additional effort to let him know what you think. If you still don't feel good after that, then consider separate or breakup.

[iMonk]

Originally Posted by Reoxy

You have the wrong beliefs.

You take a stick beat him he will also not leave you.

orh mee tor for

[<<totally>>]

Originally Posted by sadbaby

I am a young girl who always believe that to be a good gf and wife, one needs to please her husband and bf in bed.

A very good belief for man.

Originally Posted by sadbaby

I realised my bf has photos of my busty frens and colleagues saved in his computer.

Did he know you first or your busty friends and colleagues? If he knows you first, your bf betray you. If he knows your busty friends and colleagues first, your busty friends and colleagues betrayed you for not coming clean to you about their past.

Originally Posted by sadbaby

And I am quite wild and willing to experiment in bed, initiates sex and is very enthusiastic and fun in bed and gives bj that is out of this world (according to my bf)

That is showing you are a horny blower.

Originally Posted by sadbaby

I know its normal, but can I just ask, is it a sign of him cheating on me one day with someone else? any advice will be much appreciated

Not very normal to me. Go check the date of the pic last saved and date taken and matched them against the dated you and him got together. You will get your answer in no time.

[alan0338]

no worries TS, even if he is not cheating now, he will cheat eventually...

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Just continue to shack, suck and PCC him dry every night or everytime you meetup with him will do liao
He will have no bullets to eat outside but he might not live long also la

[HCKing]

dont worry and think too much babe, all men have their past.

even if u can find one with a clean record, chances r u will not take a fancy on him either.

nan ren bu huai nu ren bu ai.

[ahtat77]

you can and know how to please your bf in bed but is he attracted by that? sex is not the only important factor in a relationship so it's either your bf is a chee ko pek like me or that your character sucks. only you know the answer my dear ts.

[hurts]

Originally Posted by sadbaby

He's also a member of this forum who used to be involved in swinging with his ex gf.

Isn't this obvious when you post out something like this and high tendency that he will read it knowing that you are referring to him?

However, I would advice you to stay away from a swinger. He can openly show his ex gf nake to the public or the group of swingers he swings with. Don't you think he is a bit mental in his head? Would you show your love one body around? maybe auntie here a bit old fashion.

Originally Posted by sadbaby

However, I realised my bf has photos of my busty frens and colleagues saved in his computer and I know its normal

Your friends and colleagues photos ended up in his computer? HOW CAN THAT BE NORMAL??REALLY MENTAL! Is he having fetish of your friendS and COLLEAGUES??? .

Originally Posted by sadbaby

but can I just ask, is it a sign of him cheating on me one day with someone else? any advice will be much appreciated

We can't judge or tell if he is cheating behind you, only you will know it best cause you are the closest to him comparing to a bunch of readerS here.