really need advice from men

[bionogne]

Sadbaby,

It's inevitable tat he "will / might" cheat on you if you thought it that way.
But like what "Abbreviation" said: LUST or LOVE!?

My situation is exactly like him (Abbreviation). My gf has been with me for 5 years now, I still love her but come on, my libido also has his needs..

Question is how do you deal with this feeling?

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by HCKing

dont worry and think too much babe, all men have their past.

even if u can find one with a clean record, chances r u will not take a fancy on him either.

nan ren bu huai nu ren bu ai.

I agree with you bro. All men do have past, give your man a chance to prove himself. BUT TS if you are uncomfortable of his past, talk to him about it. Look at his replies and reevaluate the situation. However the past is the past, what is happening now and the future is more important.

[hurts]

Originally Posted by jasdude

I agree with you bro. All men do have past, give your man a chance to prove himself.

AGREE.

Originally Posted by jasdude

BUT TS if you are uncomfortable of his past, talk to him about it. Look at his replies and reevaluate the situation. However the past is the past, what is happening now and the future is more important.

now its not about TS bf past, TS is talking about current. CURRENTLY, both TS and her bf are encountering this problem. CURRENTLY in this relationship. photos were found in his boyfriend PC and what worst its is TS FRIENDS AND COLLEAGUES photos.

What make you think that TS is uncomfortable about his past? she already accepted this relationship on top of that if you read carefully she even mentioned

Originally Posted by sadbaby

he's also a member of this forum who used to be involved in swinging with his ex gf.

I know its normal

read carefully before you REPLY if not you are just making a fool out of yourself

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by hurts

now its not about TS bf past, TS is talking about current. CURRENTLY, both TS and her bf are encountering this problem. CURRENTLY in this relationship. photos were found in his boyfriend PC and what worst its is TS FRIENDS AND COLLEAGUES photos.

What make you think that TS is uncomfortable about his past? she already accepted this relationship on top of that if you read carefully she even mentioned



read carefully before you REPLY if not you are just making a fool out of yourself

TS has no solid evidence that his BF did anything wrong

Having pictures does of friends and colleagues does not attribute to straying. If they are naked and in bed or in the process of certain sexual acts yes. But posing next to each other does not. So if i have a pic of me posing with Megan Fox? does that attribute to me having a fling with her? How I wish!

Having a member to SBF or any swing site does not attribute to something evil. You cannot generalize that a man that visit SBF will sure look for whore and a woman who visits SBF is a whore.

Assumption is always a basis of friction. Jumping to conclusions proves how inadequate of the person is in analyzing situations. That is why, ask if in doubt. TS has all the right to ask cos she is in doubt.

[hurts]

Originally Posted by jasdude

TS has no solid evidence that his BF did anything wrong

did i say TS have solid evidence that his bf did anything wrong? TS is just worry and making possible assumption, why the fuck does her friends and colleague picture were found in the the boyfriend pc? please read carefully once again.

Originally Posted by sadbaby

However, I realised my bf has photos of my busty frens and colleagues saved in his computer

Originally Posted by jasdude

So if i have a pic of me posing with Megan Fox? does that attribute to me having a fling with her?


Having a member to SBF or any swing site does not attribute to something evil. You cannot generalize that a man that visit SBF will sure look for whore and a woman who visits SBF is a whore.

agree once again, being a member of SBF doesn't mean that one is looking for a whore or a girl that visit sbf is a whore. anyway, sorry jasdude you are not in a position to say that..
http://www.sammyboyforum.com/archive.../t-241739.html.

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/archive.../t-256275.html

Originally Posted by jasdude

Assumption is always a basis of friction. Jumping to conclusions proves how inadequate of the person in analyzing situations.

purely defending for yourself SWINGER jasdude ??

Originally Posted by jasdude

However the past is the past.

you are old enough to be liable of your own actions but not assuming people will forgive your actions since its your past.

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by hurts

did i say TS have solid evidence that his bf did anything wrong? TS is just worry and making possible assumption, why the fuck does her friends and colleague picture were found in the the boyfriend pc? please read carefully once again.

There is a high possibility that her friends and colleagues could be his friends as well.


agree once again, being a member of SBF doesn't mean that one is looking for a whore or a girl that visit sbf is a whore. anyway, sorry jasdude you are not in a position to say that..
http://www.sammyboyforum.com/archive.../t-241739.html.

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/archive.../t-256275.html

purely defending for yourself SWINGER jasdude ??


you are old enough to be liable of your own actions but not assuming people will forgive your actions since its your past.

True I am old enough to be liable for my own actions. I am single at that time of swinging. I am not accountable for anyone in the past when I am swinging. So what does that shows? I am responsible for myself. To be crude, I can fuck many and still there is no wrong cos I don't need to account to a GF or WIFE. What is there to forgive? Hahaha

Since you are so against swingers then tell me which is a greater evil? A single person going to a swing Or a single person having a FB Or a married person having an affair or mistress? So adultery is okie? swinging is wrong? Just because personal experience does not warrants an excuse.

A person whose last swing was more than a year ago is called still a swinger?

[hurts]

Originally Posted by jasdude

True I am old enough to be liable for my own actions. I am single at that time of swinging. I am not accountable for anyone in the past when I am swinging. So what does that shows? I am responsible for myself. To be crude, I can fuck many and still there is no wrong cos I don't need to account to a GF or WIFE.

HAHA this is the best joke of the year, proud of being a swinger and proud to say you are fucking and making use friend to fuck? did your parents taught you that??

Originally Posted by jasdude

What is there to forgive? Hahaha

ask your parents TELL THEM, i make use of my friend exchanging partner and go for sex in a open with my "FRIENDS" .. btw, i have no any blood related to you.

Originally Posted by jasdude

Since you are so against swingers then tell me which is a greater evil? A single person going to a swing Or a single person having a FB Or a married person having an affair or mistress?

during a swing you treated and make you your partner as a ticket to exchange for other sex partner, in an affair both truly love each other and its not wrong to fall in love. so which is more SINFUL now jasdude?

Originally Posted by jasdude

A person whose last swing is a year ago is called still a swinger?

A person that commit a crime will always have their crime recorded in the data base, they are always one that commit a crime. so does it mean a small crime is equivalent to a no crime?

[ahtat77]

how about kioing kway when gf or wife not around? issit sinful?

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by hurts

HAHA this is the best joke of the year, proud of being a swinger and proud to say you are fucking and making use friend to fuck? did your parents taught you that??



ask your parents TELL THEM, i make use of my friend exchanging partner and go for sex in a open with my "FRIENDS" .. btw, i have no any blood related to you.




during a swing you treated and make you your partner as a ticket to exchange for other sex partner, in an affair both truly love each other and its not wrong to fall in love. so which is more SINFUL now jasdude?



A person that commit a crime will always have their crime recorded in the data base, they are always one that commit a crime. so does it mean a small crime is equivalent to a no crime?

Adulterous affair is okay? to love one is to betray the other. You should be more experienced than anyone.

Even an ignorant dimwit knows no one can force anyone to do what they don't like in a swing. I must have special powers to mind control or a gun to force people to go and do something against their wishes.

Hmmm can you help me tell them. But first, get a knife stab yourself a few times and jump of the building first. You must be dead first to meet them.

Crime? As asked again at you. What crime is committed when a single fucks at a swing?

[hurts]

Originally Posted by jasdude

Adulterous affair is okay? to love one is to betray the other. You should be more experienced than anyone.

Even an ignorant dimwit knows no one can force anyone to do what they don't like in a swing. I must have special powers to mind control or a gun to force people to go and do something against their wishes.

Crime? As asked again at you. What crime is committed when a single fucks at a swing?

no point talking to a swinger over this matter. cause a swinger never know what is love and can fuck anyone that he or she doesn't love or have feelings with.

SWINGERS 万岁. you are a swinger, not once ,but you are making use of people is CORRECT. WAH such integrity you have.

falling in love with someone married is 大罪, must get executed horr. ??

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by hurts

no point talking to a swinger over this matter. cause a swinger never know what is love and can fuck anyone that he or she doesn't love or have feelings with.

SWINGERS 万岁. you are a swinger, not once ,but you are making use of people is CORRECT. WAH such integrity you have.

falling in love with someone married is 大罪, must get executed horr. ??

Hmmmmm where is my gun? Hmmmmm let me start my mind control. Focusing on Hurts........... Set On Next sunday, we go swing with bangalas and their pinoy chicks.

[hurts]

Originally Posted by jasdude

Hmmmmm where is my gun? Hmmmmm let me start my mind control. Focusing on Hurts........... Set On Next sunday, we go swing with bangalas and their pinoy chicks.

oh please, you may try to convince other innocent girl out there with no integrity like you. trying to convince to do a act doesn't need a gun

please know the difference between the word CONVINCE and FORCE.

[Reoxy]

Originally Posted by Reoxy

Men's Bible clearly states that the perfect gf/ wife must possess the ability to Close One Eye, Open One Eye.

No need to argue.

Refer to the Men's Bible.

Pls.

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by hurts

oh please, you may try to convince other innocent girl out there with no integrity like you. trying to convince to do a act doesn't need a gun

please know the difference between the word CONVINCE and FORCE.

It takes two hands to clap, two to tango to the tempo. Convince? am I that good? Come la I let the bangala try you la.

Please read the following information.

http://sammyboysexforum.com/showthread.php?t=312867

http://sammyboysexforum.com/showthre...t=#post7793326

[hurts]

Originally Posted by jasdude

http://sammyboysexforum.com/showthread.php?t=312867

the poll show only 44 voters and who knows probably half of them are your clone voting, or mostly are your swinger kakies. not a very good survey poll done real survey poll indicate name and include personal particular try doing this survey in a non sexual forum or even in the real world. the result is sure at least 75% against 25%.

further more, having a detailed look at that thread, most people commented NO. THOSE who voted yes dare not post anything. your clones?