really need advice from men

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by sane

Dear, u really YDK mah..y not juz accept the fact? drinks ar..anytime, i will on u

You are with me most of the time. Need to jio u? Its understood-ed!

[<<totally>>]

Originally Posted by jasdude

Maybe join me for a drink? I will PM you.

Sure. I am at East~! Sense Beer Belly forming~ Got or not still the same.

[Intltuk]

Originally Posted by sadbaby

I've talked to him bout it, he felt very embarrassed and he apologized, that he won't do it again. Fact is, the last PM I see from sbf on his account was before he and I got tgt.

In the end... I chose to give him the enefit of the doubt, cos I know I see a future with him and those things were probably for guilty pleasure sake.

I asked here just to have second opinion, and I also
Know cheating is not smthng that is entirely avoidable or impossible in any r/s, even of its with the most decent guy. I choose to believe in his strong family
Values and upbringing, cos apart from those few hints of betrayal, he's a great guy an my best friend...

Tat's the way to do it. U've done ur homework and talked to him. U can move forward...case closed.

[kenl8888]

Maybe you need to go to hatyai where you can get a boob job done for
S$ 3000 ; as your bf is a boobs man

[paulfrank]

Hi TS...
i jus put it in another way...my humble opinion. they often say home-cook food is the best...and healthy. Nothing beats home cooking. But once in a while, u do skip mum's cooking and eat out. Cos of variety reasons. There are so many tempting food out there. But if i eat out it does not mean i do not like my mum cooking, its jus that once a while i need a different variety. But then there are some people who dislike home cook food and eat out everyday and vice versa . To each his own. You have to make your own judgement and decide if you can tolerate such behavior. But i think alot of men belong to the first group .

[Goodmanhood]

Originally Posted by Greendevil

Dear TS, whether he will cheat on you, only time will tell. If any of us here can tell you for certainty, then he may as well predict upcoming TOTO number and make a fortune himself.

However, please consider which phase of life you are going thru and what you seek in this relationship. If you are feeling young and want to enjoy and explore a few more years, then your priority will be different to seeking a long term rs. If you are seeking a long term rs and life partner, then ask yourself this, if he remain in this manner for the next decade, can you accept him as who he is?

From this, you may probably derive your next course of actions.

Good answer. Thanks.

[stillgottheblue]

A relationship base purely on satisfying sexual desire will not last very long.