Low & Mid Income Sillypore Bros, SG or Foreign Gf/Wife?

[Santaclaws]

Originally Posted by mackewell

NO offence bros, chinese girls(be it sg or wad) are out of my league due to chinese' ppl materialistic nature and face issues....

There's still alot of non-materialistic PRC women out there.



24mins onwards

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by Santaclaws

There's still alot of non-materialistic PRC women out there.



24mins onwards

Wah bro, i mood good leh, i flying to taiwan later for NYE countdown liao lolx.

Then i watch this vid, i wanna become emo sia.... That girl is a gem lah but how many? I counting by the fingers now? lol....

To be fair to the prc girl, she is right to put her family in front of his husband and expect marriage. But then ur prc gf or wife ke siao here and there, how to accept her? Unless the guy big ego lah, never pacify her(i think this is the main problem, the guy never go down to her lvl and understand her..)

And one more time, this one reality tv show, super wayang Lohhh, the girl got problem also wont sae she got prob. She will act kelian. But if i the guy, i will trash things out and talk wif her. If really cannot work out, for goodness sake, let her go liao, dont be too selfish , this kind of girl sure got other man waiting to marry lol...

Hey wait, as i watch on , she got depression signs, wah if you really patient guy, i think you can make this kind of girl happy and live wif her. If not, dont force lor, really cant work out, i got one bro fren , his ex-gf got depression b4, got crazy spells, if you are a guy who cannot be patient and understand her and drop her ego, forget about it, move on liao, this kind of gf or wife cannot work lah, wont be blissful...

If i am the guy, i will let her go sia. If can choose, i dont want face emo gf or wife sia, seriously i know life is hard, but if she dont be positive and try to overcome her tough times mentally, veri hard to get along one, wont work one..

Sorry lah , i sound bastard, but if you live life so emo, wads the point right? its up to u on how u look at life(but of cos some case is genetic or wad so bopian.) IF not , normally, her mindset is freaking important...

Shit LAH, the video so EMO, my prep for countdown SO DOWN NOW LOL, thanks bro aniwae, good knowledge

OH ya, this prc girl is too emo, u will suffer if together wif her(i am sorry , just being honest). I believe lah even if she has depression tendency, is up to her to walk out of that trapped door. But if you watch the vid till the end, shes stubborn and she wont walk out of the trapped door liao, any men will just run away from her. So morale of the story, cohabit wif ur fiancee first b4 u marry her, if you cant live wif her, dont marry, period....

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by mackewell

Bros, haizzz i already say liao the feelin of keep saying sg girls no good is not nice. You all want PR or real opinions frm me?? Enuff said, i going to stress that there are nice sg girls, but SIMPLE ones who dont think so much of the Cs are only handful or in extinct mode liao. I am toking abt low income bros who earn less than 2k, who can only support ourselves( we only work, no need go out relax sometimes?), we can hardly able to go out wif normal sg girls( their mentality is like tt thanks to gov , not their fault lol..)

Enuff lah, u want me give pr opinions? I dun do tt man unless working lah then bopian, i will just stay silent and read wad u all post lah and do my self reflection and evaluation lol....

since u said u nvr dated b4 hw u knw the real good ones r already in extinct mode?

do u knw girls will treat a guy very differently from their 'usual' self when they are emotionally attached to them? there r many things u cant see just by making judgements frm the outside.

mai paper talk so much lah, go date a girl 1st and experience it yrself lah.

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by HCKing

since u said u nvr dated b4 hw u knw the real good ones r already in extinct mode?

do u knw girls will treat a guy very differently from their 'usual' self when they are emotionally attached to them? there r many things u cant see just by making judgements frm the outside.

mai paper talk so much lah, go date a girl 1st and experience it yrself lah.

hahahahaa coming from a lao jiao bro, indeed i talk too much liao, matters of the hearts cannot be explained lah, you must go xperience it. Still, gaining better knowledge about BGR will put me in a better place wif my first gf hee.....

[pakalolo]

Originally Posted by mackewell

This vid is abit exaggerating lah, but to a small extent, it could occur in real life when you have sg gf.

In chinese saying, this kind of bitchy girls are known as 'Female Tiger'

However if i happen to be a sissy and loser bf, my sg gf sure makan me lah lol....

A local girl once give me her bag to carry,just where it goes?THE TRASH CAN!!!
break off immediately!!!

[bret hart]

Just writing a story that happened to me during my last trip to China (Dec 12):

Few months ago, I was introduced a PRC girl call Xiao Juan by a China friend, Ah Wei. She is the sister of his to-be wife. All of them are from Hunan.

We messaged through Wechat and QQ think for 3-4 months until we decided to meet up on 30th Dec 12 which is my China friend's wedding with her sister.

Xiao Juan arrived few weeks earlier to help her sister prepare for the big day, and I finally reach the town few days before the wedding dinner.

I felt so energised and excited to be finally meeting her after so many months messaging. Feel like meeting new friends through IRC chatroom during my schooling days.

So on the day I arrived, I messaged Xiao Juan to meet up for makan. To my surprise, she rejected me as she say the wedding day is near and she's busy helping her sister.

Initially, I felt very down and confused. I tried to convince her but after a while I gave up as I think I shouldn't be forcing her if she don't want. I tell her to do her best to help her sister with the wedding. We can see each other on 30th which is the wedding dinner.

So I hang around for that few days not doing much but get to know few other PRCs through Wechat. Met 1 of them call Xiao Xue which is quite cute, now working in a departmental store selling children stuffs.

On the wedding night, as I and my friend came out of the lift door and face the receiving table where a bunch of girls in gowns as well as the bride was standing there waiting for guests, a lot of gigglings suddenly started. After we signed our names and rose our heads to check on where we should be sitting, a girl in black gown was push out of the pack to do the urshing. She is Xiao Juan. We finally met, but she look firece and nervious.

We didn't managed to talk much, and were placed at a table with 3 more guys. 1 Singaporean, 1 Hongkee and 1 PRC. We were dumb enough to reach there by 6pm, and the dinner actually start around 7.30pm. As the dinner was about to start, the rest of the chairs were filled up with the wedding couples' relatives from Hunan, including Xiao Juan and some female cousins. I realised my friend Ah Wei has used that dinner to try matchmake these girls to us.

The dinner was weird for me and Xiao Juan as we can only secretly look at each other. We acted like strangers. Ah Wei came over after a while and requested us to stay after dinner for KBox and more drinks. My friend hinted that we are not going to the Kbox as we have something on. Nearing to the end of the dinner, Xiao Juan's cousin couldn't stand it anymore and spoke to me for the 1st time to request us to stay for the karaoke session. I look at Xiao Juan whom was just staring at her food. I agreed much to the disapproval of my friend.

So after a little while more, my friend and I went over to the karaoke room. The PRC guy friends of Ah Wei was at the left corner, the mature relatives in the middle and a bunch of young girls on the right corner. Instintively, we found a spot next to the girls. You can feel that the girls are real happy. The girls includes the initial ones whom sit with us at the dinner and some more from other tables. As Ah wei has already matchmake Xiao Juan to me, he ask my friend to pick whoever he want from the lot. It was a matchmake session - China wedding style.

Along the way, a PRC guy we just met has been sticking with me the whole night. He sat in between me and Xiao Juan in the KBox room, which I felt very sian. He has been telling me about how pretty Xiao Juan is, not knowing I already gotten Xiao Juan's sister's approval to tackle her.

Not in awhile, Ah Wei came over and asked that PRC guy to siam away. Bingo. So we started playing dices and we act like we don't know but in actual fact we have been under training in CP. The rest of the girls tried to hook up with my friend as they know i'm taken. The girls are dumb at playing the dices and ended up drunk instead of us. Sadly, my friend did not like any of the girls and wanted to leave. I told Ah Wei I will be back after bringing my friend back to hotel.

Ah Wei sensed that we will not be back, and so were the girls. Soon, they packed up and left. When I came back later, Xiao Juan has left. The next day we exchanged a few messages before I depart for Singapore. We didn't manage to meet again.

Yesterday, she left a shout out on QQ saying she lost in gambling and in love. (gambling is normal activity during wedding period when all the relatives are under one roof.

I couldn't tahan anymore and go for the offensive. I asked her why she lost in love. The reply was slow but she finally open up. She was not used to meet new people and was very shy. But I gave her positive replies and want her to bring me around the next time we met. She wholeheartedly agreed.

Now the thing is should I move forward and go find her or just let this drama end...

I am a practical guy. It's not easy to bring her back to Singapore to live as she totally don't know english, never travel abroad and is real shy.

Meeting her to get to know her is the next step, but I have to make a decision after that.

Confused.

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by bret hart

Just writing a story that happened to me during my last trip to China (Dec 12):

Few months ago, I was introduced a PRC girl call Xiao Juan by a China friend, Ah Wei. She is the sister of his to-be wife. All of them are from Hunan.

We messaged through Wechat and QQ think for 3-4 months until we decided to meet up on 30th Dec 12 which is my China friend's wedding with her sister.

Xiao Juan arrived few weeks earlier to help her sister prepare for the big day, and I finally reach the town few days before the wedding dinner.

I felt so energised and excited to be finally meeting her after so many months messaging. Feel like meeting new friends through IRC chatroom during my schooling days.

So on the day I arrived, I messaged Xiao Juan to meet up for makan. To my surprise, she rejected me as she say the wedding day is near and she's busy helping her sister.

Initially, I felt very down and confused. I tried to convince her but after a while I gave up as I think I shouldn't be forcing her if she don't want. I tell her to do her best to help her sister with the wedding. We can see each other on 30th which is the wedding dinner.

So I hang around for that few days not doing much but get to know few other PRCs through Wechat. Met 1 of them call Xiao Xue which is quite cute, now working in a departmental store selling children stuffs.

On the wedding night, as I and my friend came out of the lift door and face the receiving table where a bunch of girls in gowns as well as the bride was standing there waiting for guests, a lot of gigglings suddenly started. After we signed our names and rose our heads to check on where we should be sitting, a girl in black gown was push out of the pack to do the urshing. She is Xiao Juan. We finally met, but she look firece and nervious.

We didn't managed to talk much, and were placed at a table with 3 more guys. 1 Singaporean, 1 Hongkee and 1 PRC. We were dumb enough to reach there by 6pm, and the dinner actually start around 7.30pm. As the dinner was about to start, the rest of the chairs were filled up with the wedding couples' relatives from Hunan, including Xiao Juan and some female cousins. I realised my friend Ah Wei has used that dinner to try matchmake these girls to us.

The dinner was weird for me and Xiao Juan as we can only secretly look at each other. We acted like strangers. Ah Wei came over after a while and requested us to stay after dinner for KBox and more drinks. My friend hinted that we are not going to the Kbox as we have something on. Nearing to the end of the dinner, Xiao Juan's cousin couldn't stand it anymore and spoke to me for the 1st time to request us to stay for the karaoke session. I look at Xiao Juan whom was just staring at her food. I agreed much to the disapproval of my friend.

So after a little while more, my friend and I went over to the karaoke room. The PRC guy friends of Ah Wei was at the left corner, the mature relatives in the middle and a bunch of young girls on the right corner. Instintively, we found a spot next to the girls. You can feel that the girls are real happy. The girls includes the initial ones whom sit with us at the dinner and some more from other tables. As Ah wei has already matchmake Xiao Juan to me, he ask my friend to pick whoever he want from the lot. It was a matchmake session - China wedding style.

Along the way, a PRC guy we just met has been sticking with me the whole night. He sat in between me and Xiao Juan in the KBox room, which I felt very sian. He has been telling me about how pretty Xiao Juan is, not knowing I already gotten Xiao Juan's sister's approval to tackle her.

Not in awhile, Ah Wei came over and asked that PRC guy to siam away. Bingo. So we started playing dices and we act like we don't know but in actual fact we have been under training in CP. The rest of the girls tried to hook up with my friend as they know i'm taken. The girls are dumb at playing the dices and ended up drunk instead of us. Sadly, my friend did not like any of the girls and wanted to leave. I told Ah Wei I will be back after bringing my friend back to hotel.

Ah Wei sensed that we will not be back, and so were the girls. Soon, they packed up and left. When I came back later, Xiao Juan has left. The next day we exchanged a few messages before I depart for Singapore. We didn't manage to meet again.

Yesterday, she left a shout out on QQ saying she lost in gambling and in love. (gambling is normal activity during wedding period when all the relatives are under one roof.

I couldn't tahan anymore and go for the offensive. I asked her why she lost in love. The reply was slow but she finally open up. She was not used to meet new people and was very shy. But I gave her positive replies and want her to bring me around the next time we met. She wholeheartedly agreed.

Now the thing is should I move forward and go find her or just let this drama end...

I am a practical guy. It's not easy to bring her back to Singapore to live as she totally don't know english, never travel abroad and is real shy.

Meeting her to get to know her is the next step, but I have to make a decision after that.

Confused.

Lol bro,

I do not knoe about prc culture or their matchmaking thing. However, you cant think about marriage when u dun really knoe this girl. You do not knoe whats is her agenda behind( there may be one) and she may treat u as normal fren only. To top on tt, this is de reason why foreign women like sillypore men. We can change name to robert so easily cause we are simply stubborn and we do not knoe how to handle kc trap. Good luck bro, prc women are super seng mok one, i tink maintain long dist r/s loh den visit her in prc regularly.

[joncheong]

Hi bro bret hart....

I think you should go for her... You never try you never know buy dun coat every of your moves with gifts and money for her.... If she is for you she will stick with you... If she is for your money then most prolly after a few weeks or months and you still dun mention any material things for her she will stop contact with you....

[Kenny87]

Originally Posted by mackewell

Hi all,

in order not to mix wif issues on my LOS thread, i have decided to create this new thread. However, wadever i am going to comment here is based on my OWN opinion and mentality lah, no right or wrong lah, up to u to judge.

Basically if you let me choose, i will not take sg girls to be my gf or wife( i have my reasons, i will explain soon.)

To start off, i will categorise the monthly income lvl of we sinkie bros in this way:

Low Income bros(earning SGD$3500 and below)

Middle Income bros(earning SGD$4000-$8000)

High Income bros(earning above SGD$8000)

For me, i will talk more on low income bros section as i am one of them. For high income bros, i dont really understand ur world and ur set of problems yet. But feel free to share lah if you from any of the three income categories. Non sillyporeans also can share your experiences lah lol.

Ok not to make this into an essay, i will be touching on three points here.

1) Basic account of myself(i explain where i stand and how i look at things to make myself clear first)

2) Pros & Cons of having SG girlfriend or wife(veri brief lah , maybe 3 points for both sides)

3) Pros & Cons of having Foreign girlfriend or wife(veri brief also)

dont mind me.. give my view here as i rarely come in anymore.. staying with bf, very hard to log in now.

i read all ur comments etc etc.. and i find a few big problems why u cannot find those nice local girls that u are looking for..

1) u are looking in all the wrong places.
where on earth do u think tt the nice girls are hiding? definately not behind a computer or in GL.

2) u think too much.
aiyoh.. my god.. u wan something, u make a move. girls sometimes find the stuttering thing cute, but after awhile.. it gets boring.. be bold! make a move! sometimes we girls see something we like.. but we like being the one pursued.. make it story worthy when we get all starry-eyed and tell the story to our frens about the start of the r/s..how u got her etc etc..

3) u REALLY think too much.
u honestly think tt most girls in sg think about $$ and 5cs? really? O.o out of 10 of my gal friends, only 1 out of 10 think like tt. most of us, just want a nice guy, who loves us, do small sweet things to us, promise us the sky and the possibility that anything is possible. listen to us talk, cuddle us, give us comfort and promise us tt everything will be okie. (this may be abit cheesy.. but it worked on me.) if u had S$5 left in ur wallet and no ATM in sight.. u are willing to spend this S$5 making ur gf happy.

4) u only 27 and u think.. aiyah no hope liao..
my goodness.. 27 u have this thinking.. i met my bf when he was 28 and i was 21. he had never had a stable r/s before me.. cheong too much, gamble too much, had gfs who lasted around 3-8 months.. i had a multiple bfs and only maybe.. 4 stable r/s tt lasted more than 1 yr. we met thru friends.. (yes! get ur frens to intro u!!) my bf lagi worse than u.. u stammer, he just sit there diam diam. when i first know him, i tot he is a mute. -.-"

u may think im in no position to talk.. ill be honest here and give u abit of my background. im a degree holder. my bf has only been educated to sec 1. we are 7 yrs apart. our worlds are very different. i come from a well to do family.. and he not so. i think im okie looking, (considering i used to have many guys chasing me *shy*) haha.. his main language are chinese and hokkien. mine is english. but because of me, he starts learning english, go and improve and better himself because he wanted to marry me. i learned chinese to communicate with him and his parents.

but after 4 yrs with him.. i love him with all my heart. i know the future is very tough for us.. and he is earning lesser than u.. in fact, i estimate his earning capacity to be a maximum of 2k. but its okie. his current salary is 1.2k. only a 100$ improvement since i know him. but he is sincere. he loves me, and that makes me want to be a better person because of him.. i have learned many life lessons thru this man. and everyday when i see him, all i want to do, is to please him and make him happy. i will never underestimate or undermine him just because of his salary or education. (i better stop.. coz when i start writing about him, i cannot stop gushing.. its quite annoying)

I have had steady r./s with guys who earns 8k and above. one was earning 15k a month as a boss of a international internet company. was with him for 1.5 yrs. showered me with bags and other stuff i had no interest in, brought me on his business trips but left me alone to my own devices. i was loved by his "things" but was lonely. i yearned for his attention, his affection.. he gave me some.. but i felt everything was too easy for him. if i got upset, next day, ill recieve flowers at the office, some bag or some jewellery. for what? for what?!! all i wanted was simple love.

im very sure that ull find the girl who is willing to do this for u. beauty is in the eye of the beholder. sometimes, dont write off the first girl u see as ugly as CMI.. because sometimes tt ger, when u love and respect her, can become beautiful in ur eyes.

btw, when we grow old. bloody hell.. we all look the same la.

Adding on: i agree with one bro that girls behave differently when we are with the ones we love/like. im a very off-handish kind of person. i hate to coddle ppl. i can be very curt and very demanding. but when im with my bf, ppl say tt i act differently. im more submissive, nicer and generally friendlier.. tts why ppl say tt he is my better half.

and also.. u dont have to be in shape or handsome to nab a local girl.. if u ever meet any of my friends.. they will all tell u the same thing. the heart. if ur heart is in the right place.. u have the heart to make her happy, she will know.. we are very werid creatures.. at least for me and my friends.. we dont really care about the results.. we care about the effort tt u went thru to get the results. i would rather a piggyback from my bf then if he bought a car to ferry me around. of all the gifts he has ever bought for me, i apprieciate the iphone 3 he got for me. and until now iphone 5 come out, i cannot bear to change my phone. i love it not because its expensive but because he saved for months before he could afford it for my birthday. this is the kind of effort im talking about. show some, and i bet, girls will flock to u.

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by Kenny87

dont mind me.. give my view here as i rarely come in anymore.. staying with bf, very hard to log in now.

i read all ur comments etc etc.. and i find a few big problems why u cannot find those nice local girls that u are looking for..

1) u are looking in all the wrong places.
where on earth do u think tt the nice girls are hiding? definately not behind a computer or in GL.

2) u think too much.
aiyoh.. my god.. u wan something, u make a move. girls sometimes find the stuttering thing cute, but after awhile.. it gets boring.. be bold! make a move! sometimes we girls see something we like.. but we like being the one pursued.. make it story worthy when we get all starry-eyed and tell the story to our frens about the start of the r/s..how u got her etc etc..

3) u REALLY think too much.
u honestly think tt most girls in sg think about $$ and 5cs? really? O.o out of 10 of my gal friends, only 1 out of 10 think like tt. most of us, just want a nice guy, who loves us, do small sweet things to us, promise us the sky and the possibility that anything is possible. listen to us talk, cuddle us, give us comfort and promise us tt everything will be okie. (this may be abit cheesy.. but it worked on me.) if u had S$5 left in ur wallet and no ATM in sight.. u are willing to spend this S$5 making ur gf happy.

4) u only 27 and u think.. aiyah no hope liao..
my goodness.. 27 u have this thinking.. i met my bf when he was 28 and i was 21. he had never had a stable r/s before me.. cheong too much, gamble too much, had gfs who lasted around 3-8 months.. i had a multiple bfs and only maybe.. 4 stable r/s tt lasted more than 1 yr. we met thru friends.. (yes! get ur frens to intro u!!) my bf lagi worse than u.. u stammer, he just sit there diam diam. when i first know him, i tot he is a mute. -.-"

u may think im in no position to talk.. ill be honest here and give u abit of my background. im a degree holder. my bf has only been educated to sec 1. we are 7 yrs apart. our worlds are very different. i come from a well to do family.. and he not so. i think im okie looking, (considering i used to have many guys chasing me *shy*) haha.. his main language are chinese and hokkien. mine is english. but because of me, he starts learning english, go and improve and better himself because he wanted to marry me. i learned chinese to communicate with him and his parents.

but after 4 yrs with him.. i love him with all my heart. i know the future is very tough for us.. and he is earning lesser than u.. in fact, i estimate his earning capacity to be a maximum of 2k. but its okie. his current salary is 1.2k. only a 100$ improvement since i know him. but he is sincere. he loves me, and that makes me want to be a better person because of him.. i have learned many life lessons thru this man. and everyday when i see him, all i want to do, is to please him and make him happy. i will never underestimate or undermine him just because of his salary or education. (i better stop.. coz when i start writing about him, i cannot stop gushing.. its quite annoying)

I have had steady r./s with guys who earns 8k and above. one was earning 15k a month as a boss of a international internet company. was with him for 1.5 yrs. showered me with bags and other stuff i had no interest in, brought me on his business trips but left me alone to my own devices. i was loved by his "things" but was lonely. i yearned for his attention, his affection.. he gave me some.. but i felt everything was too easy for him. if i got upset, next day, ill recieve flowers at the office, some bag or some jewellery. for what? for what?!! all i wanted was simple love.

im very sure that ull find the girl who is willing to do this for u. beauty is in the eye of the beholder. sometimes, dont write off the first girl u see as ugly as CMI.. because sometimes tt ger, when u love and respect her, can become beautiful in ur eyes.

btw, when we grow old. bloody hell.. we all look the same la.

Adding on: i agree with one bro that girls behave differently when we are with the ones we love/like. im a very off-handish kind of person. i hate to coddle ppl. i can be very curt and very demanding. but when im with my bf, ppl say tt i act differently. im more submissive, nicer and generally friendlier.. tts why ppl say tt he is my better half.

and also.. u dont have to be in shape or handsome to nab a local girl.. if u ever meet any of my friends.. they will all tell u the same thing. the heart. if ur heart is in the right place.. u have the heart to make her happy, she will know.. we are very werid creatures.. at least for me and my friends.. we dont really care about the results.. we care about the effort tt u went thru to get the results. i would rather a piggyback from my bf then if he bought a car to ferry me around. of all the gifts he has ever bought for me, i apprieciate the iphone 3 he got for me. and until now iphone 5 come out, i cannot bear to change my phone. i love it not because its expensive but because he saved for months before he could afford it for my birthday. this is the kind of effort im talking about. show some, and i bet, girls will flock to u.

Hi miss kenny, glad to know tt you r tt rare gem who yearn simple love, can turn submissive when u see ur bf, can stick to an iphone 3. However, i am already resignin to fate tt i may not be able to find a decent and low maintenance gf in sinkiepore lol, i tink career more impt la.

Its true tt u need to love urself and make urself betta b4 u go into a r/s wif someone or de someone can even accept u, in de meantime bros or sis , keep ur comments coming in, its really educational for me la lol...

[Kenny87]

im not a rare gem. in fact, i know many girls who are like this. i think most important is for u to learn to love urself first before u can love others.

u just have to look in the right places.. also.. choose with ur eyes open. it amazes me sometimes when my guy frens keep moaning and groaning about having found the wrong ger etc etc.. when i look beside them, i know of girls who are very nice, but they dont take a second look because they think tt the ger not good enough for them..

figure can change.. and looks.. well.. did u know the more u are with a person, the person will look like u? haha...

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by Kenny87

im not a rare gem. in fact, i know many girls who are like this. i think most important is for u to learn to love urself first before u can love others.

u just have to look in the right places.. also.. choose with ur eyes open. it amazes me sometimes when my guy frens keep moaning and groaning about having found the wrong ger etc etc.. when i look beside them, i know of girls who are very nice, but they dont take a second look because they think tt the ger not good enough for them..

figure can change.. and looks.. well.. did u know the more u are with a person, the person will look like u? haha...

When i look around at fast paced society aka sillypore, i only see rude and dao girls who will prolly give you a second look if you are well groomed, equip yourself with a nice and expensive, and wear nice expensive leather shoes...

Still the same word, honestly, i have seen CMI girls who are nice, but if in your eyes she is CMI, then you cant accept her lol. It is harsh but u need to be honest to god on this.

[DegenerationX]

Originally Posted by Kenny87

im not a rare gem. in fact, i know many girls who are like this. i think most important is for u to learn to love urself first before u can love others.

u just have to look in the right places.. also.. choose with ur eyes open. it amazes me sometimes when my guy frens keep moaning and groaning about having found the wrong ger etc etc.. when i look beside them, i know of girls who are very nice, but they dont take a second look because they think tt the ger not good enough for them..

figure can change.. and looks.. well.. did u know the more u are with a person, the person will look like u? haha...

Agree with you. Just to show a post from another similar thread.

Originally Posted by ilikeoldchangke

My 2 cents.


I feel that it is unfair to the girls if we were to stereotype them, reardless if they are Singaporean, Malaysians or Mainland chinese.


Let's start with the Singaporean women. I have had my fair share of relationships and heartbreaks with them.

Yes, some are materialistic and demanding, but we would be unfair to those who are not. I have had the chance to meet some truely nice and sweet local girls.

They do not care about the branded bags, the fast cars, nor do they mind sticking through thick and thin with their then boyfriends. Money is certainly not everything.





Ask ourselves one thing, we pass 2 singaporean women.

One is dressed stylishly, behaves like an spg with an expat around her arms

The other is in simple jeans and t-shirt, perhaps tired after a hard day's work, carring 2 ntuc plastic bags of groceries and an umbrella on her way home.

You pass this 2 women at the same time ?



Which one is a Singaporean ?

Which one will you look at ?

Which one will you sterotype ?



The stylish SPG ?


Why not the plainly dressed one ?

This is us men thinking with our kuku jiao .

Why ?

Because we all want to fuck that spg but we assume she only wants to fuck that ang moh.

Am i wrong ?




It can be hard for us men to see the sacrifice the women made for us, but instead we tend see what our kuku jiao want us to see.


( female samsters can start pm-ing me for discreet realtionships liao. i am an understanding man .... kidding.)





I have had 2 local girlfriends who left me for another man before. One to an expat, one to an older singaporean. Both are more established in their careers, doing better in life.


That doesn't mean i'm no good, it only meant i'm not good enough for them in their opinion. If that is their choice, so be it.



I did not crawl into a hole and die.

I learn and grow with each relationship. We all should




We should be able to differentiate the different catagories of SG girls, it is not hard. If she is someone for keeps, go all out.

If she is someone who you know is only good for a fling, go ahead if you are up for it. Fuck her, get over it. Move on.





Take a deep breath and....


Think for a moment where do we meet and brand our so call 'singaporean girls' ?


In drinking joints at Raffles place ?

a hot club in town with long queues ?

A stylish dining joint in Dempsey ?

In a high end boutique in Orchard ?





What about at a hawker centre in Bedok ?

or a market in toa payoh ? How come we don't go there and start branding the cute girl who spend her weekends helping her parents at their stall ?


Or the one who had to bring her siblings to the playground in plain shorts and t-shirt ?

Or the one who spent the weekend bring her parents and grandparents around ?

Why ?



For both scenarios , what did the girls do wrong ?






Ignore the mainstream media with all the shitty reports about singaporen women prefer foreigners,singaporean men are not gentlemen enough, singaporean men this singaporean men that...

Fuck them . Those are just rubbish.

Don't get suck into this mentality that we are not good enough.

We Singaporean men are good enough for anyone if we think that person is someone we want to spend the rest of our life with.

If you like someone, get to know her. If you want her, fight for it. If there is competition, kill it.




We all go into a relationship with our eyes open.

Unless we can meet and know every singaporen women there is, we cannot simply offer a judgement that they are who the media / the men say they are.

The same applies for women of other nationality.


Merry xmas .


and do your part to stop the FTs from grabbing the local girls...

[shiokpleasure]

bro,

i find it quite a paradox.

you don't know how to romance girls but u know how to go find fl. do you just fuck them without making any small talk?

pls la, even fl also can brush up on your kumcheng skills. i find fls harder to kc compared to normal girls lo.

i suggest you get your paid fucks but at the same time learn from them how to romance lo. afterall, the ultimate kc tool is $$$ and nothing else. works on any girls.

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by shiokpleasure

bro,

i find it quite a paradox.

you don't know how to romance girls but u know how to go find fl. do you just fuck them without making any small talk?

pls la, even fl also can brush up on your kumcheng skills. i find fls harder to kc compared to normal girls lo.

i suggest you get your paid fucks but at the same time learn from them how to romance lo. afterall, the ultimate kc tool is $$$ and nothing else. works on any girls.

Bro,

I feel la xianing FL/WL and normal girls to be your real gf is two different matter all together.

If wanna xian FL, its much more easy, most of the time even in clubs , you give eye contact, she interested, you can just say hi and talk to her. Most of the time, i am not really a humorous fella, i just be very respectful, act abit shy and say nice things to the fl, then i can get her liao. of course, u quote price confidently, she will go wif u. And for sure, this FLs are KC pro trappers. Till today, i understand the act of managing KC but not the art of making small talks, making a hot girl interested in me when initially shes not.

IF wanna xian normal girl to be potentially gf, you need to be humorous, have balls to go up to her, look her in the eye and interest her, show her u are different from the other guys. Tts the challenge and i cant do tt coz i will froze after i say hi to the girl most of the time. Hell, i cant even approach her for some reason lol.

Lastly, if i wanna use Vita M to sustain this r/s for more than 70 percent of the time, its a transactional r/s. Its easy to get tt sort of r/s but not the real r/s where money takes 30-50 percent place in the r/s or maybe sometimes its lesser than 30 percent lol...

So i suppose its not a paradox. Sure thru my experience of FLs, i am able to handle and see if tt particular girl is gf material anot. But , however, i cant approach the girl well coz the science and the method is totally not the same. Its a different ball game afterall.