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TS, actually this is happening to me too. Just a short intro, I'm 31 now and above average looking guy. I have my own business to do and quite busy of it. Every week i would take flight twice just for business trip. Consider me as single workaholic looking to settle down type of guy. I find it very hard to interact with gals nowadays... Girls need time and process, but I realised I lack the power to woo gals anymore... I tried very hard to show my sincerity and none likes me. Therefore, I really feel it's quite disappointing ya know...
Never once that I mistreated my ex.. I always showered her with whatever I have, she wanna buy bags, I would buy for her, etc, etc.. But because of LDR, we broke up and this happens everytime.. Girls can't be explained logically.. We r working our arse off to earn money for our future, but because I can't meet her on regular basis, she ditched me... It's not like I dun meet her, I try to go and see her whenever I have free time, but she just wants more and more.. Used to be once biweekly, become once a week, now she wanna meet once in 3 days. I have to work man.... When we broke up, I told her hey pls dun break up... Look at what I have done and sacrificed for u over the years, and u know what her reply is? That is normal, everyone treat me so good, u as my bf, have to treat me even better... When I heard this, it really broke my heart... Ur iphone 4 got stolen, I replaced it with Iphone 5, ur money got stolen, i transfered u the money, u said tired, i bring u for overseas holiday, i was the one who always took care of ur car while u r working, i went heaven and hell just to meet u, and u replied me with that sentence? As if i did everything is for nothing? U think i pay all these without working my arse of for it?
Some Girls r very cruel, if she doesnt wanna be with u, she can turn to be a completely different person and tell u things that made u look like a fool.
So think twice, if u guys r meant to be, she would do everything for u and appreciate ur efforts, and u will love her wholeheartedly in return.
bro, i sympathize your, in my opinion, harrowing experience. Seems like you got yourself a GCP. Ditched you after she found a bigger fish. Good girls stick to you even without iphone or ishit. Don't ask you for money even when she lost hers. And will reject it even when i insisted on transferring her the money. Move on bro... I've been through your circumstances but as I went through more, I grew wiser. You don't need to contribute. Just minimal and let her do the rest. Be gregarious, be undesperate, be a cat, not a dog.
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TS, actually this is happening to me too. Just a short intro, I'm 31 now and above average looking guy. I have my own business to do and quite busy of it. Every week i would take flight twice just for business trip. Consider me as single workaholic looking to settle down type of guy. I find it very hard to interact with gals nowadays... Girls need time and process, but I realised I lack the power to woo gals anymore... I tried very hard to show my sincerity and none likes me. Therefore, I really feel it's quite disappointing ya know...
Never once that I mistreated my ex.. I always showered her with whatever I have, she wanna buy bags, I would buy for her, etc, etc.. But because of LDR, we broke up and this happens everytime.. Girls can't be explained logically.. We r working our arse off to earn money for our future, but because I can't meet her on regular basis, she ditched me... It's not like I dun meet her, I try to go and see her whenever I have free time, but she just wants more and more.. Used to be once biweekly, become once a week, now she wanna meet once in 3 days. I have to work man.... When we broke up, I told her hey pls dun break up... Look at what I have done and sacrificed for u over the years, and u know what her reply is? That is normal, everyone treat me so good, u as my bf, have to treat me even better... When I heard this, it really broke my heart... Ur iphone 4 got stolen, I replaced it with Iphone 5, ur money got stolen, i transfered u the money, u said tired, i bring u for overseas holiday, i was the one who always took care of ur car while u r working, i went heaven and hell just to meet u, and u replied me with that sentence? As if i did everything is for nothing? U think i pay all these without working my arse of for it?
Some Girls r very cruel, if she doesnt wanna be with u, she can turn to be a completely different person and tell u things that made u look like a fool.
So think twice, if u guys r meant to be, she would do everything for u and appreciate ur efforts, and u will love her wholeheartedly in return.
Bro,
All i can say it that you meet the wrong person at the wrong time. I think not every women are not logical thinking. Some do and when they does, they will be more logical than MEN.
To be honest, every human being would want their loves one to be with them as much as possible. But, due to the fact that we need to earn a living like everyone does, we need to work our ass off. So to make sure this isn't become a problem in future, it must be make norm to your partner from the start when you and her decide to get together. In a realstionship, there are alot of unseen culture. Some of this unseen culture can be iron out before even things start. But what is those unseen culture to you mean? You got to prioritize it yourself.
In our love life, there are some many repeated situations just that it was over look by ourself and hence, it make us keep on reapeating the mistakes again and again. But when we come to this love relationship we sometimes just can't be as rational as what we make decisions on a business deal. That's actually make a love realtionship something more difficult to handle.
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Yes totally agree!! Most of us comes from different cultural background
If you dun like her enough to go thru the conflicts stage with her then dun bother pursuing, i once read that to be able to marry your best fren is the luvliest thing that can happen. Its whole life time we r talking about. Infatuation alone is not enough to sustain.
So when u r hots over the girl she should react accordingly?
What about when u guy say that u prefer girls with more preserve and conservative kind of thinking? Have u ever tried understanding and listen when they express their feelings to u??
Alot of men dun realised how chauvinistic they r but they are.
Guys please get over ur past relationship before u wanna get urself into a new one. Dun keep using the same method or same mindset u have on ur failed relationship and bring it to the new one.
TS, actually this is happening to me too. Just a short intro, I'm 31 now and above average looking guy. I have my own business to do and quite busy of it.
Some Girls r very cruel, if she doesnt wanna be with u, she can turn to be a completely different person and tell u things that made u look like a fool.
So think twice, if u guys r meant to be, she would do everything for u and appreciate ur efforts, and u will love her wholeheartedly in return.
Bro, i know how it feels. Feelings and gals are basically inexplicable somtimes...
When a gal likes you, a lot of times even when you do not lift a finger, they will somehow stick around you. And no matter how badly you mistreat her - two-time, lie or even hit her, she will find the most ridiculous reason to justify staying with the guy. I am sure we've all known of at least one such example amongst our friends. I have seen countless such examples.
On the other hand, if a gal do not love you, even if you donate your liver to her, she will still find a reason to leave you one day.
I think i've somewhat become a skeptical person- i think it's not worth to pour your heart and effort towards a gal you are chasing. Just approach each dating experience with a light and open heart. And like what you said, only when you meet the gal who would appreciate and treasure you, then you should love her wholeheartedly.
Just minimal and let her do the rest. Be gregarious, be undesperate, be a cat, not a dog.
I have heard this from friends too. That if a gal like you, she will like you. There is no need to put in excessive effort, wear your heart on your sleeve and prove your sincerity to her through tears and sweat.
And the friends who told me these are generally very sucessful in their dating lives.
Take it easy TS, when the time is rite, u will meet the girl wan... Dont be too hard on urself.
That is what i told myself 3 years ago ... i used to believe that when the time is right, everything will fall into place. But then after being treated like a rejected good time after time in the past 3 years, inevitably i am beginning to doubt will that day where everything fall into place ever come??
But nevertheless, i appreciate all the advice, comments and sharings by bros here.
That is what i told myself 3 years ago ... i used to believe that when the time is right, everything will fall into place. But then after being treated like a rejected good time after time in the past 3 years, inevitably i am beginning to doubt will that day where everything fall into place ever come??
But nevertheless, i appreciate all the advice, comments and sharings by bros here.
Seriously, guys once past 30 not married yet will definitely build what we called: "looking-for-gf anxiety". It become a sickness where we tried too hard but just couldnt get any gals because we are too desperate for it. girls got scared, but think about this girls... is it a bad thing for u that we r looking to settle down? change into another perspective, what would happen if someone takes his time chasing u when u were 23, and u guys went into relationship for 3 years and in the end the guy just dun wanna get married with u and dump u?
Sometimes i wonder how come such girls can be that stupid. Love is a process, wooing stage is too fake to be considered as true love. U girls want true love, but do u girls actually know or realise that true love will only happen in the loving or gf/bf or husband/wife stage? If such girls r looking at this post at the moment, u r considered to be damned stupid to think that guys will chase u because he likes u or loves u during the wooing stage.
Now, i'm actually not looking for anything that fall into place over time anymore. Just let things be that way. I dun care too much now even if im single for the rest of my life. Enjoy life till we r dead!!!
Sometimes i wonder how come such girls can be that stupid. Love is a process, wooing stage is too fake to be considered as true love. U girls want true love, but do u girls actually know or realise that true love will only happen in the loving or gf/bf or husband/wife stage? If such girls r looking at this post at the moment, u r considered to be damned stupid to think that guys will chase u because he likes u or loves u during the wooing stage.
Now, i'm actually not looking for anything that fall into place over time anymore. Just let things be that way. I dun care too much now even if im single for the rest of my life. Enjoy life till we r dead!!!
Yes, i frequently hear some of my female friends lamenting why do guys like to lie and cheat- all she wants is "a simple guy who is sweet to her, that's all". And I go like "yeah right?? " Here i am a simple guy who is willing to be sweet to you, will even work damm hard to provide a good life for you... But will you even take a second look at me?!
I am like the simple guy who's been rejected, taken for granted and treated like a piece of trash a thousand times over.
But then again, maybe their definition of a simple guy is a Robert Pattinson-look alike who drives a sports car, commands a five-figure salary, and yet can be sweet and caring...
TS, actually this is happening to me too. Just a short intro, I'm 31 now and above average looking guy. I have my own business to do and quite busy of it. Every week i would take flight twice just for business trip. Consider me as single workaholic looking to settle down type of guy. I find it very hard to interact with gals nowadays... Girls need time and process, but I realised I lack the power to woo gals anymore... I tried very hard to show my sincerity and none likes me. Therefore, I really feel it's quite disappointing ya know...
Never once that I mistreated my ex.. I always showered her with whatever I have, she wanna buy bags, I would buy for her, etc, etc.. But because of LDR, we broke up and this happens everytime.. Girls can't be explained logically.. We r working our arse off to earn money for our future, but because I can't meet her on regular basis, she ditched me... It's not like I dun meet her, I try to go and see her whenever I have free time, but she just wants more and more.. Used to be once biweekly, become once a week, now she wanna meet once in 3 days. I have to work man.... When we broke up, I told her hey pls dun break up... Look at what I have done and sacrificed for u over the years, and u know what her reply is? That is normal, everyone treat me so good, u as my bf, have to treat me even better... When I heard this, it really broke my heart... Ur iphone 4 got stolen, I replaced it with Iphone 5, ur money got stolen, i transfered u the money, u said tired, i bring u for overseas holiday, i was the one who always took care of ur car while u r working, i went heaven and hell just to meet u, and u replied me with that sentence? As if i did everything is for nothing? U think i pay all these without working my arse of for it?
Some Girls r very cruel, if she doesnt wanna be with u, she can turn to be a completely different person and tell u things that made u look like a fool.
So think twice, if u guys r meant to be, she would do everything for u and appreciate ur efforts, and u will love her wholeheartedly in return.
Bro same thing, learn from lesson. I will say think as LOVE is selfish, dont just blindly give in and see how she react or if she understand u first anot. If she really like you for who you are even though you dont buy all those expensive stuff for her tt u bought for her ex previously, then shes the right one. Then, you start investing on her. U lonely at least you got ex. At 28 yrs old, i never have gf before i sure lonely more than u.
But look on the bright side, do you want to go through a series of casual BGR(lets face it, BGR is very casual and lightly taken by the both sexes nowadays.) or go for a solid yet probably a BGR with more value or something to remember for? If u want go for latter, then cannot rush mah, must wait and see and test water then invest .....
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Being a responsible dude in a R/S does not mean you are not hip, not cool or even looking bad in front of your guy friends. It does not make sense when you have a nice girlfriend who caters to your needs, yet u go behind her back screw her friends and make ur stake in the comm xxx scene.
T But because of LDR, we broke up and this happens everytime.. Girls can't be explained logically.. We r working our arse off to earn money for our future, but because I can't meet her on regular basis, she ditched me... It's not like I dun meet her, I try to go and see her whenever I have free time, but she just wants more and more.. Used to be once biweekly, become once a week, now she wanna meet once in 3 days. I have to work man.... When we broke up, I told her hey pls dun break up... Look at what I have done and sacrificed for u over the years, and u know what her reply is? That is normal, everyone treat me so good, u as my bf, have to treat me even better... When I heard this, it really broke my heart... Ur iphone 4 got stolen, I replaced it with Iphone 5, ur money got stolen, i transfered u the money, u said tired, i bring u for overseas holiday, i was the one who always took care of ur car while u r working, i went heaven and hell just to meet u, and u replied me with that sentence? As if i did everything is for nothing? U think i pay all these without working my arse of for it?
Some Girls r very cruel, if she doesnt wanna be with u, she can turn to be a completely different person and tell u things that made u look like a fool.
So think twice, if u guys r meant to be, she would do everything for u and appreciate ur efforts, and u will love her wholeheartedly in return.
You are simply too trusting. Give them what you can afford to lose, let them think they are so smart and winning, then take back 5x what you gave.
Has a Commercial Fuck turned into a torrid Love Affair which has turned your life upside down? Fear not. We have experts here who can help you through your roller coaster ride. Tell us your story and we'll do our best to help.
04-02-2013, 10:53 AM
" Here i am a simple guy who is willing to be sweet to you, will even work damm hard to provide a good life for you... But will you even take a second look at me?!
