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Hi bros, i hope you guys can give me your advice regarding of sex.

Im in my early 20s, no problem getting hard on during masturbation and have not had sex for almost a year. it was only recently when ive tried doing it with a girl, i couldnt get my little one up and it seems like i'm not interested. No doubt that i feel very frustrated for not able to give her the pleasure and i'm thinking if this is a common issue?

Am i facing a health problem here? :(

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how about fantasy about other girl when boonking she ? lol

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sigh. i do not know how to explain this frustration in me.
i do get excited when i think about bonking her, but i do not get the excitement when ive come into physical contact with her.

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breast too small?

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Just tell her to masturbate for you during foreplay.

I am sure it will help. Good Luck! :D

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May b u dont love her:confused:

Or she got gongtao.....can always find men's soft spot :D

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Bro, you are not alone. Me too. No matter how pretty that girl is, she take off clothes, I might not stand up no matter what she do at the scene of sex. I am also wondering y.

My secretary even asked me if I am gay and not interested in girls. Thats how bad it was. Now she doesn't expect me to penetrate her except for those lovey, touchy, clingy r/s between us. And even when my oc and other regulars go into my 'isolated' office, she also keep quiet cos she knows she can't do anything about it.

But at other times when I am with my regulars, I have no problem. I think its a psychological thing. Thats y I have been saving quite alot by not going for FL, WL or whatever Ls cos I know I can't do it. So dun waste my time, money and their effort.

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Bro,

For a young man like yourself, masturbation is an everyday routine for yourself i'll bet. However, being said that, it isn't exactly that healthy. Sometimes like bro Toyota_Honda mentioned, it might be psychological. You could be too comfortable with masturbation that sex with a partner is just not as satisfying. This can eventually lead you to being an 'otaku'. (go google it)

Assuming that the girl you wanted to do it with is ur existing gf, I recommend that you 'save' up ur guys for about 2 weeks or so. After that, try again. You might be horny enough to get the job done and satisfy ur girl.
IF the girl that you were about to bonk isn't ur gf.. means that it's ur guilt conscience that is telling you that 'this is wrong'. I used to have this problem when first started out having other women other than my gf. Sort of got over that problem, but lead to another problem instead. Hahhahaha...

Just my 2cents

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Strictly speaking, that's not a bad thing.

At least you can save a lot of money.. Haha

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Your condition is uncommon for someone in their early 20s, maybe you DIY too much. Don't masturbate for about a week, and then meet her, see if it works.

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I suggest seeing a doctor. Ur prob could be either psychological or physical or worse both. You need medical help...and urgently....

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Good advice....and if you really need help then just go see a doctor and ask for the blue pill. Btw don't eat the whole pill....just a small bit and your problem will go away.
My 2 cents worth....have fun!

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thank you bros for all your advices!
at least i feel much better now knowing that i'm not alone.

really much appreciated :D

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Hope that you will overcome your problem soon TS. Remember to wear protection when you can have sex with the girl.