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Old 27-10-2010, 09:54 AM
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Re: blow job

TS, it may be psychological. And usually being aware of your problem doesnt help at all as it makes you even more anxious that you most probably cannot cum etc.

A few word of advice:

- you must try to be totally relaxed, horny and rid yourself of your anxiety. you only have one objective - ie to use that mouth to satisfy your lust. Look at her with lust, think of ravaging her etc

- to do the above, sometimes its better to do with a WL as with your GF you may feel bad that you take so long and cannot cum etc. Tell the WL that you will take a long time, but the only thing you wanna do is fuck her mouth. If she quote you a FJ price, so be it. Whatever it takes so that you wont be feeling bad for taking a long time to come, since you already paid for the svc.

- think about this: if you can cum with HJ and FJ, why cannot cum with BJ. One reason could be psychilogical as abovementioned. The other could be the motion. Instead of her blowing you all the time, alternate with you fucking her face, ie you use her mouth like a CB.

I believe once you've done it one time ie cum thru BJ, you would have broken the psychological barrier and subsequent times might be easier.

Hope this helps