Re: feeling hapless
Her chut pattern is very clear. Write incidents down in a notebook as unbiased and clear as you can like CSI or FBI style with no feelings involved for your analysis and possibly future evidence.
Try not to buy house or have children yet. Messy If separation takes place. I don't advocate divorce but better have a Plan B and better still a Plan C.
If joint account , squirrel as much money to save for your rainy day.. preferably into a safe deposit box where cannot be traced. Try not to buy joint assets together or worse give $$ to buy something in her name or her other`s name.. separation will be messy.
Surround yourself with buddies. If she storm off, it is your free time liao lo. Maybe even go for galivanting. She chut pattern bcos wants you to beg for her return, well.. maybe absence makes the heart grows fonder. And don`t spite her by saying you enjoy good time with friend, this give her only more ammo. Act as if nothing happen.
Not sure what your game plan but like play chess and othello,every move you play must give you more options not limit your future choices.
You already know her pattern, how she chut and when she chut. Now is for you to decide if you can live with such a pattern or make the best of it. If yes, then play lor. If not.. sigh.. well.. free time liao lo..
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