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Re: Anal action - how to convince a girl

There are three stages of entry into the anus and rectum during an assfucking. These are caused by the physical anatomy of your woman's body, in particular the muscular structure of her anus, rectum, sphincters, and colon, and also by the nature of the sensations caused by the huge clusters of sensory nerves which surround the anus and rectum and abdomen.
These stages are:

1. The entry of the head of the cock into the anus, past the first sphincter.
2. The thrust which takes the head & body of the cock past the second sphincter.
3. The plunge past the third sphincter, untill the head of the cock is in the colon.


Presumably you have spent time using your fingers and/or tongue preparing, relaxing, and opening your girl's asshole, or you've been fucking her in the pussy hard enough to put her into that limp-with-pleasure-I'm-surrendering-to-you-totally state.

1. The Head Entry


Getting the head of your cock truly into her anus so that that rim of the head is past the first sphincter muscle is often the hardest part of the experience for a woman. Don't Ram It In! First. of course, apply your lube, and hold your cock against her asshole. Don't be surprised if she jumps because of the coolness of the lube suddenly touching the most sensitive orifice of her body. If this is your first time be prepared to spend time in this phase, holding your cock against her asshole, talking to her to soothe her, telling her to breathe deeply, and getting her used to the feelings in her nether regions. After a few minutes of this, tell her you are going to start going in, tell her to try and relax her asshole for you. (She'll thank you later for warning her and involving her in the process, if not with words, with the quality of her increased trust in you.) Push in and down, firmly, even hard enough to start hurting the tip of your cock, but steadily, no jerking or pulsing. If you are properly positioned, her asshole will fairly suddenly open up and let you in. She is likely to yelp; this entry past the sphincter is very intense, and it can be more a little painful if she has not been able to relax her anxious grip on her sphincter. You must go in far enough so that her sphincter grips you behind the rim of the head of your cock-- if you are not far enough in every time she clenches her asshole she will pop your cock right out. If she does pop you out, gently but firmly, in a no-nonsense kind of a way, reposition your cock and pop back inside of her.

Do not pop the head of your cock in and out. That hurts, and is way scary for a women have anal sex her first time. Do not saw in and out of her asshole. Once you are inside, STOP. Hold still. Hold your babe. Kiss her, stroke her breasts, whisper sweet nothings in her ear, tell her how hot she's making you feel, and get her even more relaxed for stage two.



2. The Half Thrust
The rectum holds itself shut with three bands of muscle lined with one of the smoothest, slipperest, silkiest membranes in the human body. When you have pushed the head of your cock into the anus, usually the head of your cock will be caught between the first ring of muscle and the second (unless you push very hard, or she is very relaxed, or experienced at taking a cock in her ass and intentionally relaxing). The half-thrust moves the head of your cock into the inner part of the rectum, between the second and third ring of muscle. The second ring of muscle seems to be the strongest, and that region is densly packed with nerves, so women experience a particular kind of sharp, tearing pain as that ring of muscle involuntarily supercontracts to prevent this relatively unusual penetration into her body.

Here it is vital that you get her to relax. Distract her, by biting gently on her neck (very effective), strongly rubbing her breasts, fingering her pussy, rubbing her and kissing her. Tell her to take deep breaths, using your best breathy confidant turned-on-male voice, and keep telling her to take deep breaths. Tell her, "I want you to relax your asshole, I want you to feel it relaxing now" -- but don't push. Don't push! Let her trust open her up to you.

It's a very good idea to tell her to move, to tell her to push herself back onto your cock. You'll have to tell her to do it a couple of times, probably, because women aren't so used to being active in those types of sexual situations, but insist she do it, and she will try. This will relax her more than anything else. She will discover it's actually pretty easy to let something the size of a cock into her asshole as long as she doesn't fight it, tighten those sphincter muscles, and cause the sensitive nerves of that silky lining to fire off pain signals. (There are several other things that cause anal pain, incidentally, which we will cover in future issues of anal sex tips.)

When you sense she has relaxed as much as she's likely to in the 5 to 15 minutes she might require for this phase, give her one last hard squeeze or kiss or fingering and push your cock into her rectum. You will feel your cock slide into a new position, about three inches deep, in which you are pretty tightly wrapped, almost held in that position by the muscles of her bottom.

You'll have to decide for yourself wether to warn her before, or as, you are giving her the half-thrust. Some women appreciate it, and some would distinctly prefer you not warn them so they are surprised and stay relaxed-- in my personal experience it's about half and half. You know your own woman as well as anyone, so it's your decision to make. If in doubt, I'd say surprise her, but be ready to explain you thought surprising her would help her stay relaxed and get through the potentially painful parts the quickest, in the same way that it's better to deflower a virgin with a quick thrust.



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