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Re: Looking for SD/ Weekly & biweekly arrangements
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Originally Posted by sweetsugarysis
Hope you find your SD girl, sorry to hear about your predictament but perhaps it may be good to start re-evaluating your priorities and manage your expectations better.
Ultimately, find a more sustainable solution if possible for your problems.
Cheers.
I found her already, just that before finding one (be it you are SB or SD), it will involve a lot of...disappointments. :P
Re: Looking for SD/ Weekly & biweekly arrangements
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Originally Posted by sweetsugarysis
Hope you find your SD girl, sorry to hear about your predictament but perhaps it may be good to start re-evaluating your priorities and manage your expectations better.
Ultimately, find a more sustainable solution if possible for your problems.
Cheers.
Thanks for the advice sis. Yes definitely wont be doing this for long. Prob only 2-3 months.
Re: Looking for SD/ Weekly & biweekly arrangements
Did i hear the word "leopard"?
l lost my fluffy white/grey snowleopard..after it went chasing n snarling a wild trans-schanauzer doggy down the dark street of changi V. Have u seen my fluffy sweet poopsie around, dear sweet bro?
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Bro JL? U are here too?
(I just stop by to see how come theres huge tsunami waves neh.. Im doing some sightseeing w/o ur bino.)
How have u been? Forever huat big big n i wait outside mbs n at another door till cannot find u.. Pockets always so heavy, give me 5% me happy na khaaa.. I go catch my Pierre naaa..
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Another rich bro spotted next to bro JL!
I didnt have any spare cash in my case. Oh well, I better get going; to look for my leopard.
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Originally Posted by TempLust
Been a long time since I’ve read through so many pages of a thread.
Not a proposal, just sharing with TS to see if this works for her. I have a simple protocol that I worked by:
1. The 1st is the only time that I will meet in public to establish if you’re the SB for me.
2. You can pick the venue but it has to be at a discreet location. I’ll pick up the tab for everything and give you a lift to/fro where you find convenient. No cash involved, time is money so if your time is money while mine is not. Sorry, from the onset this is not going to work for me. Move on.
3. Min a bi-weekly allowance at the start upon agreeing to an arrangement to establish if things can work. I’ll meet a potential long term SB for at least a mth to make that assessment.
4. Exclusivity ? I’m not that naive. If I’m your ideal SD you’ll eventually be exclusive else you’re free to go chase for that ideal. Condition being your other SDs shld not be disruptive to my arrangement with you.
That’s how it has worked for me but with local girls, it’s been more miss than hits. I’ve ventured to flying in SBs instead from Malaysia, Japan and Korea. Why ? Cause it’s an experience I wanted. They have an all paid holiday here with spare cash to spend and I get the experience I wanted. Use technology, do a video call to see if she is for you before getting that air ticket. To me, that’s as discreet as you can get for both parties.
Just ended with my Jap SB for a year. Current is a local that I’ve known for years where I made her this SD/SB proposition.
Just sharing and hopefully this lends some tips for TS to land her ideal SD.
Re: Looking for SD/ Weekly & biweekly arrangements
Allo sis... I teach u neh..For keen SD-wannabes, they book the room for SB n them neh.. Yes, the norms is SD will BOOK neh.. I dont know how come i feel u're getting uptight about room reservations ne... Ur daddy will do the booking himself, or maybe ask his staff or secretary to do it(if hes doesnt have to be so discreet).. To only secure the room reservation with his credit card is easy. Fill in of particulars wise, he can fill in ur particulars via his preferred hotel website n providing his card details. Or he can just call up the hotel room reservations n provide provide his card details over the phone (maybe a copy of his card details via fax). That will secure n confirm the room na khaaa... Dont sweat over that. It will come naturally naaa.. No force can stop once kena SOT..
Now, the most difficult part is the allowance. U both need to feel good with 1 another, comfortably n slowly build up a mutual trust. U have too! Theres no other way ne.. Becos even with a weekly/bi-weekly allowance payment, both can still scam 1 another. Best bet, feel comfortable with him. Enjoy 1 another companionship genuinely, but not desperate for sucking his bank. U suck bank (i mean extras that he doesnt have to buy u), he kick u out at half-time, he look for others, game over, new candidates.
SB n SD rs cannot be Date-n-Piak on the day of meetup n then expect both wont scam 1 another. Like tjat might as well dont date, cos stressful will turned into a fool ne... Somehow when theres a sincere n genuine connection towards each other, both will soon be able to somehow "see" the other party better n will have a better bond. If u worry way too much about getting cheated of this n that, u shouldnt be looking liao loh..let them go to u instead. Bcos when u feel stress or uptight n worried, u create tension, n connection will bloop! Very awkwardly awkward ne. Let . Others u dont need to worry too much. U just relax, like going on a fun date or like hanging out with a new buddy. Both sayang each other n all tne best! Hope all goes out well for both parties. N remember, its not always about the "honey n bees" thing. JIAYO JIAYO TO BOTH!
I need to go look for my runaway leopard... Take care...
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Originally Posted by Panaceajuice
2.
Previously I did try to find a exclusive monthly allowance SD but everyone seems so wary of being scammed these days and nobody wants to pay monthly.
I arranged to meet some guys for coffee & some fuckers never even showed up. At least 4- 5 guys flew my kite. They either block u or ignore your msgs on wechat. I dress up & makeup do my hair nice nice, take MRT all the way to meet the fellow and then....kena fly plane. Then I have to take MRT back home feeling like shit.
There are really a lot of fuckers& pranksters out there. Just in case u think the guys ran away cos I turn out fat or ugly.. I usually get one guy trying to hit on me & ask my number almost every time I go out. Not bragging but its the truth. So thats hw I know I confirm not ugly.
So now being already poor & need financial help, I am supposed to take the risk & book the hotel room using my $200-300; HOPING FINGERS CROSSED that u will show up, else I will eat air that month?
U cant trust me with a mere 100 bucks but u expect me to trust YOU that u wont waste my 200-300 bucks??
Already trying to be very understanding and nice, already compromise with weekly /biweekly payment.. already make it super convenient for u by booking the hotel room using my card (so no record on yours!) and purposely choosing those nicer hotels where u no need card access to go up the lifts.
For what?
SO AS TO PROTECT YOUR PRIVACY.
Im single. I dont give a rat ass who sees me with whom in a hotel. But u? U wanna risk being seen at Hotel81 by your boss? Collegues? Relative? Wife's friend?? Dont forget one thing: Sg is fucking small.
And yet there are guys who still try to push boundaries, wanna bargain this & that. Basically they just want to show up and enjoy the best deal in town while all the burdens and risks are on me.
How is that fair?
U want everything zero risk for u then just jerk off at home lah. Confirm safe. Confirm 100% no risk.
U go to dirt cheap FLs who fuck dun know how many guys in one day no risk meh? U risk your own health, is much worse than risking a small $ no? Money can be earned back. U kena HIV u r screwed. Try explaining that to your wife or gf; how u kena HIV (or some other STD) and that u may have passed it to her.
I am rly mindblown by how sexually reckless some dudes are. They will throw caution to wind just to feel more shiok. Everything either want raw or bareback. Wtf. Will u eat a bowl of soup where dozens of people have spit into it? No? Or sit on a toilet bowl with urine and shit all over it? No?
But u would readily fuck chicks who sucks/ fucks everyone bareback? Right. Good luck to u.
Re: Looking for SD/ Weekly & biweekly arrangements
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Originally Posted by CPleirA
Allo sis... I teach u neh..For keen SD-wannabes, they book the room for SB n them neh.. Yes, the norms is SD will BOOK neh.. I dont know how come i feel u're getting uptight about room reservations ne... Ur daddy will do the booking himself, or maybe ask his staff or secretary to do it(if hes doesnt have to be so discreet).. To only secure the room reservation with his credit card is easy. Fill in of particulars wise, he can fill in ur particulars via his preferred hotel website n providing his card details. Or he can just call up the hotel room reservations n provide provide his card details over the phone (maybe a copy of his card details via fax). That will secure n confirm the room na khaaa... Dont sweat over that. It will come naturally naaa.. No force can stop once kena SOT..
Now, the most difficult part is the allowance. U both need to feel good with 1 another, comfortably n slowly build up a mutual trust. U have too! Theres no other way ne.. Becos even with a weekly/bi-weekly allowance payment, both can still scam 1 another. Best bet, feel comfortable with him. Enjoy 1 another companionship genuinely, but not desperate for sucking his bank. U suck bank (i mean extras that he doesnt have to buy u), he kick u out at half-time, he look for others, game over, new candidates.
SB n SD rs cannot be Date-n-Piak on the day of meetup n then expect both wont scam 1 another. Like tjat might as well dont date, cos stressful will turned into a fool ne... Somehow when theres a sincere n genuine connection towards each other, both will soon be able to somehow "see" the other party better n will have a better bond. If u worry way too much about getting cheated of this n that, u shouldnt be looking liao loh..let them go to u instead. Bcos when u feel stress or uptight n worried, u create tension, n connection will bloop! Very awkwardly awkward ne. Let . Others u dont need to worry too much. U just relax, like going on a fun date or like hanging out with a new buddy. Both sayang each other n all tne best! Hope all goes out well for both parties. N remember, its not always about the "honey n bees" thing. JIAYO JIAYO TO BOTH!
I need to go look for my runaway leopard...�� Take care...
Re: Looking for SD/ Weekly & biweekly arrangements
Well said.
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Originally Posted by CPleirA
U just relax, like going on a fun date or like hanging out with a new buddy. Both sayang each other n all tne best! Hope all goes out well for both parties. N remember, its not always about the "honey n bees" thing. JIAYO JIAYO TO BOTH!
I need to go look for my runaway leopard...�� Take care...
Re: Looking for SD/ Weekly & biweekly arrangements
usually the norm is the sd book what but genuine companionship is more important what
wun feel sian meh if spend like 3-4 hrs together but nothing to talk about or common topics
Re: Looking for SD/ Weekly & biweekly arrangements
Just my own 2 cents for TS;
Maybe more details and restrictions would be nice.
1. A body photo to at least show how well your figure looks to attract potential SD
2. Some sort of expected price range maybe 2/3k a month or 5/6k? I think the money involved really makes a difference which will deter some low-ballers (instead of leaving blank and attracting $100 frenching kissers, which are as poor as me)
3. First meet-up must be non-sexual with small allowance , coffee/dinner/movie to allow time to get to know a SD ( to avoid those who wants 1 night stand).
4. Hotel must be booked by SD/potential meet ups
Reading the entire thread, this seems to be what you are looking for. But then again, understanding women is not my strong point.
All the best in looking for a SD.
Regards,
A poor ass NSF lurker here who know how hard times can get for some people.
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Uncle here believes that engaging in a SB/SD relationship is like trying to strike big sweep here.
A few years ago, after lots of misses, I had a wonderful relationship with an Asian overseas student that lasted 2 years. I pm her here in SBF and somehow in our messages, we seemed to click.
So one day I met her at a supermarket and send her home with her groceries. Before she got out of my car I ask "Do you like what you see?" she said yes and I told her the same thing too. Next day we check in to the hotel together and we had great sex.
She didn't ask a lot in terms of allowance...just $2k per month but I bank in $500 to her account weekly because she's afraid she might spend all in one go.
Other than our weekly hotel trysts I may fetch her to town for dinners or to buy groceries.
So...did I have a SB or a FWB or a mistress? Should I be bothered if she has a few SDs? In plain simple terms, I was looking for someone that I like to have sex with and still can be friends and she was looking for someone much older than her to advise her and my opinion on business matters.
For SBs, advertising yourself here will attract loads of assholes...and SDs will get loads of scammers where after 1 shot the SB will disappear with one month of allowance or she's got this dead fish smell down there or she's like a dead fish in sex.
There's no right or wrong way to get into this SB/SD thing...only perseverance in finding the right one with a large dose of luck!
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Uncle here believes that engaging in a SB/SD relationship is like trying to strike big sweep here.
A few years ago, after lots of misses, I had a wonderful relationship with an Asian overseas student that lasted 2 years. I pm her here in SBF and somehow in our messages, we seemed to click.
So one day I met her at a supermarket and send her home with her groceries. Before she got out of my car I ask "Do you like what you see?" she said yes and I told her the same thing too. Next day we check in to the hotel together and we had great sex.
She didn't ask a lot in terms of allowance...just $2k per month but I bank in $500 to her account weekly because she's afraid she might spend all in one go.
Other than our weekly hotel trysts I may fetch her to town for dinners or to buy groceries.
So...did I have a SB or a FWB or a mistress? Should I be bothered if she has a few SDs? In plain simple terms, I was looking for someone that I like to have sex with and still can be friends and she was looking for someone much older than her to advise her and my opinion on business matters.
For SBs, advertising yourself here will attract loads of assholes...and SDs will get loads of scammers where after 1 shot the SB will disappear with one month of allowance or she's got this dead fish smell down there or she's like a dead fish in sex.
There's no right or wrong way to get into this SB/SD thing...only perseverance in finding the right one with a large dose of luck!
If u have the money, anything is possible. No money, have the right girl also no use. Strawberry girls like to ask for more money w/o hardships. U have to open ur eyes very big and dun succumb to lust. The big problem with guys is that they easily succumb to lust until money becomes very loose.
Getting the right girl is like striking big sweep? Striking big sweep and getting the right girl are totally two different things. Striking big sweep is one chance only. Getting the right girl have several chances. Dun mix them together pls.
Maybe more details and restrictions would be nice.
1. A body photo to at least show how well your figure looks to attract potential SD
2. Some sort of expected price range maybe 2/3k a month or 5/6k? I think the money involved really makes a difference which will deter some low-ballers (instead of leaving blank and attracting $100 frenching kissers, which are as poor as me)
3. First meet-up must be non-sexual with small allowance , coffee/dinner/movie to allow time to get to know a SD ( to avoid those who wants 1 night stand).
4. Hotel must be booked by SD/potential meet ups
Reading the entire thread, this seems to be what you are looking for. But then again, understanding women is not my strong point.
All the best in looking for a SD.
Regards,
A poor ass NSF lurker here who know how hard times can get for some people.
Just forget the lust for the time being. NSF every month have $300. Can only go for Thais, Cambodia, Vietnam, Indonesian. Dun set your expectations too high. Next time, when u start to work, then u think about the lust. Just dun die in national service as a virgin with cork standing up can already, there will be many chances for you in the future, so why worry now.