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Old 22-12-2023, 07:55 PM
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Relationship with KTV girl

Anyone has experience with relationship with KTV girl?
How do u manage them?

For me, I just cannot accept the fact that she will be entertaining guys every night, and always suspect that she will go out with guys. It has been bothering me for very long. Want to break up also difficult. Haiz..
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Re: Relationship with KTV girl

Well, that is a difficult situation for anyone to face. Need to be understanding
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Re: Relationship with KTV girl

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Anyone has experience with relationship with KTV girl?
How do u manage them?

For me, I just cannot accept the fact that she will be entertaining guys every night, and always suspect that she will go out with guys. It has been bothering me for very long. Want to break up also difficult. Haiz..
Only 2 ways to resolve this if you wanna continue:

1. You have to accept everything, no buts.

2. If she really loves you she will do certain things to give you a full sense of security.
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Re: Relationship with KTV girl

要馬兒跑,又要馬兒不吃草?U sic me la..
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Re: Relationship with KTV girl

Offer her a monthly stipend that she will be willing not to work at joints but be prepared to bleed until you find a long term solution, which is either break up or she start small business.

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Re: Relationship with KTV girl

a large minority are here for the money. a small minority is here for the money and to be able to find someone who loves and understands them.

i think the biggest obstacle is to understand that might go for outcalls to earn extra money (ST, LT). but i think the main objective here is that if you know that she loves you and you love her back and you are willing to accept the fact that she hangs around with other men just for MONEY, then the journey wouldnt be so difficult.
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Re: Relationship with KTV girl

U got KCed
U have to face it tat she is a working girl
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Re: Relationship with KTV girl

I can only say

长痛不如短痛。
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Re: Relationship with KTV girl

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a large minority are here for the money. a small minority is here for the money and to be able to find someone who loves and understands them.

i think the biggest obstacle is to understand that might go for outcalls to earn extra money (ST, LT). but i think the main objective here is that if you know that she loves you and you love her back and you are willing to accept the fact that she hangs around with other men just for MONEY, then the journey wouldnt be so difficult.
That is true. I even heard of working girls with husbands who asked them to go work at ktvs. But personally i would slough off hard to provide instead of wearing green hats. If she loves you truly, she would reassure you by not betraying your exclusivity, as she would want you to be loyal too.
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Anyone has experience with relationship with KTV girl?
How do u manage them?

For me, I just cannot accept the fact that she will be entertaining guys every night, and always suspect that she will go out with guys. It has been bothering me for very long. Want to break up also difficult. Haiz..
U need to accept she need work to pay for her permit etc and earn for her family etc.

If u cannot pay anything, then forget it as she cannot cut permit for your sake.

Very minority of gals dun go out even to eat with customers. They got their own principles. Really dependent on how u met ur gal. If u first time go, she ady go piak piak with u then.

Chances are either u r very handsome or she does it normally.

So to solve ur pain, just move on
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Re: Relationship with KTV girl

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Anyone has experience with relationship with KTV girl?
How do u manage them?

For me, I just cannot accept the fact that she will be entertaining guys every night, and always suspect that she will go out with guys. It has been bothering me for very long. Want to break up also difficult. Haiz..
there are many threads on this bro

it seldom ends well. I was in one with a FL, it didn't end well. But then again, marriage- does it?

The fact that she works in the KTV already says she is not there for the romance. Its about the money. And if you have fallen for her, well, fall hard, fall deep, get hurt and wake up. They say its better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all. Perhaps this is true.

My magic pill? I go and screw someone else, or a few someones instead of wallowing in self pity that I feel betrayed or cheated on. Do what it takes to move forward, with few regrets.
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Re: Relationship with KTV girl

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there are many threads on this bro

it seldom ends well. I was in one with a FL, it didn't end well. But then again, marriage- does it?

The fact that she works in the KTV already says she is not there for the romance. Its about the money. And if you have fallen for her, well, fall hard, fall deep, get hurt and wake up. They say its better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all. Perhaps this is true.

My magic pill? I go and screw someone else, or a few someones instead of wallowing in self pity that I feel betrayed or cheated on. Do what it takes to move forward, with few regrets.
Thanks bro. The thing is I am married also la so not exactly like she cheated on me haha..
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Thanks bro. The thing is I am married also la so not exactly like she cheated on me haha..
cool bro, then don't let it bother you. if it bothers you, you are not just a customer client relationship already.
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Re: Relationship with KTV girl

Just take things easy. Don't think too much and have fun.
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