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Re: Need real legal advise: do i need to pay my ex-wife maintance if we do not kids
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Talk face to face with your wife , don't think too much of the month maintenance thing if divorce is what you wanted . we're in SG , in any case it's a compulsory thing bound by the super woman charter . but nothing is certain yet . if you engage a lawyer to represent you then you will save a lot of time and troubles , if you're not then you might wants to attend court yourself to inform the court of your position and to take directions on the conduct of your case , do note that the court is at liberty to make orders and directions in your absence .
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Re: Need real legal advise: do i need to pay my ex-wife maintance if we do not kids
The reality is that there is no fixed answer to your question. If both agree divorce in an amicable fashion anything is possible. Example:no alimony or no lump sum.
It is also better to have lawyer on your side.. And even alimony is agreed.. You can nego for X number of years.. And also if you were the dick in the relationship and the marriage is falling apart because of something you did...then you shouldn't squirm out of taking care of your ex wife to be.. |
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Re: Need real legal advise: do i need to pay my ex-wife maintance if we do not kids
Steady . agree with this line .
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Re: Need real legal advise: do i need to pay my ex-wife maintance if we do not kids
Bec ex-wife(working woman) cannot get extra money from govt so easier and faster way is to get money from ex-husband.
Most women dun want to work hard and want to get free money. |
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Re: Need real legal advise: do i need to pay my ex-wife maintance if we do not kids
As long as she stays unmarried again you have to pay till she dies or you die...alternatively since no kids better to negotiate for one time payment so that you can both wash hands clean of each other..
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Re: Need real legal advise: do i need to pay my ex-wife maintance if we do not kids
Is the marriage unbearable? Do you have someone else that you want to marry? The law is the law. You have to pay until she is re-married. Although I was told if she is earning more than you, she may have to pay you some money instead. I heard of a guy who went to jail because he lost his job and is unable to pay the monthly alimony.
If there are not much quarrels and if you have no one else, it is cheaper to stay married unhappily than to be a divorcee. Both of you can lead separate lives without irritating one another. No kids involved after all. Think of the monthly amount you can save. You just tell her status quo for now. Tell her you do not want her to end up as a divorcee because society likes to judge ladies who are divorced poorly. All those gossip.. you care and wish to spare her from it. If she finds someone else she wants to marry, then you divorce on good terms in the fastest manner. In this way, she will not remain single for long even if there is a divorce. Because she has someone she wishes to marry mah. This means even if you need to pay alimony also won't pay for too long. In the meantime, you also have licence to date around with your monthly savings from paying alimony.
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A divorce is not an immediate process, especially a contested one. So if you live separate life and have your own partners, and one day decide to get married to your new partner, it cannot happen immediately |
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Re: Need real legal advise: do i need to pay my ex-wife maintance if we do not kids
Getting married to a new partner is not an immediate desire anyway. Especially if you are getting out of a divorce to get married. Surely you will think it over again and again. Unless it is shotgun.
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Re: Need real legal advise: do i need to pay my ex-wife maintance if we do not kids
Want to take money from government won't take days, could be months, or may not get anything at all
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The worst case scenario will be that you think it won't be contested, and you start to plan for your new marriage, and suddenly things change and you need to shelve your plans for extended periods, how will your new partner feel? Thats why I say its something you want to keep in mind and weigh, is settling a maintenance fee immediately that big a concern compared to cutting ties cleanly soon so that non of your future plans get wrecked? And who knows, the longer you drag, the bigger a maintenance could become for many factors. |
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i did get my ex wife to agree to an annulment with no settlement involved + she forfeit the rights of our BTO flat to me (i rope my dad in to form a family cluster, let him live with me but everything i pay). |
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Re: Need real legal advise: do i need to pay my ex-wife maintance if we do not kids
TS, not sure how many people who came advice here has really gone thru the process or lawyer themselves, but here is one who have gone thru the process.....
you need not pay her monthly maintenance provided both parties agreed or you pay a one time lump sum from the sale of your property. dont fall into the trap of monthly $1 maintenance if she/lawyer ever offer. there is terms and condition |
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Re: Need real legal advise: do i need to pay my ex-wife maintance if we do not kids
yes this is the ultimate trap that they can suddenly exercise especially if one does good at a later stage in life...then they can wring their hands and count the riches...
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