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Old 22-10-2017, 07:28 PM
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Lost the fire and passion

Recently after my overseas trip, I sort of lost the fire and passion to do the fun things I used to do, like going for massage, chatting up ladies etc. Even at work I seem to procrastinate a lot more often.

Has it got anything to do with my age? Im 31 this year, still single...these are not symptoms of any kind of illnesses right??
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Recently after my overseas trip, I sort of lost the fire and passion to do the fun things I used to do, like going for massage, chatting up ladies etc. Even at work I seem to procrastinate a lot more often.

Has it got anything to do with my age? Im 31 this year, still single...these are not symptoms of any kind of illnesses right??

Exercise regularly and go for a couple of good fucks. All will be fine again
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Exercise regularly and go for a couple of good fucks. All will be fine again
Yeap, recently also re-started going to gym after like so many months, hopefully can see the effect though, thank you
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Re: Lost the fire and passion

Is the way u look n feel about live
Me too feel meaningless to pay for bonk anymore
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Has it got anything to do with my age? Im 31 this year, still single...these are not symptoms of any kind of illnesses right??
It could be a sign of depression. I went through a similar experience where the things I used to enjoy doing suddenly felt meaningless and futile.

I ignored the symptoms and just carried on with my life but a few months later insomnia set in.

I've always had absolutely no problems getting a good night's sleep so when I found myself lying awake at 3 am i knew something was seriously wrong.
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Re: Lost the fire and passion

TS,
Google waning testosterones. If it is, see your doc for for testosterone patches.
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Google waning testosterones. If it is, see your doc for for testosterone patches.
That's only one of the numerous causes. My testosterone levels are fine.
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Re: Lost the fire and passion

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Recently after my overseas trip, I sort of lost the fire and passion to do the fun things I used to do, like going for massage, chatting up ladies etc. Even at work I seem to procrastinate a lot more often.

Has it got anything to do with my age? Im 31 this year, still single...these are not symptoms of any kind of illnesses right??
Same like you. I suddenly lost interest in everything. Drinking, hanging flowers, ktv, all those who have met me know how insane i am when i head out to have fun. I never want to go home. However i think this has become something i am not keen of anymore. But i am certain it is not depression as BOSS stated because i experienced depression previously.
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Re: Lost the fire and passion

It maybe depression, I experienced the same thing and thought it wasn’t until I visit a physcologist friend which confirmed it. Lucky for me it very mild.
Possible causes could be many stuff but for me it kinda betrayal by business partner and becoz of it I compromised many of my principles which defined me. And that make me feel like I am no longer me anymore
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Re: Lost the fire and passion

This is called Mid-life Crises lah.
I bet everyone have it once in their life time.
I used to be happy all the time.
But right now, I kind of have a lot of mood swings.

https://www.today.com/health/8-warni...crisis-t116892
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Re: Lost the fire and passion

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Recently after my overseas trip, I sort of lost the fire and passion to do the fun things I used to do, like going for massage, chatting up ladies etc. Even at work I seem to procrastinate a lot more often.

Has it got anything to do with my age? Im 31 this year, still single...these are not symptoms of any kind of illnesses right??
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think u lose all your money to ktv girls & roadside wild chickens from china?
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Google waning testosterones. If it is, see your doc for for testosterone patches.
thank you, i googled it, luckily for me i dun have those symptoms, im motivated to go to the gym nowadays to cut down on the size of my tummy, cos my cousin is getting married two weeks later, and i am ready to impress her friends if any haha. anyway it has been a month since i re-visited gym regularly. thank you for the help.
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lol, well it could be for other people, but definitely not me, i never liked ktvs, went like 3 times before at least 8 years ago and really dun like it, secondly, i really dun like prc...haha so yeah...

but well i gotta admit i was stupid enough last time, to go drink and hang flower until heavily in debt, now under dcp to clear off them, so my monthly entertainment gotta stop anyway, but then again if not pain now, then when...
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This is called Mid-life Crises lah.
I bet everyone have it once in their life time.
I used to be happy all the time.
But right now, I kind of have a lot of mood swings.

https://www.today.com/health/8-warni...crisis-t116892
haha nice read, except for the spending more time and effort to change the appearance, the others dun apply to me, i hope this does not count as a mid life crisis though...
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It could be a sign of depression. I went through a similar experience where the things I used to enjoy doing suddenly felt meaningless and futile.

I ignored the symptoms and just carried on with my life but a few months later insomnia set in.

I've always had absolutely no problems getting a good night's sleep so when I found myself lying awake at 3 am i knew something was seriously wrong.
Boss, luckily the only time i am awake at 3am is either to watch soccer, or go to pee...or just back from home after a nite's out...i din lose interest in the things i enjoy except for like talking to girls, but now im back on OKC, with little replies as usual...haha
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