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Old 12-05-2017, 02:07 PM
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Re: Marriage issues revisited

Like some bros said. Try use Spanish Fly. See what reaction from her. Don't let her know. I tried before and damn she was so horny.

Just a suggestion.
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Old 12-05-2017, 10:22 PM
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Re: Marriage issues revisited

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Hi muscleboi, thanks for your contribution. Surprise sex, body massage, shower her with gifts, I've tried it all. I have fulfilled my role as husband be it emotionally or physically and have always respected her decisions. Her reason is she has lost interest in sex. I am lost.
Oh fuck. Sounds like you married a dead fish. Sorry to hear of your ordeal mate.

A lot of us rushed into marriage without having a clear discussion on family planning, sex life (kids destroy sexual happiness) & finance. The money part can wreck a marriage as well. Something's not right with her & only you can solve it. Find a good time to have an in-depth discussion and don't rush into having sex that night. Open up her heart & mind. Understand what she's going through from work to family issues, dreams, aspirations and why the sudden change in attitude. Trust me, when a women's sexual button is turned on, we cannot keep up.

But, if she's still beating around the bush then i suggest hiring a PI & hope for the best.
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Old 13-05-2017, 04:16 AM
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Re: Marriage issues revisited

I feel bad for you brother. I really don't understand why some ladies see sex as dirty or they sometimes feel shy about their sexuality. I've heard a friend told me she never asked sex from her husband because she is shy. That is the lamest thing I have heard from anyone really. But it is the reality. All I can think of is try to be romantic to her.. Give her flowers, shower her with sensual gifts, lingerie, perfume, anything to make her feel sexy. Watch porn with her. Don't ask her for sex just watch sex on tv anyway she doesn't want to do it with you so you'd rather watch it with her. Try to turn her on by cuddling, make her feel very comfortable. Compliment her looks and make it very natural.

If that doesn't work, tie her up while asleep and fuck her until she enjoy it. If she cry rape, then sorry you need to get a divorce. Lol.

That's all I can think of. Good luck.
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Old 15-05-2017, 05:05 PM
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Thread starter..
Just do it. Don't ask at all.
Go for a nice dinner. Send her flowers. Nice necklace or watch.
Hold hands. Stroll.
Home.. massage.. drinks and all.
Make sure she is almost tipsy and much more than she can drink if she's so upright.
Make your moves. Don't ask.
Passionately.
Consider it done.
Wake up next morning, remember to kiss her on her forehead and smile.
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Old 17-05-2017, 10:23 AM
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Ho bro, sorry to hear about your problem.. regarding your wife, you mentioned that the sex was great every single time...why the sudden change? I have only heard of a women's sex drive changed only after having kids...if she's​ not busy with work, take it as a warning sign..

Not to pour cold water but she might be eating out, a women sudden change of sex drive is quite strange, does she behave any differently​ other than the low sex drive?

My ex wife used to like having sex, suddenly died down and keep refusing sex, end up caught her having a year long affair outside..that was even before we moved into our new house...
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Re: Marriage issues revisited

I been through same thing....used to say i not driven enough for sex....then one fine day say no point doing for sake of doing....i remained faithful as in my whole time in the marriage and was celibate after her refusal for 3 years until one fine day I said ...heck care....and started bonking around.....in a way that is prob a signal that its the end.
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Re: Marriage issues revisited

damn it.

married also have issues. find a fb, wl, fl also got issues

sometimes life is just a big mess of issues.
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Re: Marriage issues revisited

end of the day
marry only if u want kids
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Re: Marriage issues revisited

We are married for 7 years and encountered same issues with our sex life before i decided to do something out of the box. We decided to speak to complete strangers on internet by chatting on chat forums together and keeping our identity secret but when we started right on the very first time the conversation went so far that we resorted by sharing skypie with a complete stranger and in few moment we were on video chat. In few momemts of video vhat the guy wasted no time and and took his clothes off and this was the point i saw her getting completely aroused. The stranger wanted us to do the same and reluctantly took her clothes off and i fucked in front of him on webcam. This always turns us on and now we are planning to go on vacation and try a male escort
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Re: Marriage issues revisited

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damn it.

married also have issues. find a fb, wl, fl also got issues

sometimes life is just a big mess of issues.
man, woman, chicken, duck all have issues ... big or small
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Re: Marriage issues revisited

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We are married for 7 years and encountered same issues with our sex life before i decided to do something out of the box. We decided to speak to complete strangers on internet by chatting on chat forums together and keeping our identity secret but when we started right on the very first time the conversation went so far that we resorted by sharing skypie with a complete stranger and in few moment we were on video chat. In few momemts of video vhat the guy wasted no time and and took his clothes off and this was the point i saw her getting completely aroused. The stranger wanted us to do the same and reluctantly took her clothes off and i fucked in front of him on webcam. This always turns us on and now we are planning to go on vacation and try a male escort
hi couple maybe you can try mmf or mff, or with just a watcher in same room, or other kinky staff
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Re: Marriage issues revisited

Money is also an issue

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damn it.

married also have issues. find a fb, wl, fl also got issues

sometimes life is just a big mess of issues.
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Re: Marriage issues revisited

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man, woman, chicken, duck all have issues ... big or small
yeah that's why in my 40s take it easy liao

what come comes, what goes goes

Don't take life so seriously

If you are jilted, run into the arms of another. You might not love them, they don't you. But heck it sure beats suffering alone

Life is a game, play to win. We might not be proud of all we do, but we sure will go out with no regrets.
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