Re: Masturbation
[QUOTE=Nanali;16034862]Disclaimer: I'm not saying that I'm a pro at this however, you voicing out your concern make me feel that I should share some thoughts with you.
First of all, masturbation is addictive that i believe most people will agree here. However, there's no prove that its good or bad. It differs for everybody.
Ask yourself a few questions, (you don't have to say it out) do you always masturbate with your dominant hand? Masturbate while watching porn? Masturbate only in the same position?
If the answer is yes to majority/all, probably you should try changing the HABITS you have. Why did i caps the habits? Because you have found the best way to please yourself at a certain angle and position. **which nobody else knows and have the same grib/touch/methods you usually do.** Hence, you don't feel the same when you're having a fj (capped especially)
What you can do if this is what you're facing, break that habit of yours. try it slow and light with your other hand, and i agree that you should stop masturbating while watching porn. Don't keep doing the same things, just keep varying your way of masturbating. That may/may not help to break away from your habut. Of course!! Don't pressure yourself too much because psychologically it too can affect your performance in wanting to end the session while doing a fj.
P. S i can go on and on and on. But i shall not. Habits can be broken. It takes time and discipline. Why do i say that? Guess I've been through what you're going through as well. Hopefully the above helps. There are ways to solve this so don't worry too much.. Worrying causes psychological effect on yourself. You're not alone.[/QUOTE
This is very well written and makes a lot of sense.
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