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Old 21-01-2024, 01:07 AM
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Re: Those with Fuck Buddies, Little 3s 小三, Friends with benefits fall in....

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If you have to ask this question, you have a trust issue.

When in a serious relationship, a woman's behavior changes. She makes sure all her friends know you, her family too. I don't have to ask where she is, she will tell me herself.

Every call is a video call, and she will call first, not me. If I do not pick up, she will ask me where I am, and why I couldn't answer.

In other words, like a normal relationship.
I agree. there are signs to loyalty and honesty and signs to cheating

This new year eve, one of the girls I was seeing was elusive at 11.45pm when I was trying to talk to her on the phone. And then only called me back at 1.30am and between she switched off the phone. Between that she was with another man, doing the countdown.

When I met her to discuss the issue on the 2th, she brushed me off, and so I left it there. I found out later she was meeting the other man, later in the evening so she was trying to get rid of me.

Now she wants to patch back, I am telling her to take a hike. But I made sure she gave me some, and then I told her, we are not patching back. I just wanted to make sure I was the one ditching her.

I added to the list, because one of the little 3 was a ex FL/WL. Just sharing.

To those bros, that have managed to make things work, you are truly the rare few

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okay, this is quite a comprehensive list. but there is much truth

With regards to one of the OT girl I dated, that was the longest fling.

- Weird character / rude ( I called them damaged, normally with little education, PSLE maybe? Might even have failed that, always bad tempered, breaks up over nothing)
- airport (Was a A, when I met her, sometimes she is a small B)
- money face- yes, selfish and was always just in for her, never us. There is no concept of us when you date a sex worker. There's only them/her.
- gambler - yes, lose all, sell her body for more money, gamble again.
- clubbing - Yes and no. She used to go to clubs and flirt, get drunk with men.
- big spender - yes, lots of branded stuff and demands men to get her branded too.

So yes, to add
- Flirt, can never be faithful. It could be because the guys is slick in the casino, or disco, or anywhere she meets, is sweet talking, tells her what she wants to hear. Like I said, not much in the intelligence region, Doesn't take alot to get her take off her knickers
- Cunning
- Perpetual Liar
- Serial Cheater(if you get involved with them)
- Drug addict(k, 5, e, cough mixture)
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Old 21-01-2024, 09:38 AM
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Re: Those with Fuck Buddies, Little 3s 小三, Friends with benefits fall in....

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I agree. there are signs to loyalty and honesty and signs to cheating

This new year eve, one of the girls I was seeing was elusive at 11.45pm when I was trying to talk to her on the phone. And then only called me back at 1.30am and between she switched off the phone. Between that she was with another man, doing the countdown.

When I met her to discuss the issue on the 2th, she brushed me off, and so I left it there. I found out later she was meeting the other man, later in the evening so she was trying to get rid of me.

Now she wants to patch back, I am telling her to take a hike. But I made sure she gave me some, and then I told her, we are not patching back. I just wanted to make sure I was the one ditching her.

I added to the list, because one of the little 3 was a ex FL/WL. Just sharing.

To those bros, that have managed to make things work, you are truly the rare few
My ex wife displayed all the classic signs of cheating. It took me a number of years to say enough is enough. Thinking back, I regret how many chances I gave her, before I got the message. I should have walked away at the first instance, a cheater is always a cheater.

We did have 15 years together, most of them happy ones. So, I hold this view now that happiness is temporary (and sadness, too)

It takes two hands to clap, and only one party to walk away (or cheat), for a relationship to break down.

Right now, I consider myself lucky.

You stay strong too, bro - be a better version of yourself for the next deserving girl that comes along.
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Old 25-01-2024, 08:46 PM
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Re: Those with Fuck Buddies, Little 3s 小三, Friends with benefits fall in....

Want to ask bros, how you all manage FB or xiao san in same country when you guys got wife?

Last time I used to travel for work, so can manage having multiple gfs in different countries.. But now stuck in SG, struggling to jiak outside since schedule too predictable already.
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Re: Those with Fuck Buddies, Little 3s 小三, Friends with benefits fall in....

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Want to ask bros, how you all manage FB or xiao san in same country when you guys got wife?

Last time I used to travel for work, so can manage having multiple gfs in different countries.. But now stuck in SG, struggling to jiak outside since schedule too predictable already.
Very good question bro... but l believe the old chinese saying holds some truth: 远嫖近赌, or "fuck around far away, gamble near your home"
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Old 04-02-2024, 05:34 PM
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Re: Those with Fuck Buddies, Little 3s 小三, Friends with benefits fall in....

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If you have to ask this question, you have a trust issue.

When in a serious relationship, a woman's behavior changes. She makes sure all her friends know you, her family too. I don't have to ask where she is, she will tell me herself.

Every call is a video call, and she will call first, not me. If I do not pick up, she will ask me where I am, and why I couldn't answer.

In other words, like a normal relationship.
Bro, that's where you are wrong. So wrong...
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Bro, that's where you are wrong. So wrong...

To each his own.

I wish you the best in finding your happiness, I have found mine.
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Old 07-02-2024, 08:02 AM
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Re: Those with Fuck Buddies, Little 3s 小三, Friends with benefits fall in....

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My ex wife displayed all the classic signs of cheating. It took me a number of years to say enough is enough. Thinking back, I regret how many chances I gave her, before I got the message. I should have walked away at the first instance, a cheater is always a cheater.

We did have 15 years together, most of them happy ones. So, I hold this view now that happiness is temporary (and sadness, too)

It takes two hands to clap, and only one party to walk away (or cheat), for a relationship to break down.

Right now, I consider myself lucky.

You stay strong too, bro - be a better version of yourself for the next deserving girl that comes along.
Reading this makes me feel so sad about the problems of marriage n relationships in general
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Re: Those with Fuck Buddies, Little 3s 小三, Friends with benefits fall in....

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If you have to ask this question, you have a trust issue.

When in a serious relationship, a woman's behavior changes. She makes sure all her friends know you, her family too. I don't have to ask where she is, she will tell me herself.

Every call is a video call, and she will call first, not me. If I do not pick up, she will ask me where I am, and why I couldn't answer.

In other words, like a normal relationship.
Agree with bro Penguin23...a woman does that when she is truly in love with you..n vice versa, the party that loves will constantly seek or think of the other in his or her heart
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Re: Those with Fuck Buddies, Little 3s 小三, Friends with benefits fall in....

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I start sharing, currently I have a gf/fb/小三 whatever you call it.

it has been a long long process of crazy sex, lots of problems, to now less problems but almost no sex.

If there is sex, its lousy anyway. Watching the hotel TV, don't even BJ.

Does anyone still get hot and heavy with their fbs after years of being together?

Let me frame my case which started 6 years back

My "gf" is ex FL

These are the issues I faced when I first started with her

1. She lies about her past or tells you half diluted truth. Even if its true, you wonder if she is lying
2. You worry about embarassement. She has worked for 2 years, wearing LV, prada, branded, goes to casino, how many cocks has she fucked, handjob, sucked, how many people have screwed her, sucked her, seen her nude etc...
- This happens when you start to have feelings for her. You worry that the coffeeshop old uncle, or the young army punk has fucked her.
3. You think its great sex, connection, GFE(sounds familiar brothers???) but then again, she has had alot of practice, daily practice on many guys, all races, colours, sizes, age. If you are married, I was, you think its better sex than with your wife. Yes it is, because your wife doesnt fuck men daily for breakfast, lunch, dinner, supper
4. Character- often they lie, and have character issues. Smoke, drink, take drugs, flirt, gamble. Bad tempered. Many times single mother, was knocked up by some ah beng who ran off. Has tattoos. Might have worked at the so called Fei Ji Chang, doing handjobs first, or hostress or escort, being Bao by married men or rich men- or all these before they end up being a full fledged WL/FL
5. Doing raw, how many of you do with protection with your gf or wife? If your gf is a ex FL, do with condom all the time, no matter what she says. I didnt get any stds or hivs, but I believe there was a bout of jock itch, that was thanks to her. I had to get a cream from mustapha $5-6 to sort out the damp and itchy stuff. Dragged her to the doctor again and again, to blood test, and found she had an yeast infection.
6. You dont become a FL because you are forced. At least not if she is singaporean. Forced because she has debts(loanshark, gambling) etc...is liken to the 3 ladies being forced to have oral and sex with SCDF chief- BS. The ex husband came out to say his ex gf is decent, dont wear make up- Cmon, total bullocks. Its a choice- a greed for money by selling her body, its the easy way. But look at her character, she is willing to open her leg for money instead of work a decent job. It should tell you her value system.
But the flip side, if you screwing a FL, we aint not saints either.
7. Sex you have great sex with her, you worry if she has had better, bigger and screamed louder. You want to know, but it hurts you to ask.

Fast forward, towards the end, the sex becomes, like all relationships, same, boring. And you ask yourself why the fuck did you fall in love with someone from that world. And you ask yourself what you had lost, given up, and sacrificed- was it worth it?

Sex is sex, love is love. You want GFE, you can pay for it and get it anywhere. The guys she fucked got what you got too, passion, GFE, etc...might have even got more. Because if she is your gf, she can say she is tired, dont want to swallow, condoms make her painful, so when you fuck her you need to pull up and not shoot in etc...And you have to do more, you think you getting free fuck? You pay with handphone bills, buying her stuff, paying for her food, driving her around...and if you are married, pay with your marriage- when your wife finds out you fucked a WL.

My advice, never "fall" in love with a WL, FL, fall in lust- okay. Screw the hell out of her, keep your wallet tight, and dont ever give up on anything.

All relationships are selfish, you want something, so does she. She wouldnt be thinking whether its too much to do this or that, so dont come down hard on yourself to treat her as a FL.

Never fall in love with a FL, WL, ex or not
True that. That's why I'm single. I pay to have "companion" and all the sex and kinky stuff. When I feel bored? Just ditch the bitch and find a new one. I don't owe her anything. I agree on the price and pay. Some people say but the feeling is different since you paid. I say so what? So what if the GFE is "fake"? For all you know even some wife treating their husband also fake coz she busy banging other guys when hubby not around. Same-same.
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True that. That's why I'm single. I pay to have "companion" and all the sex and kinky stuff. When I feel bored? Just ditch the bitch and find a new one. I don't owe her anything. I agree on the price and pay. Some people say but the feeling is different since you paid. I say so what? So what if the GFE is "fake"? For all you know even some wife treating their husband also fake coz she busy banging other guys when hubby not around. Same-same.
agreed brother. this is probably the strategy that makes the most common sense doesn't it?

life is too short to suffer. Just go with the wind, and be happy.
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