Married Couple having Sex with Others

3pswingcpl · #1 10-04-2011, 10:30 AM

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Gunner999 · #2 10-04-2011, 10:53 AM

Ours being a conservative society, i doubt it would be positive response. I dont think many husbands/wives can accept their partners having sex with others.

3pswingcpl · #3 03-09-2012, 10:42 AM

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acidicavex · #4 03-09-2012, 11:10 AM

Enhancement of anything btw the cpl hmm maybe yes maybe no. It all depend on both husband and wife what is their take of this swinging lifestyle. Let say when you finally have a family to settle in and wife decided to stop will it kill you bedroom fun being in "mono" again?

Can't say much about it coz I never personally got into swinging althought I did suggest to gf currently wife I wish to experience MFF. Than the wife than gf say like that she also want to experience MMF which I agree but it became a Shitty topic during fight that I would let other men fuck her and touch and I don't love her enough

. During a free and easy holiday with another cpl my friend suggested a room to cut cost..... My friend and her gf is rather liberal and open style. Showing open affection and touchy. Once we split to shop for our own stuff. When we got back to our room my was getting a bj from his gf.... My gf now wife rush out and down to lobby and got another room.......

(o)(o) Tuner · #5 03-09-2012, 11:28 AM

Afterall, we're asians, oriental people. It's highly unlikely your partner will agree to share his/her love one with someone. However, there is still a chance for me only if my wife has gone totally insane. Otherwise fat hopes.

acidicavex · #6 03-09-2012, 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by (o)(o) Tuner

Afterall, we're asians, oriental people. It's highly unlikely your partner will agree to share his/her love one with someone. However, there is still a chance for me only if my wife has gone totally insane. Otherwise fat hopes.

Ya sama sama here what mention is yes there are cpl out there but u compare to the ratio of married cpl in sg it is a very very unnoticeable faction....... Which is why it is discreet. You could be dinning and for all you know the cpl next table are swingers.... We are after all asian and our society still consider it not a norm. We can't pin-point saying due to our ethical groups as it is even happen on china. But more on the social acceptance in our society.

shiokpleasure · #7 03-09-2012, 12:33 PM

any couple needs another male to do MMF? I'm available.

Jumpstack · #8 03-09-2012, 12:43 PM

We have not reached that stage yet..ours is still a very conservative society..maybe in 10 uears times? When our Asian values start to diminish and when our children start to have more open-minded views about sex..maybe then we will have society which is very liberal about sex..maybe by then the Media would be organizing public mass orgies instead of ur usual public marathons!

3pswingcpl · #9 11-09-2012, 07:22 AM

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naturegreen · #10 11-09-2012, 07:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Gunner999

Ours being a conservative society, i doubt it would be positive response. I dont think many husbands/wives can accept their partners having sex with others.

Agree with not many husbands/wives can accept this but there is a growing trend who are beginning to accept this.

TheHustler · #11 11-09-2012, 08:56 AM

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Agree with not many husbands/wives can accept this but there is a growing trend who are beginning to accept this.

Not all are real married couples. Years ago when I was into swinging.... my FB pretended to be my wife whenever we attend these swing sessions.

3pswingcpl · #12 11-09-2012, 02:48 PM

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TheHustler · #13 11-09-2012, 10:36 PM

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Originally Posted by 3pswingcpl

Bro swinging with wife and FB have different feels as per my experiences.

When wife is concerns, you can the jealousy and excitement that built-in that makes us very HARD and HORNY unlike FB and lover in the game when we meet someone to swing.

And as a married couple, mutual trust and understanding of each others can be enhanced and we dun need to eat outside alone in the future.

That is base on my personal view and feeling ONLY.

At that time I did not have a wife ..... only a FB.

But we were curious about the swinging scene so both of us had no hangups about participating in a few sessions.

aRco · #14 12-09-2012, 04:09 AM

i doubt much ppl in this society could accept this kinda fun
and i dont think i would be ever able to share someone i love with others

skinny191096 · #15 12-09-2012, 09:04 AM

I tried it once with those FL infront of my wife.
It was a unforgettable experience. Book for a couple massage with Red Tantra.

I was going to book a guy therapist for her. However, she insisted on a lady.
Not sure what is the true reason, my wife used to be a lesbian (the "guy" in the rs)

Anyway, my wife got a Malay lady therapist therapist, while I got a Chinese lady therapist.
I was hoping for both lady to be Chinese (I am not a racist pls....), but from the communication I had with the staff, only Malay gals were willingly to massage another lady.

That Malay therapist was good, able to finger my wife till she came.
However, my Chinese therapist only gave me pain, she put her finger up my asshole, it was so called prostate massage, I didn't enjoy one bit. Pain.

In the nutshell, I suggested to my Chinese therapist that I wanted to have sex (damage $200), she was quite surprised that my wife was ok with it. I asked the Malay therapist to join in as well.
In the end, I fucked both the therapists while my wife watched. It was a very tiring experience.

Will be planning for another one in Dec, with another 2 FLs, with the experience gathered I will know what to do.
The 2 FLs will be making my wife come first, while I am watching.....