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Re: How to marry a Geylang WL
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it not easy to have best of both world. but it is stupid to have the worst of both world. extermely stupid. 2 wrongs does not make one right. we have enough non-talent foreign talent is bad enough. by start allowing whores into our land as resident is not making things better. because you are thinking "a ex-WL". TS is only a single case. in real life, it is "many ex-WLs". there is no perfect way. there is a right and wrong way. starting with a whore as resident is certainly wrong |
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sincerely wish the best for you. only advice is try to think of alternative as her chance of entering singapore is very slim. only 1 experience to share. i have a friend in my ex-company married to a ex-FL. she was been caught. in the end, she manage to enter singapore again and married my friend. but after serveral years and having 1 child, her PR satus is still not granted. good thing is, they are still living peacefully. other then that, we didn't go and ask for more details as it is not too polite. |
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Hi Black_Hawk_Up,every1 has every rite 2 do wat he 1s 2 do. It's his life,not yrs.
wat could be wrong 2 u,might not be the case 2 others. wat u think might turn bad,might not end up bad 2 him. We k share our views here,but it's his life & his choice. Don't be so ignorant la ..... Althought marriage doesn't realli involves 2 pax,but it would 2 of them living & depending on 1 another 1s they tied the knot. Their family members kannot always be there 4 them. there r also alot of challenges & problems even if the other half is a local. R u implying tat being with a local partners doesn't hv the challenges & problems ? it's so easy 4 u as well 2 write yr views & post it here as well. but u r not the 1 facing tis problem. It is also veri stupid 2 assume wat u think & write is always rite. I do agree with u tat there r alot of non-talent foreign talent on tis small red ot, but who allowed they in ? did they do wrong by letting them in ? some of these WL could be much better than some talents ..... |
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just remember another story. i have a friend who married his friend's mistress. currently staying in the origin country of his wife as it hard for them to survive back home. the last time i know, he asked his mum to rent out her flat and send money to him when he lost his "income" there.
of course, people are saying all sort of nasty things behind his back. they have a child together. he will be having hard time explaining to his child about the whole issue. friends will be calling the child all sort of nasty names as one can imagine. that will have a huge impact on the future of the child just somethings that you might have to mentally prepared if you decide to go ahead with the plan. it never just between 2 persons although that is difficult enough on it own right. |
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Hi Black_Hawk_Up,every1 has every rite 2 do wat he 1s 2 do. It's his life,not yrs.
wat could be wrong 2 u,might not be the case 2 others. wat u think might turn bad,might not end up bad 2 him. We k share our views here,but it's his life & his choice. you are speaking in relative term and i am speaking in facts. that the main different. Don't be so ignorant la ..... Althought marriage doesn't realli involves 2 pax,but it would 2 of them living & depending on 1 another 1s they tied the knot. Their family members kannot always be there 4 them. as again, marriage is never about 2 persons. i stand-by my view. you don't just get married and suddenly your family disappear. they are still there and we still need each others support and blessing. there r also alot of challenges & problems even if the other half is a local. R u implying tat being with a local partners doesn't hv the challenges & problems ? both mode will have it problems. in addition to challenge face by all couples, having a non-local mate will have alot more additional problems to due with. and it not easy. for example, a both local-couple will not have to deal with ICA like TS which will be a major problem. that just one with require years of effort to solve. get the point? it's so easy 4 u as well 2 write yr views & post it here as well. but u r not the 1 facing tis problem. It is also veri stupid 2 assume wat u think & write is always rite. what i write is not about being right or wrong. it about fact of life they will be facing. i never care about right or wrong. i not a holy man. i am a practical peson. I do agree with u tat there r alot of non-talent foreign talent on tis small red ot, but who allowed they in ? did they do wrong by letting them in ? some of these WL could be much better than some talents we need them. period. no one is in the wrong by letting them in. goverment can only come out with a reasonable practical method of filtering foreigner. it not perfect, but it the right way. by upfront knowingly allowing whores into the country as resident? come on, get real |
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i hv friends tat married foreigners,some r happily 2gether 4 more than 10 yrs while some r off within a few yrs.
i also hv a friend tat was happily married(initially) 2 his sweet heart of more than 10 yrs. They were 2gether since sec skool. Last month something happened, & they r nw in the process of going thru a divorce. He caught his sec skool sweet heart of having an affair with his colleague. The abv r not stories,but real life situations. Of course, ppl r free 2 say anything behind yr back. the mouth is theirs,they hv every rite 2 say wat they 1 2 said provided it doesn't break the law. It's Your Life, You Decide. |
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i hv friends tat married foreigners,some r happily 2gether 4 more than 10 yrs while some r off within a few yrs.
i have many friends happily married to foreigners and me including but we are talking about foreigner whore here although i can tell you don't see the different. i also hv a friend tat was happily married(initially) 2 his sweet heart of more than 10 yrs.... divorce... that normal. why mention it? The abv r not stories,but real life situations. Of course, ppl r free 2 say anything behind yr back. the mouth is theirs,they hv every rite 2 say wat they 1 2 said provided it doesn't break the law. It's Your Life, You Decide it you don't mind it doesn't matter mindset huh that is only true as long as situation allow.when is start affecting your life, well... |
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Black_Hawk_Up: U have your own views and feel free to express them here,but please dont say people damn stupid la.Everyone got to make some choices in life,and whatever decision they make,its their own fruits they sowed be it tragic of bliss.
Sometimes really funny,people just ask can this person do this,or do that,then some know-all-genius will come in and tell him blah blah blah about life's teachings and ways.come on la,offtopic lei! |
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it not for TS. as mention, i don't think anyone can talk him out of it. just wish things turn out well for him. it more for those who have not step into it yet. hopefully reading such discussion will prevent them from putting oneself in this situation. sorry, talk a bit too much on this as i have similar situation in the past. although not to a WL. |
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Hi Black_Hawk_Up,although they r whores,they r still human beings.
Neither did they rob nor did they steal fr u. Or did they offend u in some other way ? I k see tat u hv something against these human beings. Wat diff r these fr the other foreigners ? Jz becos they were once WLs doesn't imply tat they r lower then u in the human circle. @ least ts knws wat the WL has been doing b4 they get married. Alot of men doesn't knw wat their wives/gf has been realli doing behind their backs. Jz becos of a few bad eggs doesn't imply tat the whole basket r bad eggs. Alot of sg ppl thinks & believe tat they r veri high class. In actual fact they r a pathetic & naive lot,including myself. Jz becos u think it's normal, u think it need not be mentioned !! Yr advise 2 TS might be wrong or rite,the same goes 2 the advices fr others(including mine). Tis is an open forum,every1 k voice their opinion but do not assume tat u r the smartest while the others r stupid. @ the end it's still TS's choices & he would hv 2 face the consequnences, not u & me. Wat u hv now might not be there @ the end of the day. |
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Just don't understand why bros chose to marry WL, FL. Singapore girl isn't better? Crazy
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1.)I consider it to be a foolish, short-sighted decision. First off, I find the idea that you are meant to spend the rest of your life with one woman completely ridiculous.
2.)Why should I have to go through a bunch of legal bull5hit to get PR for her just because I want to end a relationship/marriage? Wouldn't it be easier to just live together w/o marriage for at least 3 years first in case things don't work out? 3.)It's an institution that totally favors the woman...not only do they get to whip you, they get half of your money if it ends in divorce (3 years in separation). And let's face it, bros, marriage is the ultimate form of being pu55y-whipped. If you think otherwise, you've been brainwashed by your significant other, your family, or society in general. 5.) I am strongly opposed to organized religion, and what is a marriage? It's holy matrimony. |
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from above, actually everyone make the same mistake/action they advice others against isn't it (roll eyes)
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my ex regular said, 3 years than can come back to singapore as tourist
dunno true a not |
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A PRC KTV gal asked me to ROM with her in Singapore so that she can work in KTV on long term social visit pass
then later she want me to apply SPR for her. As her husband, I only get to sleep & mate with her only
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