Below forum post dated 30-11-2012. So looks like every Nov you will most likely to be in New York.
Fully agreed with bro that no point to feel dejected and there always many thousands of pretty syts waiting for you.
TH lost and others gain including bro WB.
Enjoy yourself in Gotham City.
Cheers.
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Originally Posted by warbird
I'm back in Gotham City.
I now believe any man, regardless of his prior experience n success w/ women, can still lose his composure n his confidence when he is strongly attracted to an exceptionally attractive woman/girl. He will behave differently n act like a pathetic 'nice guy.'
I hv alluded to TH as my 'best find' in recent yrs. When I bumped into her outside the lift on 5th fl at TAM complex almost 3 months ago, I was stunned by her attractiveness n youthfulness. More attractive than my lao po n EN, or so I thought at the time. She had a near perfect figure n I momentarily lost my confidence...n actually believed she was out of my league n would never let me ST or BY her. Yes, I forgot all my lessons n violated my own principles. I became timid n hesitant n never got sexual w/ her that night.
I went home feeling dejected. Fortunately, I quickly bounced back, changed my mindset n regained my self mastery over the next 24 hrs...to make a long story short, I fxked her the 2nd time we met! It was a wonderful experience. And since then I hv been fxking her whenever I want to haha.
The secret? A man is very attractive because he is very confident. PERIOD.
I last met TH 2 days before going overseas. Unfortunately, she is now much less attractive as she has put on about 3 kg since we 1st met. And I thought she was too good for me just 3 months ago?!!
To be attractive to a chio SYT, a man must play hard to get. But not so hard as to be out of reach n push her too far away. Additionally, he must like her a bit less than she likes him. Never upset that delicate balance n she will be his forever. If at anytime he begins to like /love her much more than she likes/loves him, he will lose her, eventually. It's ineluctable.
I recently made connection w/ a very pretty n cute Teochew-speaking gal SY in PRC. She is 18 n has never been BY-ed n we have yet to discuss the terms, but I'm certain she will come to SG to be my mistress. After her initial resistance, I hv turned the table n she is chasing me...
SY has not slept well for the last 2 months cuz her 26 yo BF broke off w/ her recently n is going to marry another gal. She has been sending text n voice msg to me around the clock! This young man is her 1st n only BF ever. She fell in love w/ him a yr ago when he n his fren came to her rescue when she was harassed by a group of boys. BTW, she has never experienced orgasm w/ her BF. I believe she is very lucky as I'll give her pleasure beyond her widest dreams haha.
Another lesson for me: Emotional addiction is stronger than sexual addiction.
Enjoy reading this old forum from a so called newbie.
The way he wrote more like old bird in the old trade.
Nice to read all these old forums guiding us.
Once my mentor said and I quote
"son, you don't need to be brilliant in doing any trade, just know how to follow the successful billionaires to do similar trades"
Cheers.
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Originally Posted by newbieboy
as my nick suggests, I'm a newbie, but your following passage holds very true:
"To be attractive to a chio SYT, a man must play hard to get. But not so hard as to be out of reach n push her too far away. Additionally, he must like her a bit less than she likes him. Never upset that delicate balance n she will be his forever. If at anytime he begins to like /love her much more than she likes/loves him, he will lose her, eventually. It's ineluctable."
Then again I will venture to raise the validity of above statement to all women you're attracted to, since I prefer MILFs to SYTs
A few constants in every relationship: know your weaknesses, play to your strengths. Understand the counterparty. Most importantly, make them laugh, keep them happy, they will soon realize what's more important than money. Of course I say this because all of them have other people pumping petrol. My advantages are the following:
1) because of my youth I play the character of a poor, young upstart which is believable and acceptable to them. I'm not rich but I'm better off than they realize
2) I drop subtle hints of my glorious track record (which feeds itself as the experiences grow). This works the same way women are attracted to married men: endorsement.
3) I speak to them evenly, never jumping to generalizations and sweeping statements, which accommodate their dignity and self respect issues
4) I don't force them to spend time with me by way of cash. In my experience this is by far the worst thing to do.
5) I am not alpha, and am in no hurry to add to the pool. 随遇而安. Women hate nonchalance.
Of course every strength can turn into a weakness, it all depends on what the woman in question is looking for and prefers. The most important thing is to learn to switch my modes when facing different profiles. Some people say this is not being true to yourself, but 1) I have done worse things to get a pussy 2) we have different sides to ourselves.
My hit rate is not high and I'm still learning. But I have been told many occasions that I'd make a good gigolo, which I take as a compliment. Maybe time for career switch!
I believe my dictum on RS balance applies to women of all ages and regardless of whether you hv known her for 30 minutes or 30 yrs hahaha.
Yes, you could be a very good gigolo. But you're far too good n far too superior to be one.
You will be a high status dominant male in a few yrs...
Cheers!
Work is never fun, unless you're your own boss.
Not just KTV gals, any chio gals/women of my type r interesting to me hahaha.
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Good morning!
I come across something abt masculine confidence which I like to share.
You know how you really like it when women act all girlish
and feminine?
Well, it turns out that they feel the same way about YOU
being manly and masculine.
Here are a few of things that you should be doing to trigger
her sexually feminine emotions by displaying MASCULINE
CONFIDENCE:
1. Be direct and unapologetic for your desires. Don’t be
afraid to talk about them or tell her what you want… and
don’t be afraid or tentative about acting on them.
2. Take pleasure from looking at her body without shame or
embarrassment. Don’t look away or pretend you are not
looking at her. Drink her in.
3. Touch her the same way. Put your hands on her with the
same confidence that you would handle an instrument or
tool that you are very skilled, familiar, and proficient
with. Let her feel how much you enjoy handling her.
I know I’ll take some flack for this from feminists that
think that I’m objectifying a woman by comparing her to a
tool, but the fact is, women love it when you handle them
with familiarity and comfort and easy confidence…and they don’t like it when you touch them like you are afraid
of them, like they are mom’s fine crystal bowl.
4. Be 100% positive about HER sexuality and the things she
desires, the things she says, the things she does. You
should never be surprised or negative about anything
regarding her sexuality. That is a massive sign of
insecurity. The rule is “positive reinforcement only.” Let
her know immediately when she does things you like
sexually, and never mention the things that you don’t
like.
Over time, she will only do the things that you positively
reinforce.
5. Be 100% positive about YOUR OWN sexuality. Know
exactly what you are doing in the bedroom. Learn
enough about female sexual response that you can be
confident that you know exactly how to give her an
orgasm and be comfortable with doing it.
If you have any insecurities about your own performance
(problems getting hard or ejaculating too soon when you
are nervous), then deal with those issues in your life
immediately.
6. Never be needy. Never make a woman feel that your
sexual validation or ego is at stake in the bedroom.
Getting her to open up to you sexually should not be
something you NEED for you to feel good about yourself
and your sexuality.
If your ego is at stake… if you need her to agreement to
sex when you initiate to protect your “male ego”… not
only will she sense that emotion (and be put off by that
kind of pressure), but also, that kind of stress is bad for more than just your sex life. It’s bad for the relationship
itself.
Remember that your mood will affect her mood. Emotions
are contagious—and that goes double for women.
If you are tentative, shy, embarrassed, ashamed, or nervous
when it comes to sex and your ability to perform, she will feel those
same emotions about HER desires. If she was previously feeling
sexual towards you, you could actually rob her of that feeling and
make her begin to feel shame or embarrassment about herself.
And then, of course, she’ll shut off.
If, on the other hand, you are calm, confident, and assured
in your own sexuality, that emotion will also be contagious…
Not only will she be feeling attraction to you because of your
sexual confident manner, but also she will feel those emotions
about her own desires and her own body. She’ll feel open and
positive about her sexuality. And she’ll be excited to share it with
YOU.
Bro Newbieboy alluded to the topic of gigolo. All of us could adopt the positive strategies of a gigolo w/o the negatives.
The following interview w/ a successfully gigolo in Gotham is quite interesting:
Sexual Secrets of a Gigolo
Reporter XX
Jimmy (not his real name) is a professional paid “escort,” a Gigolo....
XX: Welcome Jimmy. Thank you for meeting with me.
Jimmy: It’s my pleasure.
XX: Jimmy, I don’t know how to ask this question tactfully. You use the term “gigolo.” Aren’t you really a male prostitute?
Jimmy: No. Not at all. And don’t worry -- I’m not offended. A prostitute is generally for sex only. Slam bam, you know. A gigolo is, I’m speaking for myself, someone who is very much concerned with giving his client pleasure. Sexual pleasure, yes—but also understanding her as a woman --- her wishes, her desires; what she likes and what she doesn’t.
Her agenda becomes my agenda. I think of myself as someone who represents the best in men in both character and sexual skill. I always conduct myself in a way so that I bring credit to myself and pleasure to my clients.
XX: What makes you good at what you do?
Jimmy: Well, that’s a good question. How much time have you got?
XX: Plenty. Go on –don’t worry.
Jimmy: I think the most important thing is that I am attentive. I pay attention to what the woman I’m with is saying as well as what her body language is saying. I think sometimes the body language is far more honest than the words...
XX: What else?
Jeremy: I compliment her often. I make her feel special. It’s always about her. Never about me. I’m not the kind of guy who struts around drawing the attention. I make sure she gets it.
XX: I don’t know, Jeremy. You look like a pretty spiffy guy.
Jimmy: I believe I should present myself well. I dress nicely – never in jeans, my nails are clean and manicured. I speak softly, but confidently. I’m always a gentlemen, although in the bedroom I am sometimes asked to be otherwise. (We’ll save that for another interview—editor)
XX: Do you have any special tricks you use?
Jimmy: Yes, but I don’t think of them as tricks. It’s more like technique. I spend a lot of time looking at her eyes, rather than her other features...
XX: Do you ever talk dirty too them?
Jimmy: Rarely. Never in conversation, but sometimes in bed, if asked.
XX: Okay Jeremy, since you brought it up, let’s talk about “in bed,” if you don’t mind. What’s your secret?
Jimmy: No secret, really. First, I try to get her to relax and feel real comfortable. I caress her and talk softly. I gently kiss and nibble on all her sensitive places. I ask her to be honest with me and tell me her sexual fantasies. I ask for her sexual wish list, so to speak, and nod approvingly at everything she says. I tell her how sexy she looks and how she really turns me on. You’d be surprised how often I hear that the men they know rarely do this.
I take my time—do everything verrry slowly. I get her to a high level of excitement… I use my tongue….my fingers. I make it unbearable. I urge her to surrender…to let go. I never let go myself until she reaches the absolute height of her sexual experience.
When we are finished I tell her what a great lover she is –the best.
XX: Whew! I’m exhausted. So at the days end you are satisfied with a job well done.
Jimmy: Yes. I think being a gigolo is an honorable profession. The rewards are many ---not just the money.
XX: Thanks Jeremy, for being so open with us. I think I’ve learned a few things.
Jimmy: Thank you, too. May I leave you a few of my cards?
Gigolo may be a tough word to swallow due to pride. I agree with you that gogolo/duck knew what women really addicted to. Women anguish or anxiety always lead to their weakness. Actually men too.
RVPO wilk keep woman satisfied and young.
Hope to continue reading.
Regards.
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Originally Posted by warbird
It behooves every man to learn the methods of the most successful gigolo. Such a man has profound understanding of what women really want.
I hv mentioned my interest n focus on how to get women addicted. I hv also suggested that emotional addiction is the most powerful of the 3 types of addiction...
Regardless of who you're, even if you're a world famous rock star or a billionaire player or a powerful political leader, you still need to get ur women addicted to u, emotionally, sexually n financially. Why? Otherwise, ur women may fxk other men n give u nasty STDs n HIV. In other words, ur very life depends on ur ability to get them addicted to YOU.
I also want to be very blunt here. It may not be enough to get women addicted only emotionally n sexually to u in a long term RS. If ur woman is extremely attractive n you're struggling to put food on the table, before long, she may leave u...sorry, she is only human.
A word abt emotional addiction. The secret is to make ur woman FEEL amazingly elated n euphoric in ur presence or, better yet, when thinking abt u in ur absence...and make sure she can't FEEL like that w/ anyone else, ever. No amt of money or power can make her feel so good hahaha...
Another recent revelation: Regular Penetrative Vaginal Orgasms (RPVO) r quite different from other types of orgasms: More satisfying, more oxytocin surges and essential for deep bonding n much more addictive. And expert sexologists could tell if a woman has had or has enjoyed RVPO from the way she walks. Using ur finger to give her G or deep spot orgasms r still NOT enuff. There is sound neuro-physiological basis for this. Sadly, only abt 30% of women experince RPVO.
Recently, my long term mistress XW told me that she found RVPO most satisfying, I was skeptical but decided to do some research into the subject. She was 100% correct.
Over a month ago, I made connection w/ a very cute/pretty Teochew-speaking SYT in China. She had just broke off w/ her BF cuz he was going to marry someone else. She had not slept well for over a month. She had never experienced orgasm (not even clitoral) before n yet she loved him. To cut a long story short, I managed to transfer her feelings to me, despite the fact that she was shocked when I told her my age. She now texts me on Wechat around the clock n I only reply occasionally. She confessed that she is in love w/ me. I ask her NOT to come to SG until next yr when she turns 18. BTW, I hv not spent a penny on her.
Wishing All bros a Merry Christmas and a Prosperous New Year!
Slightly different context.... has anyone managed to score with KTV mummy?
Quote:
Originally Posted by mevius
IMHO , Viet mummy is easy , normally around 1 weeks time , just need to go down support them often and buy bubble tea (koi) and sometimes Vietnam food will do ... china mummy is quite hard ....
Bro, thanks.
I never had a sexual rs w/ a KTV mummy. I once found a 24 yo 170cm assistant mummy at TAM joints to be quite attractive n she quickly agreed to be kept. She did hv a perky n big ass. But she needed to continue to work, she drank too much and had relatively small boobs. No consummation. That was in 2014. Don't know why some mummies and some kakis assumed that I had kept her. I never did.
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Originally Posted by nagasaki
Bro WB
Below forum post dated 30-11-2012. So looks like every Nov you will most likely to be in New York.
Fully agreed with bro that no point to feel dejected and there always many thousands of pretty syts waiting for you.
TH lost and others gain including bro WB.
Enjoy yourself in Gotham City.
Cheers.
Bro, tks.
Yeah, I'm in Gotham City now.
Feeling dejected? Why?
Would u feel dejected n frustrated if your little sister or little daughter says no to u or gets angry w/ you? Or tell u to get lost. Of course not! You would smile, laugh and tease her. That is how I treat all SYTs.
Quote:
Originally Posted by nagasaki
Enjoy reading this old forum from a so called newbie.
The way he wrote more like old bird in the old trade.
Nice to read all these old forums guiding us.
Once my mentor said and I quote
"son, you don't need to be brilliant in doing any trade, just know how to follow the successful billionaires to do similar trades"
Cheers.
Bro, tks.
This esteemed "newbie" is an experienced bro.
Quote:
Originally Posted by nagasaki
Sweet and sharp reply by Bro WB.
Also the guru forum very interesting to read.
Hope you guys enjoy.
Please don't scold me for quoting old forum.
Cheers.
Bro,
I like to thank u for quoting old posts. I need to remind myself constantly not to be complacent.
Quote:
Originally Posted by blackywater
True, no need to feel dejected.
Thanks bro WB for this awesome thread.
Have a good week ahead.
Bro, tks.
Feeling dejected is a very negative emotion. A girl can feel it and she will find you repulsive.
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Originally Posted by Whatoeat
No, won't scold you for quoting old post.
In fact, thank you for nice share.
Also thank bro WB for this awesome thread.
Have a good day.
Bro, thank you.
Quote:
Originally Posted by nouveauriche
Bro WB
Below forum makes a nice read.
Thanks for sharing nice thread.
Hope to continue reading.
Regards.
Bro, tks.
This gigolo is good. I hv used some of his methods, whenever it's appropriate. Every girl is different.
We need to be rough and dominant sometimes and soft n tender sometimes.
Do tell your girls you're really turned on by her beautiful body and pussy...
Quote:
Originally Posted by nouveauriche
Bro WB
I behove to be able to chase girls.
Really nice forum below to read and learn.
Gigolo may be a tough word to swallow due to pride. I agree with you that gogolo/duck knew what women really addicted to. Women anguish or anxiety always lead to their weakness. Actually men too.
RVPO wilk keep woman satisfied and young.
Hope to continue reading.
Regards.
Bro, tks.
PVO is most addictive to women. Try to last 15-30 min.
Give them emotional n sexual pleasure they hv never experienced w/ anyone else before.
The top students at high schools and even universities rarely become very rich or very successful in many areas in life.
For example, they rarely get THE prettiest girls/women of their type.
Why?
Because they are conformists who are brainwashed by conventional wisdom. They obey orders, like robots.
That is a recipe for mediocrity. It's so sad.
To be the best n to get the best in life, a MAN must be passionate and obsessed w/ his pursuit n endeavor. He is not afraid to challenge long-held conventional beliefs. He is innovative and creative. He is courageous, not foolhardy. He learns n works diligently. He loves rejections n failures. He leaves no stone unturned.
I used to be a conformist n a wuss, believing that an 'old color wolf' like me can never get the cutest n prettiest SYTs of my type unless I pay extra big bucks, many times more than those paid by young, tall and handsome men.
I also used to believe that the cutest SYTs are ONLY attracted to a man's youthfulness, looks, and Adonis body.
I couldn't be more wrong.
I didn't know that the majority of smart n high-quality girls are sapiosexual.
Read all my previous posts on my hypotheses and real-life experiences.
I like to reiterate my offer to bro Don Juan. I hv also extended the same offer to ALL samsters, male n female.
If a man doesn't truly believe he deserves the best, in his subconscious mind, he will never get the best.
When he believes he deserves the best, he attracts the best. He doesn't need to pursue.
BTW, LS is till w/ me in SG, she is my oldest at 22. KT is trying hard to get a visa to return to SG. And of course TY, who is the most intelligent and most hardworking girl I ever had. Sky is the limit for her.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Bro WB
Every article presented by you is very nice read and thought provoking. Need some time to digest and trying to apply them when occasions arise. Thank you and please keep writing.
Definitely women loves orgasm similar to men. Reason why we always see nice pretty women love their ugly masculine men so much.
Will read on to complete my thesis.
Cheers.
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Originally Posted by warbird
Good morning!
“The goddess was discovered by her gait.”
Virgil quotes (Ancient Roman Latin Poet and Author of the epic, Aeneid. 70 BC-19 BC)
Here is the abstract on the history of a woman's PVO n her gait, published in J Sex Med 2008;5:2119–2124:
A Woman’s History of Vaginal Orgasm is Discernible from
Her Walk
Aurelie Nicholas, MA,* Stuart Brody, PhD,† Pascal de Sutter, PhD,* and François de Carufel, PhD‡
*Université Catholique de Louvain, Institut d’études de la famille et de la sexualité, Louvain-la-Neuve, Belgium; †Division
of Psychology, School of Social Sciences, University of the West of Scotland, Paisley, UK; ‡Unité de sexologie
fonctionnelle, Hôpital Braine l’Alleud-Waterloo, Braine-l’Alleud, Belgium
DOI: 10.1111/j.1743-6109.2008.00942.x
A B S T R A C T
Introduction.
Research has demonstrated the association between vaginal orgasm and better mental health. Some
theories of psychotherapy assert a link between muscle blocks and disturbances of both character and sexual function.
In Functional–Sexological therapy, one focus of treatment is amelioration of voluntary movement. The present study
examines the association of general everyday body movement with history of vaginal orgasm.
Aim.
The objective was to determine if appropriately trained sexologists could infer women’s history of vaginal
orgasm from observing only their gait.
Methods.
Women with known histories of either vaginal orgasm or vaginal anorgasmia were videotaped walking on
the street, and their orgasmic status was judged by sexologists blind to their history.
Main Outcome Measure.
The concordance between having had orgasms triggered by penile–vaginal intercourse
(not orgasm from direct clitoral stimulation) and raters’ inferences of vaginal orgasm history based on observation
of the woman’s walk was the main outcome measure.
Results. In the sample of healthy young Belgian women (half of whom were vaginally orgasmic), history of vaginal
orgasm (triggered solely by penile–vaginal intercourse) was diagnosable at far better than chance level (81.25%
correct, Fisher’s Exact Test P < 0.05) by appropriately trained sexologists. Clitoral orgasm history was unrelated to
both ratings and to vaginal orgasm history. Exploratory analyses suggest that greater pelvic and vertebral rotation and
stride length might be characteristic of the gait of women who have experienced vaginal orgasm (r = 0.51, P < 0.05).
Conclusions.
The discerning observer may infer women’s experience of vaginal orgasm from a gait that comprises
fluidity, energy, sensuality, freedom, and absence of both flaccid and locked muscles. Results are discussed with regard
to previous research on gait, the effect of the musculature on sexual function, the special nature of vaginal orgasm,
and implications for sexual therapy. Nicholas A, Brody S, de Sutter P, and de Carufel F. A woman’s history of
vaginal orgasm is discernible from her walk. J Sex Med 2008;5:2119–2124.
KeyWords. Orgasm; Sexual Intercourse; Gait; Psychoanalytic Theory; Functional–Sexological Therapy; Movement
My reflections n personal observations on the subject:
The above scientific study has confirmed my own experiences. Here is another thing: A woman's gait may also change if she stops having regular PVO for as little as a month or so. It's subtle but certainly discernible haha. It pays to observe ur woman's gait very carefully.
I always walk BEHIND my mistresses n see how they swing their hips. I tell them I love their perky n bouncy butt haha. My 25 yo lao po XW is very orgasmic n experiences PVO almost very time. She would leave black n blue marks on my back n upper arms. Her gait is much more fluid, energetic n sensual n w/ wider swing in her hips compared w/ my 19 yo lover EN who has never experienced PVO despite my best efforts.
BTW, when I came back to SG last wk, after spending over a month at Gotham, I immediately noticed that XW's gait is less energetic, less fluid n she swings her hips noticeably much less haha. Of course I wont tell her that.
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