Do all of you hope to get married one day?

[doctrine]

Hi everyone. Just a simple question here. Not sure if posted before, but i hope people here will not find it silly. Just hope to generate some discussion.

Question as per the title.

Early 30s here. I personally do not like the idea of marriage. However, almost all of my friends(both male and female), said they wanna settle down.

I had a few relationships in the past, and did not like the idea of getting attached or married.

Reasons:

1. I love sex(i believe most do, in this forum), i love hot ladies, and i suppose i cannot settle for just one. It will be unfair to my other half if i were to find FLs or go on hookups if i get married or attached, hence it is better i remain single, to enjoy as much as i want. Maybe im just a bast**

2. As boss in this forum mentioned before, you get married if you are keen in fatherhood. I never like the idea of fatherhood, hence i guess it is better to stay clear of marriage.

3. No point getting a girlfriend if i dont wish to get married. And i guess no women will see me as long term relationship material anyway.

Am i considered an oddball with this sort of mindset?

Questions and comments welcomed. Please don't flame me, just hope to hear the views of more people.

Thank you in advance!

[squiggle]

As long you manage to find the one you like, same goes to her. Then marriage is a why not thing. Marriage is a personal and beautiful thing. Nobody can force you to marriage if you don't want to.

[cawca]

Originally Posted by doctrine

Hi everyone. Just a simple question here. Not sure if posted before, but i hope people here will not find it silly. Just hope to generate some discussion.

Question as per the title.

Early 30s here. I personally do not like the idea of marriage. However, almost all of my friends(both male and female), said they wanna settle down.

I had a few relationships in the past, and did not like the idea of getting attached or married.

Reasons:

1. I love sex(i believe most do, in this forum), i love hot ladies, and i suppose i cannot settle for just one. It will be unfair to my other half if i were to find FLs or go on hookups if i get married or attached, hence it is better i remain single, to enjoy as much as i want. Maybe im just a bast**

2. As boss in this forum mentioned before, you get married if you are keen in fatherhood. I never like the idea of fatherhood, hence i guess it is better to stay clear of marriage.

3. No point getting a girlfriend if i dont wish to get married. And i guess no women will see me as long term relationship material anyway.

Am i considered an oddball with this sort of mindset?

Questions and comments welcomed. Please don't flame me, just hope to hear the views of more people.

Thank you in advance!

Very good points and honest. I myself am married and I think marriage is more meant for those who want children.

[Facundo]

never married b4, so i think i will lor

[kisugi]

When the right girl comes along why not. But then you yourself are you prepared for marriage ? Or are you looking for marriage ?

[squiggle]

Originally Posted by cawca

Very good points and honest. I myself am married and I think marriage is more meant for those who want children.

I believe that marriage is just a system that made by man just to create to use law to protect/giving status/an answer to each other in a relationship. If a couple loving one another deeply, do they still even need to marriage? Same goes to going to school study, graduate and receive your cert.

[computerGuy]

i believe you will settle down when you found a right one, good luck TS

[pussluver]

Different people different opinion. Imho marriage is to tie down each other basically, making it difficult for either parties to let go. I said difficult, not impossible. Marriage is all about being responsible for each other and the extended family, inclusive.

If you are not ready, dont commit. If not its troublesome to get out.

[fictionman]

If dun get married & hv kids, who will take care of u when u r old???...

Now young can go out hv sex wz any gals...Wat happen when u r old & wrinkle??..Then mayb u will long for a family...Just my 3cents opinion only

[archer69]

Originally Posted by squiggle

I believe that marriage is just a system that made by man just to create to use law to protect/giving status/an answer to each other in a relationship. If a couple loving one another deeply, do they still even need to marriage? Same goes to going to school study, graduate and receive your cert.

Low-minded thinking.

[Ryoshohei]

To those who view marriage as just a piece of paper, I hope to illuminate your perception. Marriage is a commitment. One in which you give your love one, that you will stand by him/her no matter what. Of course people may say that you can do that without getting married. But I say, if its true (that you feel this way), what's stopping you from going through the ritual, announcing to everyone that you're married?

Of course this can only take place if you found that someone you can really settle down for the rest of your life. Alternative is that someone is very rich

[PaulMerson]

TS, no right or wrong in marriage?

[yachidino]

You must know how to different between fucking partner and marriage partner, and because always you got fucking partner. When you meet a marriage partner in sudden time is right to marriage and this may let you reject once or twice and you will become soft and get marriage.

[naemlo]

When u are single n getting old, u want to get marry but after u are married, u regret n want more freedom.

[HeadOn]

M approaching mid 40 n still single n dun think I will ever get married too. My current lifestyle just too Gd for me