Do all of you hope to get married one day?

[doctrine]

LOL. can't be bothered about people who hurl personal insults at forumers unrelated to them.

[dysfunk]

Originally Posted by Moderator88

I am divorced coz i spent too much time in those kampongs of wetnam! I guessed this is karma that hit me with a divorce! Dont assume your wife dont know you are fooling outside, they are just pretending not to know!Now i have repent and do lots of charities in wetnam helping those poor kids!

rtn u +3 ty bro

[ahpek64]

Originally Posted by HeadOn

When u r single u have lotsa freedom to do watever u wan or dun do watever u wan. Basically the world is under ur feet. Life short y get married n tie urself down.

When you are old and lonely you will think of getting married.

[HeadOn]

Originally Posted by ahpek64

When you are old and lonely you will think of getting married.

Probably. But marriage doesn't guarantee u will not b lonely. Maybe marriage will give u more problem u end up divorce n u r back to sq one. More pain in life

[ml1138]

[QUOTE=dysfunk

points return.......

[TwinTowers]

Originally Posted by doctrine

Is my english bad or you misread what i wrote? I did not mention getting married will turn a guy pot-bellied and

You have to excuse him as sometimes he has a spirit doing the thinking for him.

[S.B.Y.1]

You may want to consider common law marriage which Pak think is lawful in Singapore Law.

In Indonesia they have " kahwin kontrak" contractual marriage.

Normally it's practised out of more so on "convienence".

[HuggyFresh]

Originally Posted by ahpek64

When you are old and lonely you will think of getting married.

true to that

[webdust]

interesting thread!

[FreebiezWanker]

Marriage Is Overated.

[maxman]

Interestingly, both marriage and divorce are very stressful events.


Top 10 Most Stressful Life Events: the Holmes and Rahe Stress Scale
http://paindoctor.com/top-10-stressf...-stress-scale/

Holmes and Rahe Stress Scale

For adults, the top ten most stressful events and their “Life Change Unit” scores are as follows:
Death of a spouse: 100
Divorce: 73
Marital separation: 65
Imprisonment: 63
Death of a close family member: 63
Personal injury or illness: 53
Marriage: 50
Dismissal from work: 47
Marital reconciliation: 45
Retirement: 45

A score of 300 or higher puts a person at risk of illness, 150-299 shows a moderate risk of illness, and a score of less than 150 predicts only a slight risk of illness.

For “non-adults” and is scored in the same way:
Death of a parent: 100
Unplanned pregnancy/abortion: 100
Getting married: 95
Divorce of parents: 90
Acquiring a visible deformity: 80
Fathering a child: 70
Jail sentence of a parent for over one year: 70
Marital separation of parents: 69
Death of a sibling: 68
Change in acceptance by peers: 67

[herotan]

Originally Posted by doctrine

Hi everyone. Just a simple question here. Not sure if posted before, but i hope people here will not find it silly. Just hope to generate some discussion.

Question as per the title.

Early 30s here. I personally do not like the idea of marriage. However, almost all of my friends(both male and female), said they wanna settle down.

I had a few relationships in the past, and did not like the idea of getting attached or married.

Reasons:

1. I love sex(i believe most do, in this forum), i love hot ladies, and i suppose i cannot settle for just one. It will be unfair to my other half if i were to find FLs or go on hookups if i get married or attached, hence it is better i remain single, to enjoy as much as i want. Maybe im just a bast**

2. As boss in this forum mentioned before, you get married if you are keen in fatherhood. I never like the idea of fatherhood, hence i guess it is better to stay clear of marriage.

3. No point getting a girlfriend if i dont wish to get married. And i guess no women will see me as long term relationship material anyway.

Am i considered an oddball with this sort of mindset?

Questions and comments welcomed. Please don't flame me, just hope to hear the views of more people.

Thank you in advance!

Hi TS, IMHO, get married only when you think you are ready to settle down to start your second part of your life. There is alot of commitment to that. Having said that, nobody can guarantee a life time that things and emotions dun change. 10yrs later? 20yrs later? I used to think total full devotion to someone I loved. I was wrong. When it hits you, there is no stopping. Call me weak or watsoever.

[goodyluck]

I am married. and I love kids esp my own.
but I love sex too. so need to balance both.

[pcfj]

One of my married friend commented " marriage ends our freedom " .

[Ngengheng]

Originally Posted by squiggle

I believe that marriage is just a system that made by man just to create to use law to protect/giving status/an answer to each other in a relationship. If a couple loving one another deeply, do they still even need to marriage? Same goes to going to school study, graduate and receive your cert.

Marriage is just an institution...Can be together without the cert too. Why not?