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a warning to all. condom or bbbj is not 100% safe. result came b positive for hiv, herpes and chylamdia. my life is screwed. gd luck n take care. dun harm ur loves one. nv had any raw fj. only bbbj .
How common is catching any hiv from bbbj?
I am concerned as the FL was coughing quite a bit during the session, telling me her throat is pain.
I got a fever a week later. Not sure if those are symptoms
Not common...i have Never heard of anyone who got hiv from bbj .. however low risk doesnt mean no risk...
Forget abt the symptoms.. go for a checkup if u are worried..you could well gotten somwthing nastt from earlier exposure
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How common is catching any hiv from bbbj?
I am concerned as the FL was coughing quite a bit during the session, telling me her throat is pain.
I got a fever a week later. Not sure if those are symptoms
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Yes agreed. Getting HIV from unprotected insertive oral sex is almost unheard of.
IMO, 4th Gen test at 2 weeks is very indicative. I personally have diagnosed a number of HIV infections 2 weeks post exposure with the rapid 4th Gen.
However, any and all prudent logical doctors will still tell you to retest at 1 month. And that you must do.
Hi sir , I’m asking on behalf of a colleague who recently had a one night stand. Apparently the condom slip off at the end. He went to check after 15 days using 4th gen finger prick and result is negative.
Yes he is looking to do the reconfirmation at end of third months. However he looks worried Everyday now and anxious.
So my question is ; By the 15th day tests, it’s indicative in the sense is 95% certain he is negative already is it? Cause as a colleague work buddy I wish to set his mind down. It’s affecting me and those who knows him
Hi sir , I’m asking on behalf of a colleague who recently had a one night stand. Apparently the condom slip off at the end. He went to check after 15 days using 4th gen finger prick and result is negative.
Yes he is looking to do the reconfirmation at end of third months. However he looks worried Everyday now and anxious.
So my question is ; By the 15th day tests, it’s indicative in the sense is 95% certain he is negative already is it? Cause as a colleague work buddy I wish to set his mind down. It’s affecting me and those who knows him
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Hi sir , I’m asking on behalf of a colleague who recently had a one night stand. Apparently the condom slip off at the end. He went to check after 15 days using 4th gen finger prick and result is negative.
Yes he is looking to do the reconfirmation at end of third months. However he looks worried Everyday now and anxious.
So my question is ; By the 15th day tests, it’s indicative in the sense is 95% certain he is negative already is it? Cause as a colleague work buddy I wish to set his mind down. It’s affecting me and those who knows him
Well the ag/ab test before 1 month can’t be conclusive but do test around day 20 to day 23 as by then HIV antibody igM becomes detactable by 3rd and 4th gen test. As referenced to http://www.drtanandpartners.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/HIV-WIndow-Period.png
Not conclusive at day 20-23 but definitely more accurate then day 15.
Recently went for a bonk session at geylang. It was my 2nd time with her and asked if i have HIV cause she wanted to do raw. But i controlled myself and insisted on putting condom on for protection. After the session, i think back and got worried because i had bbbj with her and i finger her too. And i also notice some cuts on my finger. Wanna ask if having cuts on my finger and finger her will affect my chances of having hiv/stds? We also frenched. Will that increase the chance? Im most afraid of the bbbj and fingering her. Please advice. Im waiting for the window period to be done so that i can go for a test. Im feeling very nervous and the anxiety is really killing me.
your risk of getting HIV is low.. however low risk does not mean no risk.. yes iy is better to get yourself tested.
Also STI like herpes, gonorrhea and probably syphilis are the most common STI one gets from BBBJ ... go check for that too..
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Hi, i need advice from bros out there.
Recently went for a bonk session at geylang. It was my 2nd time with her and asked if i have HIV cause she wanted to do raw. But i controlled myself and insisted on putting condom on for protection. After the session, i think back and got worried because i had bbbj with her and i finger her too. And i also notice some cuts on my finger. Wanna ask if having cuts on my finger and finger her will affect my chances of having hiv/stds? We also frenched. Will that increase the chance? Im most afraid of the bbbj and fingering her. Please advice. Im waiting for the window period to be done so that i can go for a test. Im feeling very nervous and the anxiety is really killing me.
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I last had sex with a commercial sex worker on 9 Feb and last had bbbj from a health centre masseur on 18 March.
Is the result accurate if I go for anonymous 4th gen blood/oral fluid hiv & std testing?
Which clinic will you recommend?
I’m scare and worried to go for hiv/std testing as i can’t handle the fear/stress if the result turns out to be bad
Do all the bros here who bonk commercial sex workers go for regular hiv/std testing? I know of some guys who frequently rawed commercial sex workers but don’t regularly get tested for hiv/std.
were you wearing a condom when you engage the service of that WL on the 9 feb? if so then your risk wont be high.. and the risk of getting hiv from BBBJ is also low..
ignorance isnt bliss always.. the benefit of testing and knowing the result far outweigh the benefit of not knowing and living in anxiety always.. most Std has a cure.. go for the test.
i would recommend you visit afa.org.sg or dr tan for the anonymous 4th gen HIV test.. it is about 90% percent accurate after 28-30 days of exposure... if u are cleared..you will need to do another one in 3 months to be 99.9% sure..
i have no idea if most people here go for the test.. but it is highly recommended esp if you have a GF, wife, love ones and family.
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I last had sex with a commercial sex worker on 9 Feb and last had bbbj from a health centre masseur on 18 March.
Is the result accurate if I go for anonymous 4th gen blood/oral fluid hiv & std testing?
Which clinic will you recommend?
I’m scare and worried to go for hiv/std testing as i can’t handle the fear/stress if the result turns out to be bad
Do all the bros here who bonk commercial sex workers go for regular hiv/std testing? I know of some guys who frequently rawed commercial sex workers but don’t regularly get tested for hiv/std.
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