Sugar baby took money but disappear

[nachos84]

Anyway taking the hint from Sketch.. I believe this Wonderjes and Sleepyapple are probably the same girl.. similar age, vital stats, style of writing and modus operandi .. all seems rather similar.

So a word of precaution to the guys out here.. there is someone who is going around cheating.. she can always come out with another nick and email and then go around asking for SD.

Trick to prevent this from happening again is to follow the advises of the guys here.. no upfront transfer .. get to know the girl first

[postmortem]

Originally Posted by infinitiumus

Good points.

However, not all girls want to be SBs just for the money only. And FL - if becomes too regular, will also move into the territory of 'borrowing money' - the risk you highlighted for the SB.

Agree. Yes I do know of gals who want companionship as much as the guy does, and won't mind some extra pocket money if the guy is willing. Actually I do find these kind of gals most easy going and carefree. When you don't have a specific agenda or target, I guess you can be much more relaxed and behave more like your natural, usual self. Foot loose and fancy free, if you know what i mean.

I never let FLs try to borrow money from me. Want to borrow? Earn my trust first. I don't care if she has a dying grandmother or a 3 year old Shanghai-born son from a broken marriage with a fellow China dude to care for. (True stories actually told to me)

"Hear all, trust nothing" - Rule of Acquisition 190

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[zinedine zidane]

Sigh... Until now already 2015 still do such silly things. Why u guys nv learn one ar?

Teacher got teach or not? Yes...
You got pay attention or not? No...

Sua lah, write off this expensive lesson.

[DCS17]

Originally Posted by zinedine zidane

Sigh... Until now already 2015 still do such silly things. Why u guys nv learn one ar?

Teacher got teach or not? Yes...
You got pay attention or not? No...

Sua lah, write off this expensive lesson.

These days teacher never teach. They expect student to go "tuition" de wor.
Even if they teach, student think they smarter then teacher. Welcome to the generation of Internet. Where they think they are god when they read online and dun ever dare to set foot in real world. Learn and be learnt

[HeadOn]

Too many Lonely n horny guys to cheat.

[Sen5eS]

Originally Posted by WonderJes

why not paste the whole screenshot here and tell everyone what happen? U said u flying off to shanghai and u want me be ur sb, i said fine prove to me since you always agreed to meet and cant appear, then i told you i need to pay some debts urgently u agreed to help, then what next? You say u finding girlfriend not sb? Lols then endup u say this money is loan? And i need be ur gf? Of cus i play along with you, who ask u to be so cheapo. Finding sb but endup tell sb is finding gf? Now i ignore u , u sore and come to this forum and complain? Haha better tell forum ppl how u keep ask me be ur gf if u loan the money? Anyway u wan dig what report police or what jus go ahead. I will just stick to my story at police station.

TS - have you seen her Reply yet? she Jio u go ma da chu

[alexvaille]

Wa, power.. i m just amused that if indeed base on ts reply it is the sd fault, why play the disappearing game instead of meeting the sd n return him the money? If he is not ts cup of tea, i dun believe it is tht hard to just reject him. In addition, jus curious why the account number belong to a guy.

[nexusphone]

Originally Posted by alexvaille

Wa, power.. i m just amused that if indeed base on ts reply it is the sd fault, why play the disappearing game instead of meeting the sd n return him the money? If he is not ts cup of tea, i dun believe it is tht hard to just reject him. In addition, jus curious why the account number belong to a guy.

Isn't it obviously that the guy is the one orchestrating the scam?

Anyway you find an SB already?

[nachos84]

Originally Posted by alexvaille

Wa, power.. i m just amused that if indeed base on ts reply it is the sd fault, why play the disappearing game instead of meeting the sd n return him the money? If he is not ts cup of tea, i dun believe it is tht hard to just reject him. In addition, jus curious why the account number belong to a guy.

Bro. Nice power of deduction. Cry foul but keep the money?

[MystoJ]

No choice usually we men will start to use our big brother to think. Always remember do not pay upfront. Chances are u will Nv see your money turning into what you want. I have already learned my lesson...luckily is small amount...

Wah sad leh dunno who hate me ah... Zap me till -1

[masterwanker]

Originally Posted by jtjr3112

Guys i check with the bank. The account holder not even Girl name. The guy name is called lee kian long. You better beware i will csi you out and find you

If have enough evidence that this is a scam you can make a police report .

[Sketch]

Originally Posted by nachos84

Very well said.. and much appreciated for the free advise bro

Originally Posted by masterwanker

If have enough evidence that this is a scam you can make a police report .

Actually just curious - if you tell the bank that you have transferred the money to a wrong account, would the banks retrieve the money back for you? Provided you can prove that you were transferring to Person A but Person B got the cash?

[nachos84]

Originally Posted by Sketch

Actually just curious - if you tell the bank that you have transferred the money to a wrong account, would the banks retrieve the money back for you? Provided you can prove that you were transferring to Person A but Person B got the cash?

sadly the bank still needs the permission of the 'wrong' guy to allow them to transfer back. Stupid but that's how it is.

And the person who is orchestrating this scam is also reading this. So warning to the bros here.. NO transfer. NO upfront payment.

[melonmilk]

being 'despo' to secure a 'deal' is one thing.
but being 'despo' to the extend of not able to think logically is something which cannot be defended.

[bernardlee]

Not easy to think straight when little brother takes over the control. Sigh.